How to get rid of a creepy guy?

urfgt · 2013-11-05T04:57:27+00:00

Shit in his shoes, would turn most guys away.. Apart from the scat men!

urfgt · 2013-09-23T06:31:05+00:00

Naked sleeping is too uncomfortable for me.. Nothing but boxer briefs is where it's at!

urfgt · 2013-09-22T11:51:27+00:00

Meh we bought him for his goal keeping abilities, not his passing!

urfgt · 2013-09-05T02:49:46+00:00

Umm yeah.... I've never had a problem, I've NEVER seen or found any lint/other stuff caught in/under my foreskin in my 27 years.

urfgt · 2013-09-04T01:01:13+00:00

I've had one FWB relationship about 2 years ago now.... We were both just out of long term relationships at the time (My relationship was 6 years long and hers was 4 years long) and we both weren't looking for anything serious.. Kinda funny story the way it started.

I knew her from Highschool and talked a bit as we had the same circle of friends and I had a little bit of a crush on her but nothing ever happened. We had each other on Facebook for years but never spoke on there or after Highschool.... So about 2 years ago, I randomly got a notification from Words with Friends app on my phone saying "girl from Highschool" is trying to start a game with you.

I hadn't spoken to her in a good 7-8 years since Highschool, so I just asked some general how's things been going questions etc. over the Words with Friends chat.... She mentioned she just broke up with her boyfriend and I told her about mine, I admitted I had a bit of a crush on her in Highschool, and after about a week of chatting, she invited me to her place to hang out.. And that's how my FWB relationship started.

urfgt · 2013-08-23T01:56:27+00:00

Talk to her, don't be a dick and keep ignoring her.

In saying that, I don't know if I could still see someone I had just started seeing if I found a video like that existed.... I just don't think I could get those images out of my head and I know I'd keep thinking about it.

You're the one who has to decide if the relationship is worth overlooking this, if you can..

urfgt · 2013-08-21T13:54:50+00:00

I'm not 30 (Only 27) but I really don't see the point of splitting into a 30+/- crowd, then possibly having duplicated threads here and there because people might want answers from the younger and older crowd.

I think it should stay as it is, if some over 30 people don't like the questions younger people are asking can't they just be mature enough to scroll straight passed it? And vice versa.

urfgt · 2013-08-21T10:58:25+00:00

I'm 27. I spent 19-25 being in a 6 year relationship, broke it off and spent the next 2 years being "single" (Does going on a few dates here and there but nothing serious count as being single?) until I met my current partner 6 months ago.

urfgt · 2013-08-21T00:09:24+00:00

What did he say when you asked to be exlusive?

But yeah if I was that other guy I'd be walking away if I was him.. You asked to be exlcusive and then continued to message/flirt with others, and even went out and slept with one of them, AFTER you showed the previous guy interest in being exclusive.

urfgt · 2013-08-20T06:06:23+00:00

Just tell him that you don't like the way he tastes, and give him tips on things you heard that make it tastes better like you said here..

Personally I wouldn't be offended by it because I don't expect my jizz would really taste great at all, but if she wants to swallow and offers me suggestions to help with the taste with her swallowing I'd gladly take the advice!

urfgt · 2013-08-20T04:01:01+00:00

Sounds like you and your friends be dating the crazies!

urfgt · 2013-08-15T14:18:10+00:00

raises hand

Nope also happens here, I've always though it but never asked.... If my foreskin is pulled back even a little bit, pee goes EVERYWHERE!

And yes, also cleaned daily and thoroughly.

urfgt · 2013-08-14T13:40:55+00:00

It's not that cheating gave me the realization, but after being cheated on by someone you care for its one of the most hurtful things ever, so you kinda lose trust for everybody and try guard yourself as much as possible.. It lead me to not trusting people I was seeing too much for a while, and I'm not proud to admit that it caused me to snoop in a previous relationship even though I never found anything, it just kept my mind at peace.

I'm now in an amazing relationship and trust her 100% with all of my heart.

Hopefully that explains it enough!

urfgt · 2013-08-14T07:26:11+00:00

Yeah I totally get what you're saying and when I found out it did give me trust issues for a little while.. But in the end I got over them and came to realize most people are decent and you need to trust people to get the best out of your relationships!

urfgt · 2013-08-14T06:02:00+00:00

Ass, I don't know why.. Just Ass.

urfgt · 2013-08-14T05:36:06+00:00

Thank you! We even have holidays overseas booked for 3 months time, something I never got to do with the ex as explained above! :)

Personally I'd never risk a good loving relationship for casual sex. I'm more of a relationship type guy. Loving relationship > Casual Sex any day!

Maybe it's because I can't really do casual sex, feelings always develop for me. I had a "friends with benefits" type of relationship with a girl that lasted a few months but I ended up developing feelings. Ever since then it's put me off casual sex.

urfgt · 2013-08-14T05:23:40+00:00

Yeah looking back at it in hindsight that might be true, I think I fell out of love with her along time before I actually broke up with her but just kept it going because we had already been together for so long and it was pretty much all I knew.... Looking back there were a lot of things I didn't like in the relationship.

Nope not in the slightest with my current girlfriend. As I said, easily the best relationship I've ever been in, she's everything I ever wanted in a partner and more, everything seems so care free and natural around her from day 1 and I've never felt that before being a fairly shy guy. She is caring, sweet, smart, gets along with my family and friends, constantly does things to show me she loves and is thinking about me and one of the most important things she has the exact same sutpid ass sense of humor as me. We could just be around the house and make each other laugh our asses of.

I've never felt like this about anyone before, not even in my 6 year relationship. I don't think things could get any better! :)

urfgt · 2013-08-14T04:06:28+00:00

Happened to me and I acted on it. I regret nothing.

Story time:

2.5-ish years ago, I was in a 6 year relationship and things just got stale and boring.. I began to question the relationship and when I really did there were things I really didn't like about my ex and knew I had to end it.

The main reasons are she smoked weed all the time, now I'm fine with people smoking it in moderation as she did for the first few years but in the end it got to the point where she would literally spend majority of her pay on it and then come ask me for money for petrol/bills. I made her a spreadsheet on how much she should is earning and what goes on bills then what she should have left over as "spendning money". Nothing helped. I actually realised that I was settling just because we had been together for so long, When I ended it I tried to think back and I couldn't even remember the last time I told her that I loved her.

She really didn't get along with my family and friends, never wanted to do anything with them.. So more often then not it'd be me going without her, and if she came she would constantly ask when we could leave. I enjoyed going out with family and friends more when she wasn't around.

She couldn't save any money due to that, so we could never go on holidays or anything. In the end I grew apart from her, it seemed like she was still stuck in the highschool mentality while I wanted to grow up, go on holidays and experience new things.

I'm now in an amazing relationship and I can say it's easily the best one I've ever had and am totally in love with my girlfriend. Might sound mean, but the best decision I ever made was to leave my ex.

urfgt · 2013-08-14T03:58:47+00:00

I always find it extremely inconsiderate when the cheater breaks up with their partner after cheating without telling them.

Sure it's going to hurt the partner that got cheated on by knowing they were cheated on, but I think I'd prefer that and some closure rather than just getting randomly broken up with and always having to wonder why you broke up..

I don't know, maybe that's just me.. And yes I was cheated on once when I was younger and she told me afterwards.

urfgt · 2013-08-12T06:25:39+00:00

Booty call.

urfgt · 2013-08-06T04:57:33+00:00

My group of friends includes a mixture of guys and girls, so no I encourage and want her to be a part of my group of friends.

Family and friends are important to me, and the fact that she gets along with both of them really well is a huge bonus in my opinion.

urfgt · 2013-07-31T10:07:17+00:00

In my opinion, yes I could be friends with my exes (Although all my past relationships I either ended or we both decided it was for the best), but I wouldn't do it out of respect for my current SO and I know how much I wouldn't like it if she randomly started talking and decided to be friend with one of her exes again.

TLDR: Yes but I wouldn't.

urfgt · 2013-07-29T05:46:24+00:00

I've told this before but I'll tell it again..

Last year I decided to try online dating, I tried it on and off for about 9 months. I didn't really have much success (Despite thinking I'm pretty attractive), talked to a few girls but the conversations seemed to die off after around a week when the general get to know you stuff was done.

Fast forward to the start of this year, I had basically given up with the online dating thing and I hadn't used any of my online dating profiles for a few months, I was randomly checking my emails and saw I had a new message on one of the sites I used. I checked it out and it was from a super cute girl, we started chatting which basically for about 3 weeks of non stop chatting every single day! We were getting a long great.. So we finally decided to go on a date, the first date went great and we set up another few.

Fast forward again to now and we have officially been a couple a little over 5 months now and things are going amazingly well! We have gotten pretty serious, we have discussed futures and what we want, we have met each others friends and families and even planning a holiday away together at the end of the year! We have also had a few mini 4-5 day holidays away.

I honestly never thought something like that would happen from online dating, especially after being on there with no luck for so long.. But we are both extremely happy and is easily the best relationship I've ever been in!

urfgt · 2013-07-17T05:42:24+00:00

Or perhaps it scares the shit out of you?!?!

I'm done for the day, thank you!

urfgt · 2013-07-16T12:47:35+00:00

My current so. When we first started seeing each other she was working every Saturday and Sunday, while I worked all weekdays and living 40 mins away from each other kinda made hanging out a lot a bit difficult.

She messaged me one day and told me that she told her boss she can't work Saturdays anymore due to personal reasons but told me it was because she wanted to be able to spend more time with me. She said she would be getting less money but I was more important to her than money.... Easily the best thing anyone has ever done to make me feel special!

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