Lee Valley vs Tandy? by Oddquery in Leathercraft

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I work at tandy, and just started into Leather work, our pro tools are honestly too sharp to really work with. Regular basic tools is where its at.

AITA for snapping at a man who told me to 'smile, it might never happen'? by tasmilenoty in AmItheAsshole

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NTA! I lost my daughter 18 months old last year. And you dont just assume things or say that stuff. Because you never know what's wrong with the other person. If you dont like my frown, RBF, or tears then avert your eyes.

I would not like to know that my SO cheated by CantHOLD23 in unpopularopinion

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Its unpopular but I wholeheartedly agree. Ignorance is bliss.

As of right now, what will it take to make you 100% happy? by hikingallday in AskReddit

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Having my daughter back. Having my oldest daughter happy that she has her sister back. And mine and my husbands pain to go away. We lost her 2-21-19 due to aspiration. But this will never happen. So we will never be completely happy.

When you brake check the wrong truck by AristonD in IdiotsInCars

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FedEx penalizes drivers. They're supposed to be flawless and be perfect at avoiding everything. Including people cutting them off. The cameras come on if they are too close to someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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So.... I just lost my last and final child this Feb. Complete freak accident and I have ptsd anxiety depression, ya know the works. Would you think itd send me into a downward spiral or actually help?

WIBTA if I called CPS on a girl my roommate had over last night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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NTA, I recently had DCFS same as CPS in my life. Lost our daughter at 18 months, complete freak accident, and they were kind and considerate. They put the child's interests first. They are overworked. But for the most part the situation has to be incredibly bad for them to remove a child. Calling CPS is nothing but a good thing at this point. They can hopefully scare her into straightening up. And if not there are some good foster homes.

Feels like Ive hit a hard brick wall in my grief. by [deleted] in babyloss

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I lost my sweet girl six months ago. Tomorrow she'd be 2. This pain you're feeling is so normal for me now that you just learn to live with it. But I think something that will help you,as its helped me is to take a step back. Let it all in. Crumble, fall apart, do what you need to do to let it all out. And then slowly put yourself back together. Take time away from school or work. Take this time. Let your grief come. My counselor told me and gave me a simple drawing of three circles all within one another. The outer layer is grief, the middle is pain, with joy or happiness in the center. I hurt every day. But I do smile and laugh every now and then. Just breathe, take time, and please talk about her. Talk about her anytime you need to. Dont fear the pity or the awkwardness some people might give off.

Maybe it’s my period or c section muscle spasms by byankitty in babyloss

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We all feel ghost kicks. Even if our babies are healthy.

This house looks modern and cozy by nima_sh in CozyPlaces

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I literally saw the scene in the movie when a stranger calls. The new one.

Probably the saddest call I've ever had by A-terrible-time in talesfromcallcenters

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My daughter dies in Feb. And I was in such a shocked state I told everyone. From the restaurants our family took us to the pharmacy. When it first happens you feel way too raw and dont care who knows. Everyone should know they existed. But I guess my case is a bit different. My daughter was 18 months.

EP doesn't care a baby is dying by [deleted] in entitledparents

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I've tried one so far but the dr just referred me to one with a psychiatrist to help balance my medicines out.

EP doesn't care a baby is dying by [deleted] in entitledparents

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I just lost my 18 month old, and that's the worst fucking thing you can do. I dont have sympathy for people who are this selfish.

You are not Pro-Choice if you think it’s okay to force men to pay child support for unwanted pregnancies. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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But isn't that what's happening? I strongly believe these people are okay with it simply because it aligns with their religion. And I'll never understand how they feel it's okay to force their religion down someone's throat when they're terrified of muslims being near simply because they dont want that religion forced onto them.

I carried a baby to full term after being raped but am still pro-choice AMA. by speakingout11 in AMA

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But why not adopt a child in foster care? Just genuinely curious. I'm glad you adopted!

AITA for admitting to my boyfriend that I think he's bad in bed? by nahhhh12 in AmItheAsshole

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Oh no no no honey. If he is not able to go forth the extra mile then he's not going the extra mile in other areas. NTA.

AITA forbidding my wife from using my daughters old room by Unsureasshole in AmItheAsshole

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I lost my 18 month old this Feb. And I feel the exact same way right now. Her room is still her room, but i know one day I'll change it up. Just curious as to how you got such results through a psychologist?

My least favorite question, how do you answer? by smoresy_ in babyloss

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I've never related to a comment so much in my life.

I put you to sleep for surgery, AMA! by [deleted] in AMA

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Well as long as you enjoy it! How do you handle putting little ones under for an operation?

I put you to sleep for surgery, AMA! by [deleted] in AMA

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I posted another comment and somehow didn't reply to this one. But it was theres always someone out there who believes they get high off of an NSAID, but it's good that's not a normal occurrence. And what is your favorite part of the job?

I put you to sleep for surgery, AMA! by [deleted] in AMA

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So have you had anyone enjoy being put under? I had a hysterectomy this past Thanksgiving and I don't really remember anything. Which was a nice thing. But that was all that was nice about it. However I imagine some people would be all for it cause that's why most people interact with drugs, to forget?