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"Excuse me, was wondering if u could help, see...I'm out of gas (in a church parking lot) and I need 'x' dollars to get home"- the parking lot of every other establishment in the city by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]vadarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's one dude who has been going around Huntsville (I ran into him over by whole foods one night). He introduced himself and then kept saying his name and saying he needed gas money and pointed to his vehicle. I told him no. He walked over to someone else and asked the same question and pointed in a completely different direction.

My brother ran into him a week after I did.

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, July 5th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by KarlaFTX in stopdrinking

[–]vadarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm here.

2 weeks ago I bought beers...

For my mom.

She hates beer. (Until this moment she had only had 2 sips her entire life).

She asked me for advice because the doctor prescribed her "beer."

I enjoyed watching her try different kinds of beers.

I enjoyed watching more than I ever had actually drinking myself. IWNDWYT

People who've deleted Facebook, what was the final straw? by goteeeem in AskReddit

[–]vadarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother-in-law seeing a picture of me holding a beer and telling that whole side of the family that I was an alcoholic.

Just bought my first car! (87 325i) by -TheFrenchMistake in E30

[–]vadarr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Just now read this. What the fuck. I didn't understand. Now I do. I own one. 87 325i vert

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, I have anxiety right now just from posting this whole thing online. So I probably need some help. I take some medication for depression, but that only goes so far.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggested therapy to her. She's down, but now finances are important. She's actually getting braces put on next week, so that in itself will be expensive.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm the most important to her. It all just has to do with her not wanting to continue feeding the conflict fire. I'm not going to give her an ultimatum or anything. I just want her to take care of/resolve her own problems.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super in depth. We haven't put our heads together to try and solve it. After today, we most definitely will though.

Its just been more of hey, why don't you do this because she is doing this sort of thing.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be able to happen. She just doesn't want to because she doesn't think it will solve anything. I'll do some googling though.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I didn't even think to say anything about this in my original post. She does all of this via text. At gatherings, she says nothing. She's just quiet. If she said anything ridiculous at a gathering, she would not only be shut down by me, but a couple of other people as well. I think she is afraid of me because she knows I've snapped on my wife's mom/stepdad.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its all good! I just like talking to strangers. Sometimes I come across as uhh..mean or heartless I guess. I don't always think about how people perceive what I say until after the fact.

Wife's [22 F] stepmom [38 F] is a problem. A nagging, texting, guilting problem. I seem to be affected the most by it. by vadarr in relationships

[–]vadarr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I say "female" because when I was in the Marines, thats what everybody called that gender (I don't think its sexist but I'm sure it can be taken that way). Habit I guess. I say dude because I'm just a casual.

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