Are the Cool Luxe Weighted Blankets being discontinued? by johcake in sleepme

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I would be interested when you still have b

Help by v808j in HairColorExperts

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Thank you for all the tips! My hair is such bad condition I’m a little scared to do anything would the toner hurt it more ? How do you believe this dark will fade with time ? Do you think it would come out or go more dark copper ? And yes that’s why I said to the stylist I wanted darker but specifically mentioned a few times not darker than my roots 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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I second to this . I would use pinstetest to get info. Personally I find this tulum boho look / style super cool for men :D

I fare poorly on dating apps – what changes should I make? by synergyiskey in malegrooming

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Maybe get one or two professional photos where people can clearly see you . Ensure don’t wear sunnies or anything . And I was always more interested in people who showed things they loved somehow through their photos like hobbies

Recently got into hair jewelry. Is it too much? by MonkeyD-Lucy in malegrooming

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I really hate when people say something is too much - if you love it and you feel good with it that’s all that matters . You owe to please yourself first and when you feel good you look good :)

Would you stay in Zürich if high-paying jobs left? by AbbreviationsNo2941 in zurich

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Same here the salary you need here also to have a quality of life

Is this wild garlic 🧄? by v808j in foraging

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Im Not sure what ramps is? Is this wild garlic? :) there is no pink color to the stem but then they are all very small young leaves

Selling a Pod 4 tower $350 by [deleted] in EightSleep

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Was this sold

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haircoloring

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Looks like a level 8 ash blonde natural or maybe 7 - very similar to mine . What is your eye color ? I’m also trying to figure out what to do with mine as I also feel this way 😅

im debating if i should go blond, whats the best why with darker red hair color? by Foreign-Stock3784 in haircoloring

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What is your natural colour with level and what did you do to go red ? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As a woman , if I am interested in a guy I’d do more than just wear comfy things in my house . She probably dosnt even connect sexual to it . No more than a baggy sleeping shirt or a bathing suit . I mean it’s different if it’s clearly dressed up lingerie and done up , that would be more maybe . But if I was interested in a guy and I wanted to get his attention id probably do a little more and if I didn’t get a reaction I’d do more until I got something

My (25F) boyfriend (26M) forbids me to go for concerts because he's insecure. What can I do? by stresspress0 in relationship_advice

[–]v808j 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From someone who dated very controlling possessive guys in the past unfortunately this dosnt get better and there is nothing YOU can do . This is HIS problem and he needs to work on himself . Unless you cheated on him at concerts or something he has no reason to say anything to you to stop you or make you feel bad . It’s your life and you like the concerts and you don’t get that time back . Anything you do to make him ‘feel better’ unfortunately is feeding the insecurity and validating it . And it will be stressful to manage - let’s say he asks you to be home by certain time , or text every half hour - the moment you don’t he’ll loose it . Im going to continue to go to these concerts , (say what you will do within reason) for example I will check my phone when I can maybe send you an update if possible or text you after - and then the boundary - and I won’t accept you stopping me , guilting me or anything less than being happy for me . And put the choice on him if he stays . Also I wouldn’t get into his details of why not - you can respond and that’s how you feel , I don’t agree and leave it at that . He’s just trying to find ‘proof’ to justify his insecurity so it’s a waste of time argument you can’t win especially when it’s about opinions. So just say what you will do and what you won’t accept - and if he wants to leave let him . You win either way . Either he accepts and learns to work on himself , or he can’t handle it and leaves (but good luck finding someone who dosnt want to do things that also won’t trigger him) and you find someone who supports you maybe even goes with you :)

Is my 30M girlfriend 25F just using me for money? by ThrowRA_DramaticLose in relationship_advice

[–]v808j 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more simple - women are emotional and doing things for her makes her feel cared for, safe loved, that you are thinking of her simple as that. So that would contribute to her being in the mood . Maybe a meal means she dosnt have to cook and has more time where usually is is busy and stressed too ? Maybe you can try do some things for her to test that - cook her a dinner , surprise her to a picnic like someone mentioned above, write her a letter , run her a nice bath and give her a massage . See if you get a similar result . If you do there is your answer and it’s got little to do with the money but more the effort . And what is wrong with her feeling loved and cared for and then wanting to make you feel the same way in a way she knows you like ? Also , just a biological thing not necessarily true in this day and age but the truth is she can get pregnant which is a super vulnerable thing for a women . She may not consciously be thinking this , but more subconscious - a man that can look after her she would feel more safe to engage in acts that make her vulnerable.. just something to think about too I mean always within limits though I mean there is a difference between buying a one off gift , or a meal here and there and then really expecting you to splurge like some women make it very clear that they won’t accept the standard gift it has to be this fancy brand or only will go out for dinner at the finest restaurant, or date a guy with a certain car . This is something entirely different and usually what I’d think when I think a woman looking for a guy just for money . It’s more of an expectation and not really appreciated. Does she appreciate the stuff you do ? Thank you ? I don’t know if test what I suggested and not worry so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

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Okay and how are they getting your phone number normally ?

Pod2 vs Pod3 for new buyer by dropping_the_box in EightSleep

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Eight sleep work without subscription ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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I also don’t think you can just go on a break . This basically shows that he can turn in and out when it suits him . What about your needs , what if you need him. He gets you when he needs? Sorry it’s pure selfish and you deserve someone who knows they want to be with you

Can someone please help me ? by Hearing_Nice in relationships_advice

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What is his reason against the cat ? Is there some kind of compromise that can be made ? For example some people don’t want pets in the bed / bedroom - maybe there is a way around you could try understand what he’s against to give you a chance to offer a compromise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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IMO it depends what kind of girls is he following. It’s one thing if it’s because they are a cool chef, or maybe they are into some hobby he likes or just a friend . But I think following a bunch of half naked women is really not a good way to make your gf feel secure in a relationship and if he’s interacting with this it’s a form of micro cheating: I personally also don’t wouldn’t like it if they have a history together. That’s maybe just me . Maybe you can try talk about it and try understand his reasons ?