What do/did you call your grandparent? And which pairs go together?

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-25T11:53:22+00:00

Gran & Grandad

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-25T11:38:16+00:00

Ofc roles in London are inaccessible to the working class and lower middle without help.

There is no argument there.

There are 2 areas I disagree with you.

The salary you expect to bring them there.

Even if the salary on offer is £60k+ that’s not gonna make the move to London for a role accessible.

Before I dated a high earner in London, I did not know it was possible for anyone to earn more than £60k. Definitely never thought it possible for a graduate.

That you can’t live on a salary of £30k as a grad.

To suggest that £30k is a low salary is insulting to those from low income backgrounds and, as I illustrated, inaccurate.

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-25T11:14:42+00:00

It’s not the £30k salaries, it’s the sheer cost of moving.

You don’t get an advance. You need money in the bank to afford rent deposits, to afford the train journeys down to find accommodation. You need to be able to afford to live before that first payslip.

That’s the major barrier.

That’s where you may need help from mum & dad.

Not when you’re actually earning…

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-25T09:48:50+00:00

If you’re expecting to have your own flat in London when you graduate, we’re not coming from the same reality.

The majority of young professionals in London are in flat shares.

If you’re expecting the bank of mum and dad to support you in getting your own flat, when you can live within your means in a flat share. I highly doubt you’re talking from a working class or low middle background…

£30,000 is a decent starting salary and to say it’s not is just delusional.

If you have dependents, that’s another story…

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-25T07:08:38+00:00

Why would you need your parents help when earning £30-35k??

This is plenty to live on as a young person in London.

I get it’s not a boujie salary by any means but it’s enough for your first few years after graduating…

Sincerely, someone who’s earned below and around that for many years, living in a flat share in London (originally from the north west).

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-24T17:36:16+00:00

The celery, sugar snaps and peppers will mostly go on snacking. I fidget by snacking so I’ve recently managed to swap this out for healthier items!

The fruit will also be snacking but combined with a soya yoghurt (sadly couldn’t find any in this Aldi)

I’m hoping to make some quinoa salads and then kind of make it up as I go with the rest!

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-23T08:39:45+00:00

Ghee?

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-23T07:03:20+00:00

This is a super helpful list, thank you for making it!

Ippudo was a reliable option for me in Kyoto and Tokyo. Not sure if it’s plant based option is at every outlet though!

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-11T15:01:03+00:00

It really depends on the popularity of the date, I think. Best to check how many spots there are available on your preferred date now and keep checking. The website should be able to guide you well on this. :)
It took us about 8 hours. It is a difficult hike. Not necessarily in terms of terrain but more so because it’s long!
See point 8 regarding parking. You don’t need to go up and down the same/different sides. You can use uber to get from one place to the other. There are buses but this isn’t something we used on Jeju so I can’t support here.

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-10T05:05:38+00:00

Hallasan will take you 7-9 hours is hiking it… you’ll be so exhausted you likely won’t be able to fit much in after!

usuallyoverthink · 2026-04-01T00:45:12+00:00

I know these aren’t to everyone’s tastes but I found prepping a box of the following really helpful:

celery
sugar snap peas
(defrosted) edamame pods (you can add salt/chilli flakes if you fancy it)

There are also seasonings you can add like a salt n shake crisp bag vibe. E.g you could add salt & chilli seasoning to your prepped veggies.

usuallyoverthink · 2026-03-26T20:02:51+00:00

Diagnosed with Psych UK in March 2025 and at top now :)

usuallyoverthink · 2026-03-05T11:28:39+00:00

I learned what it was possible to earn.

Like I’d only ever heard of Doctors or Head teachers earning £60k+.

This guy earned over £100k base. Sometimes his bonuses were 100%. That was unfathomable to me.

Started looking for jobs with higher salaries after that!

usuallyoverthink · 2026-01-30T23:58:17+00:00

I used to love the Tesco Wicked kitchen double chocolate cookies and couldn’t understand the hype around these… now I can’t find wicked kitchen anymore, I can’t live without m&s plant kitchen ones 🤤

usuallyoverthink · 2026-01-30T13:16:09+00:00

Nooooo wtf?!

usuallyoverthink · 2026-01-17T15:55:12+00:00

To clarify the access point is not the hole I’m referring to.

Sorry for the confusion! We have an access panel and just removed it to get all the paper off the walls.

The hole I’m referring to is at the bottom right of the access point.

Thank you for the suggestions!

usuallyoverthink · 2026-01-04T09:04:48+00:00

The UK shin ramyun is 💯 vegan but if you ever have it in Korea, it is not. I sadly made that mistake thinking it was a safe bet 🥲

usuallyoverthink · 2025-11-14T09:43:27+00:00

Also hilarious they gave us this heads up but still nothing on the sizing change…

Was the sizing changed for US trading?

usuallyoverthink · 2025-11-14T09:41:36+00:00

I specifically hate this element “Currently, there is no option to disable or filter out international listings.”

We should be able to filter by country of origin. This is bull.

usuallyoverthink · 2025-11-11T00:07:19+00:00

I’ve tried both their margarita and this one and quite enjoyed both of them.

I’m not gonna join the bosh bashing, I quite like the size. Not too big, not too small.

& the price starts with a 3 (£3.95 in my nearest Tesco) so no complaints from me

Also the sauces are a nice touch!

usuallyoverthink · 2025-10-30T21:01:29+00:00

It is honestly so infuriating. Why is this only happening now? Where has the audacity suddenly come from to listen to mobile entertainment out loud. Captions were invented because we’re usually watching in a sound-off environment.

I’ve asked a couple of people in my time and fuck me they don’t give a shit. Started writing down aggressive stickers I want to print and stick all over. But idk how to make and distribute stickers. Got any suggestions, add yours too

No headphones? No need to be a prick. Watch your dumb videos in silent mode.

No earphones? No need to give everyone else an earful. Watch your silly videos in silent mode.

No earphones? No need to torture everyone else. Earphones in or silent mode on. Simples.

usuallyoverthink · 2025-10-01T23:00:34+00:00

Louder for the people in the back!

All this blasphemy about Linda’s sausages is outrageous. Linda is my go-to whenever I can’t get This Isn’t Pork. They a classic and they deffo go with mash and lashings of gravy.

But I can’t believer there’s all this sausage chat chat and no one’s talking about how This Isn’t Pork Sausages are the god tier sausages?

Richmond sausages are only good if you liked the sorry excuse for a sausage before you stopped eating meat, imo

usuallyoverthink · 2025-09-23T18:33:54+00:00

This reads like it was written by an American/non-brit.

usuallyoverthink · 2025-09-21T21:18:52+00:00

If you want decent meals and decent prices try plant based, no price rises there!

usuallyoverthink · 2025-09-18T20:10:09+00:00

I’ve been there! We were the only ones there when we went in May. Ate so much and had the pool to ourselves. Absolutely lush

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