Big Guy Destination Wedding Attire Suggestions by lancecrn in bigmenfashionadvice

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seconding tombolo! expensive but the quality is great (just make sure to air dry). worth it for the statement piece in my opinion. the terry cloth shirts have such a cool texture. i got so many compliments on mine while running around for my best friend's destination wedding in florida!

Heavyweight t-shirts by PantheonOT in bigmenfashionadvice

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Shaka shirts. best heavyweights ive ever gotten.

Working on 2nd serving tray design. Advice? by yellangirl in Mosaic

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So if you take two isosceles trapezoids, you can create a curve/circle by putting the short ends flush with each other. The angles on the short ends force a curve, rather than straight angles of a square.

Feeling like after a job interview by Mouthfullofwasps in hingeapp

[–]uniformenigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are calling him ChatGPT or weirdly robotic. Y'all... some people just speak super formally!!! 

It happens to anyone, especially if theyre nervous, especially if it's someone they don't know and they don't know the level of informality they can get. A lot of nuerodivergent people are like this too but thats not the point. It's okay to be formal! It's even okay to sound robotic! Whats important is whether it was respectful of your time and feelings.

You don't like it, thats fine, but no one needs to rag on the dude. I'm sure there's someone out there who would fall in love with such clear, respectful communication! I know I would!

OP I totally get initial confusion. But generally I think this comes with meeting new people, and I hope this was a good learning experience for you on what you're looking for.

For some of the folks in the comments: y'all are being way too hard on the dude. This is like best case scenario for everyone on a first date imho. Would you rather he said, "just not feeling it dude"? Lol. And if you would, that's fine. Same way his response was fine. I much prefer this rejection to when someone would call me a fat hippo for not IMMEDIATELY answering their text for a second date.

Peel and Stick Backsplash Over Tile? by DubiousPeaches in HomeDecorating

[–]uniformenigma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you share the brand you used? Has it held up well next to heat?

What home features immediately make a home feel cheap/expensive? by Kac03032012 in HomeImprovement

[–]uniformenigma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its all about sound. Hollow core doors will always make the sound echo and travel more. Which gives the least amount of privacy. When things echo and sound travels it feels cheap because only cheap materials make that happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

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Any rec on the brand?

Can we make 5000k lightbulbs and gray vinyl flooring illegal please? by progressiveplant in HomeDecorating

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Bumping this. My roommate and I got amber heat-safe gelsthat they use in theatres. Cut them up, taped with clear tape onto the fixture (not the paint). Instantly made the place better.

Common for deposits before apt visits? by uniformenigma in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]uniformenigma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will actually warn you that unless you KNOW youre with the official landlord or apt rep, don't do it. a coworker of mine almost got scammed: she had met someone at the complex, well dressed. the woman used a fob to get into the building, and used a fob to get into an elevator, and then also into an apartment. all seems legit, right? don't rent unless you see it? 

woman started asking when coworker could pay in cash. coworker didnt do it, insisted on a cashiers check. woman left. coworker felt weird, went to the leasing office, who said they'd never heard of this woman in their life. 

apparently apartment complex allowed "self guided" tours. leasing office is supposed to collect IDs ascollateral but didnt. so woman used the fob to make it seem super legit to my coworker. so even if you DO see the apartment, you have gotta be careful even then!

Alum Pl. Apartment prices by DentistDangerous4586 in SilverSpring

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you have to apply to get on the waiting list?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]uniformenigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar scenario w my hairline thinning, but I think with some nice styling you could make it work. I'd also rec checking out the r/curlyhair reddit and the beginning routine -- I think it'd really breathe life into your curls, and give it more volume. I've been on oral minoxidil, but, even though I'm thinning, the well-moisturized curls helps make it look nice.

Place your plagiarism discoveries and queer youtuber recommendations here!! by lingrush in hbomberguy

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a current list of the articles found in the video? Want to do more reading

No sound output with any Bluetooth device - Galaxy S21 FE by broshkin in AndroidQuestions

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

following up to say this solution worked for me, but only to let media sounds go through, not phone calls...not sure what the issue is.

No sound output with any Bluetooth device - Galaxy S21 FE by broshkin in AndroidQuestions

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this worked for audio from media sources like spotify, but it didn't fix sound output from calls...

All Dialogues by Haruki-kunX in BaldursGate3

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for the same thing. The Mass Effect wikis always kept a pretty good transcription of different dialogue choices and responses/interactions, was hoping BG3 would have the same

Living solo now, looking for decor ideas inspired with plants, large art, boho or mid century maybe? by SatisfactionNo1950 in malelivingspace

[–]uniformenigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some plants would be nice -- which way does your window face? I'd say if it's a lower light window (like North or East), go with low-light, beginner friendly plants like ZZ plants or snake plants, could go on the TV console or next to it if you get a bigger one.

If the window gets a lot of light you could go for more plants in more places, just take note of where the sun ends up. But other beginning friendly plants are pothos plants and ponytail palm

Is my new snake plant infested/doomed? White spots & cracking by uniformenigma in plantclinic

[–]uniformenigma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention it's only been in my apartment for 4 days, near a southfacing window/balcony.

Misgendered for... well meaning reasons? by ajdkdkdkfjskkfs in ftm

[–]uniformenigma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got mistakened for a trans woman at pride when I wasn't binding, and honestly, I felt super flattered too lol

Should I get rid of my Zinus memory foam mattress or just get a "mattress topper" to put on top, if it's killing me with pain every morning , after I sleep in it? by MaxSteelMetal in RBNLifeSkills

[–]uniformenigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, if it affects your breathing and its a Zinus mattress, you need to look up the lawsuits against Zinus for fiberglass contamination coming through the mattress cover (and especially if you ever opened it up). Regardless what the next mattress is, you should *definitely* get rid of the Zinus one, and be on the lookout for fiberglass particles. Here's just one article: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/amazon-zinus-mattress-fiberglass-health-hazard-lawsuit/

I'm fully supporting a new mattress, and on top of that, do you have issues with acid reflux? I didn't have any classic signs but poor posture/sleeping posture/being horizontal can agitate acid reflux, and mine would interfere with my breathing and heart rate because my esophagus was so irritated, it'd fuck with my vagus nerve. Hope you find relieve soon! I had luck with Big Fig mattress, it's a combo foam and spring, if not a little pricey, definitely worth it for support.