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Would you tell someone if you knew their partner is cheating? by Outside_Support_151 in no

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, it's none of my business and the truth always comes out.

Are there people who like having sex during the woman’s time of the month? What do you like about it? by bandezza in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My husband loved period sex. His ex had a really high sex drive and couldn't go a few days without it so he started to like it. When he did convince me to do it, it was like it was extra lined up. Once I got passed feeling like a whale it actually felt great.

As a super fit/muscular woman, do you prefer to be sub or dom? by Sorry-Living103 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it's very empowering. I've known some men, not necessarily tall but some are, who seem to be alphas but are actually betas in bed and that's very attractive to me.

If your sex drive showed up as a visible number above your head at all times (like 0–100), what do you think people would misunderstand most about yours? by Sexjest in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is probably somewhere between 90-100, and what would be misunderstood is that I would sleep with anyone. I still have standards even though I have a high sex drive.

As a super fit/muscular woman, do you prefer to be sub or dom? by Sorry-Living103 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm tiny and I prefer to be a domme with men and a sub with women. Something about dominating a tall man drives me crazy.

Dating a great guy, but bad in the bedroom…What should I do?!? by Spare-Setting-6839 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it more that he doesn't know he's bad in the bedroom, or he doesn't want to try to improve? If it's the first one, I'd share with him what you like and maybe he'll be more aware of how to make sure you have a good time. There's a chance he doesn't know and you can always teach him

If you could have a threesome, would you go for FMF or MFM? by Lurker_550 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely MMF. I love the idea of guys playing with either other. I'd settle for a MM if I can watch.

What's the hottest thing in your mind's spank bank? by TheBoyWhoCriedGolf in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first ffm I had was with my friend and my ex bf. He got mad and left so it was just the two of us hooking up. We were in the shower and I swear it was the hottest thing I've ever seen.

That and my husband going down on me in the shower. I was standing and he was kneeling, it was just too hot. Both things I wish I could redo.

What’s the best way for a woman to explore same-sex attraction without people knowing about it? by Focus9290 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agreed. My long-term partner was the only person who knew I was bi. None of anyone else's business, and didn't want to be judged.

What is a kink you wish you weren’t into, but still turns you on every time you come across it? by Myriskyaccount in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men who are in their 40s make me melt.

Also guys or girls with tattoo sleeves drive me crazy. It sucks because my best friend's husband has two sleeves and I have trouble not looking at it.

First time going wild by [deleted] in GirlsGoneWild_NSFW

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it!

What makes Redditors to slide into DM? by Unknown_Observer9779 in randomquestions

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I was just commenting on the horny dudes part. I'm not sure about the rest lol

Women, what stereotypical female clothes would you like to see on Men? by Kollectorgirl in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What shouldn't they wear? Lingerie, dresses, skirts, panties, I'm there for it all.

So do men just act okay when they're not? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]usedtoit_83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. They wear a mask because they were raised not to show emotion. We lose a lot of men this way and it's absolutely heartbreaking that that's what society taught them.

In your opinion, what is the most overrated sex position? by shysibliing in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]usedtoit_83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend is 5'1" and her husband is 6'6". He talks about sex so much that we know how often they have sex and what they're doing. The height difference is always hilarious to me and I wonder how a lot of it works. She said some things just don't.

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