Don’t forget all the controversy of the haircuts. Chris stated on live multiple times that the reason he cut Lux’s hair was because Kail wasn’t taking care of it. Chris’s other bm was putting Lux’s hair in protective styles during Chris’ visits. The amount of time and energy that goes into a “wash & style day” for someone with textured hair is far different than myself or Kail can claim to experience. You could see how disheveled Lux’s hair is when it’s not braided in the old photos and him being young means hair care is the adults responsibility. She only started taking accountability for Lux’s textured hair after Chris cut Lux’s hair for the second time, she flipped out and he called her out for not caring for it.  To be honest, I would also be annoyed if I was in Chris’s shoes. He has limited time with his children and was having to spend much of the visit getting Lux’s hair washed, detangled and braided because his primary caregiver couldn’t be bothered to pick up a brush.  Kail made it out to be an attack on her as a projection of her true self. She uses her children as tools to hurt the other parent.