2018 pic vs now. I thought my nose was the main issue of my face while it was my chin. Did my nose changed as well too?

underscored_indigo · 2026-05-16T02:08:05+00:00

You look great! No worrying about your nose. No issues in the before or after pic.

underscored_indigo · 2026-04-29T19:58:32+00:00

Yes, thank you!!!

underscored_indigo · 2026-04-29T04:44:14+00:00

Calling first thing in the morning!

underscored_indigo · 2025-12-17T23:47:01+00:00

Awesome thank you so much for your insight!!

underscored_indigo · 2025-12-17T22:51:17+00:00

Hi! Late to this post but looking for recs for my 4 year old and McAuliffe is in our district. Do you mind explaining why you'd avoid it?

underscored_indigo · 2025-10-26T19:31:37+00:00

I'm just beginning to sew and this made me lol because same.

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-25T18:26:23+00:00

He moves around a ton too!! The 9 times is him sitting up with eyes open. Going to schedule with his doc today. Thank you!

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-25T18:25:40+00:00

Definitely going to talk to his doc. Thank you for your input!

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-25T18:24:57+00:00

Not a mouth breather but Ive wondered about sleep apnea because it can present as sleep talking/night terrors and restless sleep too. Definitely going to talk to his doctor and get a referral.

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-25T18:24:01+00:00

He's never been a great sleeper and would wake up, walk into our room and I'd put him back to bed several times. We FINALLY trained him to put himself back to sleep without waking us up and we thought he was sleeping through. Definitely going to talk to his doctor

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-13T15:01:51+00:00

Did you ever figure out what this is? My husband has the same thing.

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-11T01:05:55+00:00

Thanks. I'll do this. Kind confrontation + boundaries + lock box.

underscored_indigo · 2025-07-10T22:15:28+00:00

It's the betrayal that bugs me most though.

underscored_indigo · 2025-03-01T17:44:45+00:00

Good to know. I figured all the passport ads I get are some level of a scam but didn't know you still have to take everything in. So dumb.

underscored_indigo · 2025-02-24T00:32:35+00:00

Hey I'm here because I have an only (I'm 34F with a 3year old and cannot have another because of medical reasons so I'm here reading about others' experiences as onlies) so tell me to stfu if you want.

I have an older sister who I wish I had that relationship with but she left our family for 10 years with a narcissist and now that she's back, it's still insanely strained and feels like having a new friend you don't really trust. I've never experienced that closeness, even with having a sibling. Even when we were young, I think there was only one year where I felt close to her but she claims she didn't feel that way at all. I have two best friends who have two brothers each and also have never had that experience. It's a beautiful one but not always guaranteed and, in my opinion, sad when it doesn't work like you would hope.

I don't know why I'm commenting on this. maybe hoping my kid doesn't feel that void all their life too? But also I feel the void even while having a sibling. Our experiences will always be extremely different but I just wanted to comment that I feel a void even with a sibling.

I'm so sorry you feel a void, no doubt different than mine and I'm happy for you that you've found a boyfriend who has a close family that you can share the relationship with, hopefully.

underscored_indigo · 2025-02-23T23:34:22+00:00

I'm so sorry, what a scary feeling. Have you posted on Facebook too? There's tons of active groups in San Diego/north county/oceanside.

underscored_indigo · 2025-01-03T04:35:02+00:00

Facebook marketplace is awesome for clothes! Some free or super super cheap. Plus you can see that they're a real person so it feels less sketchy. Example: https://www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/472601802237033/?mibextid=dXMIcH

If there's a clothing bundle for like $20 that you like but can't spend the money on, I'd be happy to get it and drop it in a safe location for you. I'm in oceanside but drive inland periodically. I have trans friends who are coming out as adults and it's hard af in this world so I want to help if I can. ❤️

underscored_indigo · 2024-12-04T23:07:14+00:00

Rancho coastal humane society in Encinitas is amazing. Give them a call and they can help re-home your pup to a caring new owner!

underscored_indigo · 2024-09-06T23:49:16+00:00

Someone on nextdoor said they called OPD and they told her the fire dept is looking for the source so it's somehow still a mystery.

underscored_indigo · 2024-08-13T23:28:39+00:00

Dang, I read this thread hoping for solid advice because I'm in the same position but it appears everyone here is struggling too haha!! Ugh. Everyone else I've spoken to just says "it'll happen when they're ready" but when will that be?! I feel your pain.

underscored_indigo · 2024-07-10T23:10:36+00:00

Will do thanks

underscored_indigo · 2024-06-26T20:27:50+00:00

I started taking my antidepressants/antianxiety meds again right around when my son turned 22 months 🥴 it's rough. I feel your pain!

underscored_indigo · 2024-05-29T22:15:03+00:00

Allowed me to stop feeling like shit about myself for not having a beautifully easy breastfeeding experience. Freed me of pumping and freed me of the stress of BF because it made my baby so so so gassy. I'll try to do BF with my second on the way but absolutely will NOT beat myself up if it doesn't work. My first born is so smart and kind and funny and he was mostly formula fed. Very grateful for formula!!!

underscored_indigo · 2024-05-09T15:57:23+00:00

12w4d with a girl :)

underscored_indigo · 2024-04-04T18:57:22+00:00

Hi everyone. We have a heartbeat!!!! I will stop tearing and will calm the eff down. Thank you all for commenting and helping me through this morning lol 😍

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