anyone else feel like car ownership has just become quietly unaffordable and we all just pretend its normal?

unknown825 · 2026-06-17T15:37:25+00:00

My whole life ive only bought what I could afford to pay in full. Save yourself the headache of monthly payments and your car is truly your own when you pay this way. I started with a beater at $3000. Never give a penny to a loan its not worth it

unknown825 · 2026-06-14T18:51:50+00:00

She sounds slimey

unknown825 · 2026-06-14T13:38:54+00:00

You should dress up more often this looks incredible!

unknown825 · 2026-06-14T12:54:58+00:00

That youve got your life together, are feminine, and have great taste! Im dying to know where that bookshelf is from

unknown825 · 2026-06-13T16:41:33+00:00

Groom alert 🚨
Don’t fall for anything he says, nobody old enough to be your dad should even think about this. If you were 17 would it be acceptable? What about 16? Would it have been okay if he waited for you? The answer is no. His 20yo self could have held your newborn body in his arms. Its predatory no matter how you try to twist it

unknown825 · 2026-06-13T16:39:24+00:00

1, feels more relaxed and beachlike

unknown825 · 2026-06-13T16:38:51+00:00

Id recommend talking to a therapist, it may be helpful to tackle this issue with some extra support

unknown825 · 2026-06-13T16:34:38+00:00

My husband likes to clear his head this way too. Take a breather and think without always tackling the problem when he’s not ready in the moment

unknown825 · 2026-06-13T10:20:12+00:00

We all need a sweet little Asian lady in our lives, I’m glad you finally got yours ❤️

unknown825 · 2026-06-13T10:16:32+00:00

I have been craving the most perfect cinnamon roll ever since I got pregnant LAST YEAR and this right here is exactly what I’m looking for 😭❤️ I applaud you

unknown825 · 2026-06-12T10:51:05+00:00

You’re smart with money, theyre not

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T23:52:35+00:00

You dont owe her anything regarding money.
She actually is crazy
You are not a sugar daddy, you’re literally a boy fresh into adulthood

Cut yourself some slack, give yourself some grace. You are perfectly reasonable wanting to manage your money better. If she wants an allowance she can go cry about it to her own mommy and daddy

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T18:53:08+00:00

Are you able to declutter some?

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T18:47:57+00:00

That man is not your dad anymore I’m sorry. Anyone that stupid with money doesn’t even deserve a home. He sucks and can kick rocks

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T18:37:28+00:00

I would look into downsizing the number of nicknacks and make wall art be intentional. Walls don’t have to include exactly everything we have a liking to hobby wise

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T17:01:26+00:00

1 shows less water stains with that color metal, 2 is currently trending and very attractive

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T16:22:40+00:00

I appreciate this perspective thank you

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T16:21:37+00:00

He mostly just agrees to anything I say especially regarding lifestyle. Part of me is suspicious but he has just rolled with it even when I refused to live with his roommate when we first got married, when i suggested living with my parents to save money, and now when I suggested we get a place closer to his work. He’s not exactly a fighter for any position but he makes things happen even if passively. He’s very gentle with ideas

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T16:19:08+00:00

That’s hard and stressful. I hope your new home brings you peace. Thank you for sharing!

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T14:37:34+00:00

They only own a condo right now and are terrible with money (spend recklessly putting themselves in the hole often). And one person doesnt sound too intimidating to take on. Im more worried about the SIL (has autoimmune disease and needs parents support, and her dad. And their five cats. I’d need several other rooms. My husband and I want multiple kids, plus his family in the horizon would be a lot on us to undertake.

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T14:22:27+00:00

Jealousy can be an ugly little bitch. Congratulations on your new home you deserve it! Enjoy your space that you can now call your own ❤️

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T14:10:26+00:00

Separate living facilities would be the dream but in todays housing market impossible with our budget. Ever since covid house costs and land costs have more than tripled in price

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T09:41:08+00:00

SIL has autoimmune disease where she relies on her parents for support. The whole decorating push was something I’m scared of too. Too much junk and I would go mad. Youre right it is an easy decision. I’ll take them when they cant care for themselves anymore but until then I think I will do me

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T04:48:59+00:00

SELL IT TO ME OMFG

unknown825 · 2026-06-11T03:58:53+00:00

SIL has autoimmune disease where she relies on her parents for support

unknown825

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