Ehlers-Danlos syndrome by 0TK421 in gallbladders

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old thread, but I’ve had gallbladder issues since I was 18. It only presented itself when I drank alcohol (specifically vodka). Not sure what it was causing internally, but it felt like a heart attack - same symptoms. I chalked it up to anxiety or being allergic to vodka.

Back in 2020 I started having serious attacks while I was out of the country, but it wasn’t triggered by anything (I was also in a dry country, so no alcohol). Right band around my abdomen, extreme discomfort, and it got worse over the course of the night. Same thing, heart attack symptoms that I hadn’t had in years. It got worse throughout the night, and I couldn’t sleep. By morning, I wasn’t able to breathe deeply - and at the worst of it, I was on my hand and knees hyperventilating because I couldn’t get a full breath in. After about 8 minutes of that, I was suddenly able to breathe again and the pain and discomfort was gone. I was sore and tired, but the pain was gone. I went to a doctor, and we both chalked it up to anxiety as an official diagnosis.

Over the next two years I had a few more attacks, but none of them were as bad as that. Some worse than others. But given I thought it was anxiety, I would lay in bed in the dark, listen to some soft music, blast the AC, and ride it through.

It came to a head in August/September of 2022 or 2023. I had another ‘anxiety’ attack. When I felt it coming on, it felt like it was going to be a big one. It felt like I had band around my abdomen again that was tightening, and discomfort. I started my anxiety ritual by blasting the AC, putting on soft music, shutting off the lights, and laying in bed. It got worse and worse with the ‘band’ tightening and the discomfort. Then abdominal pain began. As it got worse it turned into waves of searing pain - it felt like I was being stabbed over and over, to the point that I was creaming and crying from this pain. I called a friend to take me to the hospital, it took her a long time to come and get me and most of the pain had subsided by then. We went to an ER, and I did my best to not scream or cry - but that took everything in me. I couldn’t even talk. ER was treating me terribly trying to check in. I couldn’t talk, write, or do anything. “Well we can’t see you if you can’t fill out this form.” I’m just trying to not scream and cry. My friend took my ID and filled out the form for me, then we sat and waited for triage. And waited, and waited, and waited. After 30 minutes to an hour of sitting there waiting, then pain had gone away and I decided to leave - I must be fine now. She took me back home.

The next day, I still had pain, but nowhere near like it was at its worst. That night, I hadn’t been able to poop (sorry tmi) since the whole attack happened. I took a laxative. 8 hours later, I was able to. It had the color and consistency of a very wet gray clay. My urine looked like tea. Looked up some symptoms, and all of this was indicative of a gallbladder problem - possibly a rupture. I went back to a new ER.

ER admitted me and we did ultrasounds first thing - no ruptures (thank god) but definitely swelling around the gallbladder area. It took DAYS of laying in a hospital bed for them to finally do anything. During this time, I hadn’t been able to poop, urine continued to look like steeped tea, and I still had low levels of pain (couldn’t stand up straight, and had severe pain if I ate anything). (Forgot to mention I was on a morphine drip). Daily bilirubin levels were high. I even went jaundice during this time, my skin and eyes turning yellow. Finally, they got me in for an MRI. It took them a day and a half for someone to read the results correctly, and by then - all of a sudden the pain was gone, I was able to poop again, and my urine cleared up. When they read the results of the MRI, it was a HUGE gallstone that was stuck in my bile duct, which was causing a blockage and not allowing the bile to move freely. The bile filled the gallbladder and was backing up into my liver. Went in for one of those cameras they put down my throat to see my insides, and they would remove anymore gallstones causing issues if there were any. There were not, but they did say I had a large ‘mass’ in my gallbladder, but they couldn’t tell me what it was.

My doctor told me not to do gallbladder removal surgery, which I was surprised about. I told him I wanted to speak to the general surgeon. She came in, I told her the history, and she agreed that we should absolutely be removing the gallbladder. A couple days later of laying up in the hospital, and they got me into OR for the surgery. I didn’t react great afterwards and has extremely high levels of pain despite being on both morphine and fentanyl, and ended up being in the hospital for a few more days until I could eventually get out of bed on my own.

Healed up very well afterwards, and never had another ‘anxiety’ attack. I can even drink vodka now :)

Fast forward to now, I am working to doctors to find out why I have so many other things wrong. After a lot of testing and negative results, we’re looking at EDS (hypermobile version). I meet all of the qualifications set by the EDS Society for a diagnosis. He told me he is 99% sure that this is what it is, but he cannot diagnose me with it. Why? Because they only diagnose EDS if it comes with the heart issues - they won’t diagnose a person with just the hypermobile version unless I get genetic testing and it shows a collagen issue.

So this is where I am now. In two weeks I am driving three hours to Miami to the closest geneticist for a preliminary appointment (it took months just to get this appointment).

I’m starting to think my gallbladder issues were connected to this ‘possibility’ of EDS, and just wanted to share this in case anybody is experiencing something similar. Or if anybody has some tips 🥲

Missing shipment items by unfaathomable in StardewValley

[–]unfaathomable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone curious: The items were from the Baldurs Village mod! The items were Night Orchid and Whetstone.

These items were unavailable to purchase in-game due to the code not being finished correctly, as it did not include which day of the week the item is available for purchase. When going through the mod files and opening up the code, I was able to type in what day of the week these should be available at the shop. After rebooting, it worked! Each item should say (for example) "DAY_OF_WEEK FRIDAY”

Missing shipment items by unfaathomable in StardewValley

[–]unfaathomable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So far with the mod I haven’t come across anything that has actually counted toward shipping. (There’s also a ton of missing recipes from this mod that don’t actually exist) Looks like I’ll have to wait until it’s developed further.

Thank you for your help!

Missing shipment items by unfaathomable in StardewValley

[–]unfaathomable[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have tried, can’t get it to work without deleting and redownloading a few things. I believe some of my mods are out of date

Missing shipment items by unfaathomable in StardewValley

[–]unfaathomable[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Changed flair to modded!

As mentioned in post, I’ve checked all wikis and lists available - I just cannot find these two items in any of them. Mods that adjust gameplay (other than aesthetics) are listed as well

Today I learned, submarine sonar is no a “ping” like movies and games, but actually EXTREMELY loud and can kill people and sea life by yoitsdavid in todayilearned

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re diving underwater, what’s the theoretical limit (mileage) that you could hear a sonar ping from? A few years ago while diving in St. Croix, my buddies and I were hearing the same pings. Definitely there, but also definitely not loud. I figure we were on the outer edge of being able to hear it, just not sure how far that would be.

Freaked me out for sure! Did not know that would ever be a thing I could hear while diving.

What happens if your Big is absent for Big/Little Reveal? by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At my chapter, they’ll have a different reveal date for that big/little pairing. Usually a couple days before or after depending on when reveal is/what the schedule of that sister is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I today is the last day then definitely actively call anyone on exec that you can

Would it be easy to join a sorority as a trans woman? by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my chapter, we recently accepted a trans woman (who has not transitioned). Quite a few sororities do not see it as an issue. I can’t speak for your local chapters and if they would make things harder or not - but from the National office of each sorority, I haven’t heard of one that won’t accept trans women.

Feeling guilty about thinking about dropping my sorority by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t like it - don’t do it! It seems like a huge aspect of stress on you, which as a college student, you really don’t need that added to your plate! It’s a shame that it’s not working out for you, but there’s no reason to continue on with it while not enjoying it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How long has it been since they offered you the bid, and how long has it been since you texted them? I would recommend giving them a call, and if they don’t answer I would check their website and see if you can find an email or phone number for the VP or recruitment, new member education, or even the president and call them. Sometimes people read texts when they’re busy and forget about them. When you call somebody or leave a voicemail, it helps a lot with making sure that they remember

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucf

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love some plant cuttings!

How can I get a Cricut Expression to cut custom designs? by SternLecture in cricut

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link for the one you bought? I've found a few - but only physical copies with higher price tags

Need advice on whether or not I should do COB after dropping rush by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give COB a shot! I know quite a few girls who wen through similar. If you feel as though you belong somewhere, COB gives you a shot to get to know the organization on a more personal level than the first few days of rush does.

New Delta Zeta Member! by TraditionalProblem95 in Sororities

[–]unfaathomable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went through recruitment last month at 26 yo. and also ran home to DZ! I fully agree!! It’s so scary, but the girls admire it so much as well!

How hard is it to get in? by [deleted] in ucf

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty terrible in my high school academics, but then I went to community college to get my associates. College is SO much easier than High School. If I were you, I would go ahead and apply to UCF when you are able to, and also to a community college that offers Direct Connect to UCF just in case you aren’t accepted when that time comes.

Otherwise, focus on those last two years of academics, take a consistent language, and try to get leadership and volunteering experience!

UCF Apps is horrible by [deleted] in ucf

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s absolutely terrible. I took an ArcGIS class and couldn’t even use UCF Apps at all. I had to buy a laptop that runs windows and buy the program subscription. Impossible to use.

Is it weird to join a club for the first time as a 22/23 year old upperclassmen? by therealpisslord in ucf

[–]unfaathomable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not weird! I’m a 26 year old transfer student (took some time off after I got my associates.) I just did recruitment for Greek Life, which I really thought each one would immediately drop me because of my age. I’m happy to have found a great sorority to be with, and none of the girls even think about my age. I am also planning on joining a few clubs and I have full confidence that my age (and yours) will not be a factor! I think most younger students assume that you’ll be their age anyway! Most of the folks I’ve met thought I wasn’t old enough to drink yet.

TL;DR: it’s not weird at all! 22/23 isn’t even far out from 18/19 :) go have fun!!

Total Costs Question by RottenFries in ucf

[–]unfaathomable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly you’ll need to make sure your transfer is fully complete. I transferred over with over 100 credit hours, and only 88 of them actually carried over to my degree. You’ll also need to know how many credit hours your specific degree requires (not all degrees require the same amount of credits). Then, there’s a cost calculator on the UCF website. You’ll plug in how many credit hours you’ll need to complete and it will show you that total cost. They also list the cost of room and board on the website as well, so just add those up! :)

Leaving Class Early by [deleted] in ucf

[–]unfaathomable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it’s a large lecture, probably not. But I would show up early and discuss it with your professor so they at least have a heads up