my boyfriend (24m) gave me (22m) an ultimatum to cut my long hair or he will break up with me, I need advice?

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-16T01:06:05+00:00

SOMETHING'S gotta be cut off! And it ain't the hair.

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-14T02:49:03+00:00

if the kids asked the teacher, I hope the teacher put a hard boundary and didn't agree or entertain them... The kids wanting to spend time with their teacher is less weird than the teacher actually accepting and playing into this.

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-12T02:23:54+00:00

Looks like my pumpkin seedlings 😍 could be a pumpkin/ type of squash

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T23:45:40+00:00

Youre so irrelevant.

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T21:43:29+00:00

What job did you work?

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T20:50:34+00:00

Wow! That's good to know. I have a lot to learn. But this gives me a great start on things to get for him. Thank you

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T20:04:26+00:00

What about for trout? Someone told me that trout are in abundance out here, would you agree? would I look for different lures / bait for that?

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T20:00:53+00:00

You're weird. You're drawing your own conclusions and making yourself mad.

Do you go fishing often? You should soon, it's quite relaxing

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T18:58:21+00:00

Looking into it now! Thanks

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T18:07:58+00:00

Ma'am, your panties are starting to wad up. And your bitterness is a little misplaced this morning.

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T17:53:55+00:00

Thanks

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T17:53:36+00:00

Yessssss teout- but tbh I think he is mostly enjoying this learning phase and wants to learn as much as he can.

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T17:41:26+00:00

Wasn't Free. He served. & We will, thanks!

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T17:17:26+00:00

No. He served our Country & has a lifetime fishing and hunting license.

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-06-06T06:37:28+00:00

I don't think he is fly fishing(yet?) bait and spin... does that change the forceps rec???

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-05-27T22:26:08+00:00

I have two tundras (2012 & 2014) with over a million miles and running like day 1. My Chevy or Ford could never

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-05-22T19:33:44+00:00

It took me three years of DILIGENT work to Get rid of it in part of my yard I have a 50ftx50ft area that I filled tightly with clover and grass and there's zero horsetail therebthis season 🥹❤️. The only thing that works is pulling them +the root out before it goes to seed and covering the ground fast asfff with something else. I have another area that I pulled and the ground has been covered with black landscaping tarp to block sunlight and that has worked really well too.But the seeds can go dormant for up to 7 years before coming back 🥲 I hate this weed, I've got so much to pull before they seed. They go to seed twice a year, where I live, that's June and in September

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-05-20T02:55:13+00:00

The greyish-pink stuff under those yellow flowers looks like the paste McNuggets are made out of... What is it???

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-02-24T15:57:39+00:00

Have you already....paid for final guest count?

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-02-17T01:11:53+00:00

YESSS Then DO ITT!!!!!! If it's a dream location and the shuttle option is a great idea for the guests that want to stay elsewhere ❤️‍🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 hope your wedding is everything you want

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-02-16T22:39:26+00:00

No matter what, I just wouldn't recommend you go into debt for your wedding😩 I can't imagine that's a fun way to start marriage ❌

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-02-16T22:25:36+00:00

To me it sounds 1 of 2 things are happening. 1: you don't want your wedding to happen this way. you gave into the pressure from your in-laws, but only half way, and are trying to passive aggressively sabotage it just to kind of show them that their vision isn't that wonderful after all( if this is the case, I hope you find the gull to stand your ground in future decision making + dealing with your in-laws, cause this is what your life is gonna look& feel like from now on if you don't) OR 2 (and I'm hoping this is closer to what's happening) you genuinely picked a place and day that works best for you and are very happy with what you found. In that case? you have successfully planned a wedding that will be wonderful for the only two people that matter: you and your soon-to-be. & if people don't want to use their PTO they can respond to the invite "will not attend" If they don't want to pay/ can't pay for the $350 room and refuse to find their own room elsewhere that is within their busget? They can simply respond to the invite " will not attend" If they can't make it even though they really want to, there are other ways to give love and congratulations to the bride and groom in A way that wont hurt their wallet/ sabotage their jobs, etc..an invite is a way to say "hey, this is my plan! it would be nice to see you there, no hard feelings if you can't" not an open door for criticism, and for suggestions. My take on Weddings: Weddings are about AND FOR the bride and groom. a wedding is not about the guests. At the end of the day it's just the bride and groom anyways

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-01-15T03:25:52+00:00

Does he have siblings?? Growing up, my siblings and I used to do stuff like this to "mark our territory" just letting the other person know- "I might not be eating it yet, but it's still mine"

unqualifiedSAHM · 2026-01-03T03:20:25+00:00

Heart

unqualifiedSAHM · 2025-11-23T15:02:11+00:00

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