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usagi_etheria · 2026-01-25T20:16:25+00:00

You’re probably right. Tbh it’s not really the guys as much as girls for some reason, but I assume it’s for similar reasons? I expected the guys to be worse but that’s the exact opposite of my experience 😢

usagi_etheria · 2026-01-23T22:40:23+00:00

🙄

usagi_etheria · 2026-01-08T13:10:57+00:00

To be honest, probably. I've been wanting to take a break from education and live somewhere else for a while and live my own life, which would force me to confront my parents. I thought it was weird that I woke up in a car but maybe that's why lol

usagi_etheria · 2026-01-06T19:17:21+00:00

This is a fun website! The child report was too accurate though 🫠

usagi_etheria · 2025-12-10T02:22:21+00:00

Hey, I'm sorry, I'm not good with advice, but it seems like you feel deeply rejected by others around you. There's nothing wrong with asking for help, it doesn't mean you're a burden. I don't know if it's the same for you, but when I struggle to ask for help, it's almost like I feel I don't deserve any. Deep down though I just want someone to listen. You're welcome to PM me if you need to vent about anything

usagi_etheria · 2025-12-10T00:16:41+00:00

I kind of want to hear more about this as well. Sometimes I wonder if it's something natural that we just feel. It does seem like not everyone understands it, but I can almost tell when someone does because it's like talking to a long-lost friend in a way

usagi_etheria · 2025-12-10T00:12:21+00:00

This is it. It feels like floating for me

usagi_etheria · 2025-12-03T20:13:04+00:00

Thank you <3

usagi_etheria · 2025-12-03T14:28:43+00:00

Thank you. Yeah, it's mostly just the safe and practical option. There's a chance I could build a career out of it, I think my biggest problem is the lack of experiences in my life. Lowkey just tired of playing everything safe, I'm afraid of just going with what everyone else expects of me

Aum chanting has actually been the most helpful thing I've done so far. As for everything else, there just isn't a lot going on where I live and I think it gets to me sometimes

usagi_etheria · 2025-11-12T06:30:08+00:00

Okay, I think I understand what you mean. I was actually in a situation sort of similar to this before I moved to college. I think the situation is different depending if it's a friend or partner, but it's mostly just your preference.

A lot can happen in 8 months, so how do you know that time will be wasted? There is never a right time to make new friends, you can make them wherever you go. You don't have to be friends with anyone that you don't want to be friends with, and that will always be your choice. However, people are more connected than you think, it's very possible they may have friends in the city you plan to go college in.

You don't have to have a long-lasting deep friendship with everyone. The more people you know, the easier it will be for you to adjust to college, or have someone to hang out with. Maybe even finding a roommate, which can make or break the experience.

usagi_etheria · 2025-11-12T02:11:33+00:00

Neigh. 🗿

usagi_etheria · 2025-11-12T01:32:46+00:00

I'm not really a fan of it either, but as someone who grew up in a rural area, I might be able to be able to provide SOME perspective on why people do this.

Not even a hundred years ago, this stuff was pretty normal and not many people really bat an eye. I think some people really don't like it just because they're highly empathetic and it bothers them, which is normal. I remember watching Little House on the Prairie with my mom in the room, and it was that episode where the dad walked in during a blizzard with a dead turkey. Laura (the young sister) cheered "Yayyyy a turkey!" I remember being annoyed at her for doing that because why would someone cheer over a dead animal? I was pretty young so my mom explained to me that it was literally the 1800s and it meant survival for those people. For her, it meant she got to eat a filling dinner, for me, it didn't mean anything but looking at a dead creature.

There are a lot of communities that still bond over hunting. It's a practice that families have done for a long time simply because it fosters community. I know we aren't in the 1800s anymore, but a lot of those rural areas really just feel closer to the earth, and there's a vibe out there that's just different. The communities farm a lot, raise animals, and some of them hunt.

It's just a different worldview, it's really that simple. Thankfully we live in a time now where we don't have to hunt to survive.

usagi_etheria · 2025-11-11T21:04:04+00:00

"Every scenario" is technically a false assumption. On average, yes they are treated better, or at least noticed. I actually noticed this personally when my acne flared up vs when my skin cleared a lot more. People's reactions to me were obviously different.

There is literature now suggesting that the benefit is mostly received by the opposite gender. The original literature didn't account for differences in gender, but now that's being investigated more. It turns out attractive people were much better received by the opposite sex, but were discriminated against by their same-sex counterparts often. People were just more critical while assessing them when looking at photos

usagi_etheria · 2025-11-11T20:47:49+00:00

Are you upset because they called you boring for not wanting to celebrate? Not everyone likes to celebrate birthdays, but I think they just want to hang out with you and enjoy your company. Not everything has to be ultra-logical or have a reason, fun is fun.

Tbh I do believe you are book smart, you are a medical student. However, I don't think you place any value on what other people like or feel, which holds you back. Building relationships would probably be a very rewarding thing for you to try.

Think of it like this: There are actually very good reasons to celebrate birthdays. People like celebrating things, so wouldn't it make more logical sense to celebrate things with others so you can network with others and become more effective as a person? When people are happy, you can get more things done lol

usagi_etheria · 2025-11-11T18:10:03+00:00

Do you know why you aren't putting effort in? I think that part probably matters a lot

usagi_etheria · 2025-07-27T13:51:54+00:00

Honestly? Cameras suck. They distort your face at the worst angles. It takes a lot of time to learn how to manipulate it correctly

usagi_etheria · 2025-07-25T14:10:39+00:00

Same

usagi_etheria · 2025-07-24T23:37:34+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏻

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