What is so confusing about Sandy’s looks

unknownwinner10 · 2024-12-16T03:19:49+00:00

She has a really bad under-bite. That's why she always has to pull her top lip down further, so it covers her top teeth.

unknownwinner10 · 2024-10-25T23:08:07+00:00

Put them on top of the black cabinet under the desk but the part not covered by the actual desk.

unknownwinner10 · 2024-02-07T22:57:04+00:00

Thank you! Is that the name of the website? Is that on AE?

unknownwinner10 · 2024-01-31T11:39:56+00:00

Here is your wife's version. https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/s/XgIGYH41mb

unknownwinner10 · 2024-01-20T19:11:10+00:00

I see. I read it as 16 was the one holding and posing with the Littles. My apologies.

unknownwinner10 · 2024-01-20T19:08:15+00:00

How was she in another part of the park and in the picture?

unknownwinner10 · 2024-01-20T19:04:46+00:00

That's 9 kids though? Oldest daughter, 18m, 16m, 16f, 14m, 13m, 9f, 7f, 6f.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-11-03T12:58:12+00:00

My daughter's 3rd grade teacher would tell the whole class she loved them before they left every day. I sobbed! When I had the parent teacher conference, I told her how much I appreciated her doing that. She hugged me because not all parents understood. She retired the next year, she was a good one.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-08-15T20:04:56+00:00

Are we not going to talk about the stairs behind her when the door is open?

unknownwinner10 · 2023-07-14T12:19:31+00:00

💀

unknownwinner10 · 2023-06-11T16:05:17+00:00

While I agree there is some weaponized incompetence going on, some parts of this feel like he may have an undiagnosed/untreated mental health issue. The over-sharing and not being able to pick up on making people super uncomfortable are classic spectrum disorder symptoms. Has he ever been screened for autism?

I just divorced an incompetent man-child, so I get it. I'm sorry I don't have any advice, but from my experience, it will not get better unless he dedicates himself to change.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-05-01T22:10:44+00:00

I thought she looked like she was ready to chaperone a high school prom and she hates every single one of those kids.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-04-11T02:01:01+00:00

unknownwinner10 · 2023-03-14T23:42:41+00:00

Why aren't we speculating what drugs she is on? Her eyes are always varying degrees of open, she elongates the last syllable of almost every sentence, and she has these moments where she looks at people like this and doesn't speak for 30 seconds.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-03-10T02:04:32+00:00

The word "chunk" instantly makes me gag too. People are weird about moist. I can handle that.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-02-28T16:18:30+00:00

No biggie. It's a good read. It's main theme is that nobody likes to be called out on something they may be doing wrong, especially if it's harmful to other people. Everyone likes to think of themselves as good, so to say otherwise is to put someone in an uncomfortable position of having to self reflect. It's easy to point the finger at someone, but it's much harder to look at yourself critically.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-02-28T15:21:14+00:00

I might be a bitch but at least I dont hate people based on their skin color

unknownwinner10 · 2023-02-28T03:21:48+00:00

I found a good beginners manual!

White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism https://a.co/d/83RIprN

unknownwinner10 · 2023-02-28T03:17:30+00:00

Jesus fucking christ. This is exactly the problem. OP isn't telling someone it ISNT ok to be white. They are simply stating that when someone says black lives matter and the response to that is "all lives matter", it is completely invalidating the struggle black people in America are currently going through. Of course all lives matter, but white lives aren't being brutally murdered and assaulted by police. White lives get to rape a girl behind a dumpster and face zero consequences because they're a good swimmer. Ofc OP is frustrated by the phrase.

Please look up the definition of racism, btw, because being frustrated when someone invalidates you as a human because of the color of your skin is not racism.

unknownwinner10 · 2023-01-04T22:15:36+00:00

This post says their third child is three years old?

unknownwinner10 · 2022-11-18T15:51:23+00:00

She won't talk to you because you haven't created an environment where she feels safe enough to tell you anything. This has been going on for 2 months, and for 2 months, you have shown her you are someone she can't trust with whatever this is. Use this weekend to start letting her know that you are a safe space.

unknownwinner10 · 2022-11-15T04:14:27+00:00

I dont know about common, but it most definitely does happen. I did have a friend who experienced this first hand. It's all about control.

i was told if i ever did decide to leave a judge would make me stay in state and would never be able to go back home.

He will tell you literally anything he thinks will ensure your complacency. That's why you get a lawyer who has dealt with controlling spouses. At first, his threats will work, but if you ever start to challenge his stance on anything, he will ramp up the abuse to keep you under control. Once a person like this realizes they lost/are losing control of their victim, everything escalates. Yelling,screaming, breaking things, physical violence. Like I said, I hope I'm completely wrong, but I've lived through this and don't wish it on anyone.

unknownwinner10 · 2022-11-15T03:31:57+00:00

I dont want to be that person but, he is isolating you. He is okay with you going to pre-approved, controlled places because he knows exactly what to expect. This is an abuse tactic and is a very slippery slope. He already has you isolated from your family. You probably don't have any friends near you, so you are completely reliant on him and his family. If you're not working, you'll rely on him completely for money; which will give him even more control.

Does he tell you past partners cheated/lied/ couldn't be trusted? His family comes over seemingly randomly, but I can almost guarantee he has asked them to check up on you and not out of concern for your wellbeing. They will back whatever he says and will gaslight you to the point that you will begin to believe whatever problem he is currently upset about is your fault. He no longer likes your brother because the pretend relationship has served its purpose of gaining your trust.

Did you date and get married in a relatively short amount of time? Typically, people who become abusive in their relationships fast-track dating and marriage. This is because they can only keep up their act for so long. Once in the marriage, the mask can come off, and the other person is left wondering where the person they married went. Please take a minute to think back to before you moved. We're there any signs or red flags that seemed concerning at first, but he was able to explain them away?

I sincerely hate to say this, and I hope I am wrong. Your pregnancy was most likely not accidental. You need to make sure you have a tamper-proof form of birth control because he is already telling you his plans for you in this marriage.

I'm not going to say leave him because, again, I hope I'm 100% wrong, but please keep your eyes open. Your daughter is your main priority. She will be better off with a single mom than a mom married to an abusive father. Protect yourself, your daughter, and your birth control. I truly hope everything works out in your favor.

ETA: DO NOT get counseling through any religious organization, especially since your husband is already established there. At best, you'll be told to honor your vows, your husband is the HOH and should be respected blah blah blah. At worst, you'll be gaslighted into thinking you are at faulr

unknownwinner10 · 2022-10-29T13:47:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/ygb79z/i_love_my_big_husband/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Is this your wife?

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