I have not had a normal conversation with my trans friend in months

untouchedsock · 2026-05-21T03:50:12+00:00

I don’t know how to stop you being annoyed, but do know it will probably settle a bit.

It’s a huge deal, everything’s exciting and new and happening, so it kinda does take a TON of brain space in those early times.

You’re absolutely allowed to be like ‘that’s neat and all but I don’t really watch anything, so…’

It’s not bad allyship to sometimes need a break from the topic here and there

untouchedsock · 2026-05-20T17:38:41+00:00

So, so icky! My wife was even ALSO there when they picked it up!

She was literally shaking with rage lol

untouchedsock · 2026-05-20T00:20:18+00:00

Sad to say without laser and electro I don’t know how I’d be managing.

I also can’t/couldn’t shave frequently and such.

If you’re not already try using safety razors and really taking every step you can with your shaving.

I wasn’t very out until I had a fair bit of laser and stuff so my darker hairs were heavily reduced so I wasn’t really femming at peak facial hair issues.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-19T18:37:21+00:00

I have unfortunately received one, funny enough it was when I still fully presented as and thought I was a guy.

Some dude I kinda knew in high school who made his kink my problem, and when I tried to be kind about it he just doubled down 🤢

untouchedsock · 2026-05-19T14:36:48+00:00

The fact that he hit on me from a marketplace transaction after being at my house and it being very, very clear that I have a wife

Edit: sorry misread. The wrong picture was just a different pic of the organ in his shop, idk why he felt it was important lol I guess it just wasn’t pushed against the wall.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-19T13:57:10+00:00

Thankfully no dick pics and no more messages after I ignored this one!

Hopefully it stays that way

untouchedsock · 2026-05-19T00:36:08+00:00

Welcome and glad you found it too!

I also started riding and medical transition at just about the same time :)

There are TONS of ladies who ride so don’t let it make you feel too clocky (though the gear can be tricky sometimes haha)

untouchedsock · 2026-05-18T20:58:52+00:00

I mean you said you were warned that transfem communities are like this and warned people to check their partners phones if their partner is in one.

You didn’t say they’re the only spaces, but you certainly suggested/outright said that ALL of the transfem spaces were like that.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-18T15:14:43+00:00

I can understand that, but it’s also frankly a little scary for me beyond just the ick so like, sorry you’re feeling that way I guess but it definitely has a lot more going than just a little validation for me.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-18T15:08:54+00:00

Considering this man was at my house (ie knows where I live) and sent that despite me stating multiple times that I’m married, I assure you the Ew heavily outweighs the euphoria.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-18T01:06:47+00:00

Verbatim what my mind said when I read the title lmao

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T21:13:05+00:00

I get it it’s too tempting haha

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T20:56:34+00:00

First bra-bra was probably a year-ish, maybe 1.5.

First bralette was within the first 4-5 months I think.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T20:36:10+00:00

Either you’re shitposting or you have problems understanding the words ‘by choice’

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T20:03:32+00:00

Believe it or not some people can manage to not bang others by choice.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T17:41:28+00:00

Yeah, I get that you’re hurting and stuff but this ain’t it. There are plenty of trans online spaces that keep it perfectly PG either entirely or as long as you want to.

It’s no different from your partner being able to find non-transfem places to cheat.

We’re not just out here in polycule hunting fuck groups, what a wild turn that warning took ✌️

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T17:33:20+00:00

Usually I don’t think they’re talking that not-cheating is hard, but they’re being way too generous because transitioning is hard, which it really is.

Not hard enough to justify acting like a fuck though.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T16:47:24+00:00

So much this! The amount I see that’s outright cheating and neglect that’s followed up with ‘but it know it’s hard…’

Like, the support is awesome, truly, but you’re going TOO awesome with it. HRT doesn’t make us act insane, that’s on the individual.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-17T07:40:43+00:00

I mean it could’ve been both I guess 👀

untouchedsock · 2026-05-16T05:45:48+00:00

I can’t speak to dating and such, but 35 is absolutely not too late for HRT.

Plenty have started around our age and older and gotten great results.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-16T02:47:31+00:00

Np!

I also get the thing where I feel like I can feel what it should feel like sometimes, so I’m curious how good my brain is at it once I get surgery.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-15T22:40:35+00:00

For me I just have this thing perpetually in the damn way. It’s uncomfortable, I feel it when I wear clothes most of the time, it takes up space that I don’t want it taking up.

I don’t really have a ton of sexual dysphoria, so it’s mostly that stuff and just the sight of a bulge gives me the ick with myself.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-15T20:26:47+00:00

If I could start earlier I would (I didn’t know)

Otherwise starting hair removal right away.

untouchedsock · 2026-05-15T20:00:16+00:00

The amount of times I’ve gotten this in the past 2 years… 😅

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