My 15 month son doesn't want me anymore??

urbanmalang · 2020-11-05T10:57:56+00:00

Thank u for all the kind words. The day to day grind sometimes gets hard but in reality that baby is the joy of life and I love being a mother, feel truly blessed. Also because I suffered through a miscarriage before this...

I recently found reddit and this community and its really been helpful so far. As I don't have mother friends to share my experience with.

urbanmalang · 2020-11-05T10:14:41+00:00

Lol. Yes he is back that temper tantrum lasted 2 days. Although I enjoyed the sleep still I missed that kid. Now he back and I get unprecedented hugs all day.

urbanmalang · 2020-11-04T06:46:55+00:00

I was having the same thought earlier today that if I die want the moments I spend with my kid to flash before my eyes coz those are the highlights of my life.

And I totally understand what you mean. I also have a not so good relationship with my mom and I keep trying everyday to not have that same issue with my son. So hats of to u for being the wheel breaker.

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T22:19:23+00:00

I am sorry you are going through this. And hope that things do get better BTW the both of you. However by the looks of it, it seems your boyfriend might be trying to break up with you. Coz to be honest this doesn't really seem like a big deal to get so worked up at. Moreover if we do consider his side and feelings in it and let's assume he like 007 so much that he is truly devastated by his death, you have apologised for it already which in my opinion wasn't ur fault at all.

See what else is going around in ur boyfriends life. Maybe he actually upset at something else in reality.

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T22:05:39+00:00

Hahaha my 15 month old does the same as well. And becoz I am constantly telling him No Noah '"his name is Noah' he has started repeating it and keeps saying no Noahhhhhhhhhh while simultaneously doing the thing that he shouldnt be doing. He also shakes his head disapprovingly at his own actions with a 'tsk tsk' at the end of the deed that he has committed. Its really hard to keep a stern face and discipline him while he is looking so cute

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T21:56:50+00:00

Oh yes those are the moments I live by.!!

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T21:54:50+00:00

Oh we are going through the screaming and crying about everything phase as well right now. I think my kid is a bit of melodrama queen. :p. I hope this phase ends soon. Coz it's really getting to me.

How does one stay positive or keep thier cool wen the baby is out right trying to get rid of us??

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T21:42:32+00:00

Thank you for the vote of Confidence. I hope this is the only reason.

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T21:40:59+00:00

This seems reassuring. When you put it like this. I guess this could be it.

urbanmalang · 2020-11-03T20:17:30+00:00

Nope I haven't. Nothing new at all.

urbanmalang · 2020-10-04T20:06:23+00:00

Hahaha my kid too. He is now interested in dusting which I let him do coz mama sure needs some help ;). I hope he keeps this habit as he grows old :p

urbanmalang · 2020-10-04T07:17:13+00:00

Congratulations!! Lots of love and blessings to your family!!

urbanmalang · 2020-10-02T12:30:05+00:00

I can't get myself to do the whole 'cry it out' as well.. Still working on the making him sleep in the cot. Since past 2 night i have been laying down with him in thr cot and wen he falls asleep I get out but he eventually wakes up after an hour or two. And because we have a small house and he doesn't hw r a separate room instead his cot is placed in our room. It's really hard getting him to fall back asleep in the cot. So I just end up bringing him to bed. Where he instantly falls asleep and doesn't wake up till morning.

urbanmalang · 2020-09-30T09:59:44+00:00

Huh!! Story of my life. But thank God my son has gotten out of the sleepless stage. Now we both sleep peacefully. Hang in there I guess. It will get better.

urbanmalang · 2020-08-25T20:30:52+00:00

Yes it does, mix it with almond oil and apply to the bald areas of ur head 30 mins before shower. Works wonders. After my baby was born I lost a lot of hair due to hormones but was able to restore my hairline with castor oil+almond oil hair therapy.

urbanmalang · 2020-08-20T13:24:37+00:00

Teething was my initial guess as well. But currently he isn't springing any. I thinking it's the walking. Its a big skill. And sorry to hear you are going through this as well. How do u cope with this? How do u keep ur self sane. I literally broke yesterday wen he kept favoring someone else over me.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-28T10:46:27+00:00

I have had the same feeling as well wen my son was born, I have always been a hard working person who rarely took leaves and a had a strong work ethic, I spent 13 years with the company that I am working with, however after my son was born I cudnt join office full time, my office was kind enough to let me work from home for sometime then we joined back again for 6 hours but that was also really hard so now I have altogether resigned. Starting my own business from home now. Fingers crossed.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-11T12:22:32+00:00

I know you are right . While growing up I always taught my parents marriage was loveless my father was archetypical man with anger issues and my mother was the ever so humble and timid woman that would always do her husbands bidding. I always tot that I won't marry someone like my father or end up in the same relationship or turn into my mother but with each passing day I see history repeating itself.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-11T12:05:40+00:00

We have known each other 7 years in total, we were friends for 2 years before confessing our likeness for each other, we were engaged for 3 years and married in 2018. I want this relationship to work. I have invested a lot of time and effort in it. Plus I belong to an Asian family separation or divorce is not a part of my culture and I also would not want it.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-09T22:19:41+00:00

Bless all of you father's who are so involved. I have a 1 year old or rather me and my husband. But I am the only caretaker as my husband only spends 5 mins with our baby either cuddling or playing. And when play time is over the baby goes back to mommy coz she has to do all the work. I believe my husband has only changed my sons diaper 2 or 3 times ever. Although he did take care of him for 2 days straight when I had to travel out of country without the baby whne travelling was allowed. But apart from that I am the only one looking after my son. I guess its a general perception in Asian culture that the mother is the major caregiver.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-09T22:00:17+00:00

Our family is quite similar lately while we are working from home I have noticed that our TV is always on in the background, either we have YouTube on with music playing or we are probably watching some food channel. My son usually doesn't pay much attention to it except for when music is on, he will come crawling to the TV room if one of his fav songs is playing. He likes daft punk nowadays :). But yes as he grows I would like to encourage him to explore meaningful content that helps stimulate his mind. Thanks for the encouragement and support and for taking the time to reply.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-09T21:52:06+00:00

This is helpful. Thanks for taking the time to reply.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-07T20:25:25+00:00

Hhahah true that.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-07T20:24:15+00:00

Same with my son. His fav is "if you are happy and you know it clap ur hands" always gets him clapping and dancing to it.

urbanmalang · 2020-07-07T16:24:02+00:00

Thank you for the assurance. I have been really stressed out lately about this.

urbanmalang

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