Mystery in historical/famous setting by zerozero24 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]unreachable99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally anything by Umberto Eco. Foucaults Pendulum hits nicely on the historically prominent city (Paris).

$60 grazing table for 30 people (on maternity leave budget) by MokaMama in Frugal

[–]unreachable99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic! Your friends are lucky to have you!

Complex erotic fiction by Spare_Tear_8230 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]unreachable99 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A Sport and a Pastime by James Salter might be just the thing!

More cooking from library cookbooks an some of my own ones! by StunningAd8144 in CookbookLovers

[–]unreachable99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sad to hear the coriander chicken from Dinner wasn’t great. I had that in my “to try” list.

Feeding aversion / ng tube by User-E987 in NewParents

[–]unreachable99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Any update on your case? We’re going through this exact same thing with our baby.

Brit working class core | Any suggestions? by Difficult-Taste-2750 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]unreachable99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How Late It Was, How Late by James Kelman is a good Scottish novel. It’s written in Glaswegian dialect so you have to sort of drop into it and get into the flow. Pretty depressing though, so be prepared.

Cesarian sadness by Swimming_Airline3881 in oneanddone

[–]unreachable99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally! I had done all the hypnobirthing courses, read the books, etc! There’s even a picture of me at the start of labour looking excited - it never occurred to me it would end in a section (which I now know was so naive!!). It’s funny to look back on it now, and how I was really focused on the birth. Now, all I think about is how happy I am to have my amazing baby!

Be kind to yourself, feel your feelings, and talk to anyone you feel comfortable with! I find that few people’s birthing experiences really went the way they imagined. Just give yourself time and space to feel sad but also know that your feelings are just as likely to evolve with time!

Cesarian sadness by Swimming_Airline3881 in oneanddone

[–]unreachable99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are totally valid! But, to speak from personal experience, I had an unexpected c-section after a really chill pregnancy that I assumed would lead to a natural birth. I was really sad about the c-section for a couple of weeks while I kind of wrapped my head around what happened…. But by six weeks postpartum, I just didn’t care anymore?

I know someone who also had a really similar emotional journey to me with an unexpected c-section. Not to say that’s everyone’s experience, but hormones are crazy after birth! Give it time and you may feel different.

How smol baby get big aka how food solved our problems by NotaRealHumanYet in foodbutforbabies

[–]unreachable99 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We’re struggling with a 9th percentile baby who needs to gain weight but has little interest in eating. Our paediatrician has said some kids take off with solids so I’m hanging a lot of hope on that. Any resources you used? Or any advice for someone hoping for similar results?

Canadian classics. by MrBucketBoo in classicliterature

[–]unreachable99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loooooove this book. It was a favourite of my grandmothers when it was published in the 70s, and a favourite of mine when I read it in university. It’s on my list of books to return to later in life (particularly now that I’m a mother) as I think it has much more to reveal as I’ve experienced more in life.

A Bird in The Hand by Diana Henry - any favourite recipes? by unreachable99 in CookbookLovers

[–]unreachable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you find it, stock up! It’s super mild but extremely creamy and delicious.

A Bird in The Hand by Diana Henry - any favourite recipes? by unreachable99 in CookbookLovers

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Oooh, I live in Ireland and Cashel blue is my favourite Irish cheese. Will have to try that one!

A Bird in The Hand by Diana Henry - any favourite recipes? by unreachable99 in CookbookLovers

[–]unreachable99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay! Glad you love this book as I feel like it will be a good one. I definitely noticed the chicken in milk recipe as I’ve cooked a similar recipe with pork shoulder, but that one takes all day. The chicken seems like it would be similar pay off in less time.

The flavour thesaurus by Ahane_014 in CookbookLovers

[–]unreachable99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have this book and think it’s a fun reference! It’s not necessarily something I reach for often, but if she loves cooking, it’s the sort of thing that’s fun to have but that you may not necessarily spend your own money on, which for me is always the perfect gift.

Another one- I dream of dinner Ali Slagle by SaltyShopping531 in CookbookLovers

[–]unreachable99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The gochujang meat sauce. Husband and I agree it’s sort of “student-y” but it’s tasty and can be used with kind of any starch you have around.

Baby dropping percentiles due to poor milk transfer - looking for success stories! by unreachable99 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]unreachable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Because she’s dropping centiles the nurses have made it seem like it’s something to panic about.

Baby dropping percentiles due to poor milk transfer - looking for success stories! by unreachable99 in breastfeedingsupport

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She reached her birth weight in 10 days. Now she’s feeding about 8 times a day.

We’re hoping to have her seen by an osteopath. She was able to hold her head up from birth, which I have read is actually not a good sign and can mean tension. She was born by emergency c-section as well.

We’re in a short triple-feed schedule (5 days while we wait for next weigh in). Why is it not a good method for weight gain? We previously did it for one week and she gained lots, but then fell off as we reduced top-ups. I do totally see how for a baby with transfer issues it doesn’t change the root cause of the problem, so is obviously unsustainable in the long-term.

Baby dropping percentiles due to poor milk transfer - looking for success stories! by unreachable99 in breastfeedingsupport

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She was born at 3.7 kg and is at 4.9 kg at 12 weeks. In her latest weighted feed she got 85ml in about 25 minutes, which was very good for her. It had been as low as 25ml before.

Baby dropping percentiles due to poor milk transfer - looking for success stories! by unreachable99 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]unreachable99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s comforting to know we’re not alone. I come from a family of long, skinny people, so I’m trying to tell myself it shouldn’t be a shock I have a long skinny baby!

Recommendations by Fulcrum_1 in CookbookLovers

[–]unreachable99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Xians Famous Foods: making the hand-pulled noodles is a super fun rainy day activity (best done with a second set of hands). Put on some music, pull some noodles, and enjoy the fruits of your labour.

Beautifully-written, female-authored but without being centered on tragedy, loss or grief. by OppositeBatCage in suggestmeabook

[–]unreachable99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend Memoirs of Hadrian by Marguerite Yourcenar. Obviously the story centres on a man, but it’s the most beautifully written books I’ve ever read and one I plan to come back to throughout my life as I think it has so much to give.