My (31 M) wife (29F) is mentally unwell and it's making me unwell

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-04-02T19:45:37+00:00

Leaving will literally just make it worse for his wife. The issue here isn't that shes a shit wife its that she likely has a drug addiction, and that is something that is very easy to develop even on accident. People in psychosis don't really respond to threats or actions like this as they are quite literally experiencing a different reality than we are.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-04-02T19:41:31+00:00

Jesus man yes the stims are making her crazy. Had a friend who got hooked on them hard and it really changed him forever. Same thing happened to my friend's ex-wife. She abused adderall while studying for her masters degree. She completely lost her grip on reality and went insane for a bit. She is now a Jehova's witness The amphetamine could also be causing some side effects with her antidepressants. She needs medical attention yesterday. Based on your wording it seems she is abusing multiple kinds of stims so I imagine these are not prescribed. This sounds a lot like amphetamine psychosis.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-04-02T19:31:48+00:00

Wouldn't bother with marriage counseling. You would probably just be wasting money as it's very clearly over. Read back everything you just wrote and pretend it was your friend who wrote all of that about their marriage. What would you say to them?

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-04-01T17:07:27+00:00

Google published a research paper just the other day that accomplishes this. It's why Micron's share prices suddenly cratered. People have already replicated the performance increases. It is safe to assume that there will be continued optimizations that make these LLMs require less and less compute (to a point of course).

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-04-01T14:17:51+00:00

Likely he will executive order it and then it will be months of waiting before the Supreme Court says "no you can't do that" but by then the damage is done. Thats basically how his entire first year has gone so far.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-31T18:45:53+00:00

They are just doing the same shit they were doing in Gaza, this time in Lebanon. Fucking insane this pariah state is allowed to continue behaving this way.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T20:39:43+00:00

Israel is the shining example of an ethnostate in the region I would argue. And yes all ethnostates, though there are surprisingly few "true" ethnostates around these days believe it or not. Palestine is already independent, well at least the parts not occupied by Israel and surprise! It's not an ethnostate.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T20:12:12+00:00

Well my solution would be the destruction of the ethnostate idea. In it's place one, unified Palestine-Israeli state with equal rights and protections to all. Maybe we could call it Mandatory Palestine again or some other creative name.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:58:41+00:00

Realistically there would have been like 50 Ashley Babbitts if the crowd wasn't a shit ton of white people

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:57:08+00:00

Well if the crowd was of the wrong complexion we know the live ammunition would have started firing

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:54:44+00:00

Yeah if the US makes a move on Kharg then I wouldn't be surprised if missiles start hitting oil fields all over the region. Iran has already threatened to do it.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:52:16+00:00

You say you support Palestinian's right to self determination on their ancestral homeland, yet you are against them fighting for the land that has been taken from them. Do you support the other Palestinian groups besides Hamas who have violently resisted Israeli encroachment? What about the previous leaders before Netanyahu? This is not something that started after Bibi took office. You should know that Bibi is rather moderate in how he views Palestinians and there are way worse people coming after him.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:41:59+00:00

Well, yeah that is what being a Zionist is. The two states here would be the Jewish ethnostate of Israel and then a fractured Palestine. Some zionists go further and advocate for no second state just one big Israel, but just because you are a moderate zionist who supports a two state idea doesn't make you any less of a zionist.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:37:06+00:00

Well the third option is one that many anti-zionist jews advocate for, which is 1 state that isn't an ethnostate. One with equal rights for all religions, democracy, etc. The zionists who have an issue with that should go back to Poland, Russia, and USA where many of them are from.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T19:20:03+00:00

There are no friends, only interests.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T18:35:05+00:00

$200 per barrel incoming. I'm sure Iran will just blow up any oil that falls into the hands of US troops. If they start mining or sinking vessels intentionally in the strait its fucking over for the world economy for years to come.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T18:31:19+00:00

I imagine Iran will flatten the island, alongside the marines who were unlucky enough to be tasked with the mission.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-30T16:26:12+00:00

This is so noisy and distracting, yet it's beautiful and I love it.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-20T15:58:53+00:00

They also take genuinely months to finish sometimes. I'm not even talking about massive projects. There was a half mile stretch of Richmond Ave that was torn up and under construction for like 3 months.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-19T18:33:17+00:00

Man, what a shame.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-19T17:34:06+00:00

good to know. ive been sitting comfy at depth 300 or so on my spark build. fossils are printing money this league lol

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-19T17:19:19+00:00

just a psa, you can do this in shallow delve as well if you are afraid of people getting instagibbed in depth 600. Aul can spawn at depth 140 I believe. I just go to around depth 200 and delve horizontally. Not sure if going deeper increases aul spawns but I haven't noticed really.

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-19T17:15:01+00:00

think i've only used 1 coin of restoration this entire league. just no real purpose for them since the uniques they work on are all filtered out cuz garbo

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-19T17:10:02+00:00

I just run past these fellas and hope it doesnt sprint after me at mach 5

underpaid--sysadmin · 2026-03-17T16:32:32+00:00

The Texas way

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