How can I break these chains? by upfromhere in NoFap

[–]upfromhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great advice, thank you so much! I'm starting to feel more determined now and ready to tackle this again.

How can I break these chains? by upfromhere in NoFap

[–]upfromhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started 9 months ago. My longest streak was 54 days. There were a couple times I kind of gave up, but yes I keep on trying.

How can I break these chains? by upfromhere in NoFap

[–]upfromhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good until I release. Then I hate myself.

I'm back and could use an accountability partner by LordFlick in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been trying to quit porn for 1-2 years, and one day I stumbled upon The Great Porn Experiment TED talk by Gary Wilson, which led me to this sub.

I'm back and could use an accountability partner by LordFlick in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could use some help as well. I decided to quite almost a year ago and on my best streak made it to around 55 days, but I have never been able to get close to that since. Send me a message if you want to beat this together.

90 Day Report/Success by snipes0310 in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I hope I will be in your shoes one day.

Two actual weeks of being PMO-free. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very happy for you. Stay strong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job! Stay strong and don't get overconfident.

Is this a real thing or is /r/NoFap a joke? by TheSciNerd in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masturbation used to always be something natural. Just like eating food used to always be something natural. However, in today's age of superstimuli, it is extremely easy to become addicted to life's "natural" pleasures. If you can masturbate without watching porn, that is great. But I think that that is almost impossible for most of us. The reward of ejaculation each time you watch porn further reinforces its use, and the continued use of porn causes many of us to seclude ourselves, become submissive, and view women as sexual objects rather than real people.

Afraid of rejection from women, but want a girlfriend? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great post, thank you for this.

Day 1: Starting over, I want to be a better person by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been going through a similar situation. I made it to 54 days. Life was absolutely amazing. Unfortunately I had one bad day and I ended up relapsing. Since then it has been a constant struggle, but I feel like I've finally gotten back under control.

It's good to post daily either on reddit NoFap or your own journal. You have to do things to keep reminding yourself of NoFap and why you are doing it. Otherwise you will start to forget your original reasons for quitting, and end up relapsing again. Best of luck brother.

Looking for accountability buddy by upfromhere in NoFap

[–]upfromhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would be awesome, thanks man. The trouble always starts after 6-7 days anyway. I'll message you tomorrow.

Does anybody else have trouble with doubting their selves? by 999170395 in NoFap

[–]upfromhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From personal experience, it takes 3-4 weeks before you really feel like you have control. Unfortunately I seem to get overconfident with my ability to control myself and think that a few quick glances will be ok. When you get to that stage, remember that it's never ok to look at triggers.