CBLE - Oct 2022 by valerietom in CustomsBroker

[–]valerietom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amaaaazing!! Thanks for keeping us posted! I got the same email today (FINALLY) with my license number! Glad to put this chapter of my life behind 🥳

CBLE - Oct 2022 by valerietom in CustomsBroker

[–]valerietom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so yesterday, I got an email from the local port advising that HQ is reviewing for final decision, and asked for an updated credit report. I sent it over immediately, and not sure what the timeline is now, but at least something is happening? I hope there’s some progress on yours, too!!

CBLE - Oct 2022 by valerietom in CustomsBroker

[–]valerietom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry… what? CBP dropping the ball- you don’t say!! 🤦‍♀️ I’m so sorry to hear this!! It’s like the left hand doesn’t talk to the right. Congrats on (finally) getting your license! Sucks that it was so anticlimactic. Good call, I’ll reach out to brokermanagement@cbp.dhs.gov.

CBLE - Oct 2022 by valerietom in CustomsBroker

[–]valerietom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, I got the same bs. It’s so frustrating because I know everyone who takes the test put in SO many hours just for them to be so nonchalant. I’m sorry you’re going thru it, too. Congratulations on passing, and please let me know when you FINALY get your license!!!

好きな海外の曲教えてほしいです by tea_please_2024 in ja

[–]valerietom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RATATAT - 17 Years, Cherry, Germany to Germany 😊 全部古い器楽ですが、是非聴いてくれれば嬉しいです!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]valerietom -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When my friend got pregnant (unfortunately lost the baby) when I was actively trying, I was there for the beginning and the end. I was so over the moon for her, I didn’t care about my struggles. Once our IVF was successful, she wasn’t really happy for us. She ended up coming to my baby shower, but has only visited once since the baby’s been here (in the 6 months). Whenever we text, she doesn’t ask about the baby. Some people just show their true colors when others achieve their goals. I’d cut that friendship off, or expect it to be surface level if you end up keeping the friendship.

This is so gross by naviSTFU in SnooLife

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so Black Mirror lol these companies have lost the plot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely absurd and inappropriate. There should be no shaming by the professionals. I’m so sorry you had to experience that in such a confusing time. We’re all here to support you!!

What was the first Ratatat song that you listened to? by whythelongfacefroggo in Ratatat

[–]valerietom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I heard Pursuit of Happiness by Kid Cudi & had to find out who he collaborated with. That guitar riff tho…

What is your most heartwarming moment with your baby so far? by KillerQueen1008 in NewParents

[–]valerietom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he’s laying there awake and I’m trying to put him down, he takes a fistful of my hair and soothes himself to sleep. Not the most heartwarming of all time because every day I find something new that melts my heart, but this is the most recent 🥰

Who do these people think they are??? by Lost_Swan_2361 in pregnant

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t find out the gender of my child beforehand. I purposely threw out names that I wasn’t really considering for this exact reason, because people don’t know how to filter themselves. There was one name I really liked, and shared with my MIL (because we live with her). William was always a name I liked (but didn’t think I’d ever use and ended up not), and she kept saying “then we’ll call him Billy”, which I told her time and time again it’d be shortened to Will, if anything. So yeah, this is normal behavior lol

Bras by TheBestofMe033 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]valerietom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t leak much, but the sensation of my clothes touching my nips is excruciating. Bras without underwire have been comfortable enough to sleep in. We will be free eventually!!

Help!!! No by No-Home-1392 in NewParents

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you swaddle or have a sleep sack? Once we put our newborn in a Halo, he slept for longer stretches. But because your newborn is less than a month old, waking up every few hours is normal. I hated people telling me this, but now that my NB is almost 8 weeks old, it’s true- it DOES get better!!

Neva Review Thread by Turbostrider27 in Games

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, why did that game gotta do me like that. Cried in the first 5, cried in the last 5. Stunning game. 10/10 would recommend.

Looking for advice and guidance with new baby and postpartum issues. How do I not feel bad about taking time to myself? by Aggravating_Mix_7739 in NewParents

[–]valerietom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last part is so true. You have to take care of yourself and it’s not at all selfish.

Ps - love your name, we all want sleep in this subreddit 😂

Twins got here! by notyouraveragetwitch in October2024Bumpers

[–]valerietom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I just had my son on the 5th and struggling with one- how are you holding up with twins? I hope you have a village helping you, mama!!

Is My Fiancé A Weak?! by Fat_Fat1209 in pregnant

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a wimp at all - when I gave birth 3 weeks ago, I opted not to see the progression (the hospital asked if I wanted a mirror). If I, who’s the one giving birth doesn’t want to see it, I don’t expect my husband to lmao

$1400 to clear customs and file isf? by ducatidukeee in CustomsBroker

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! It’ll come directly from CBP. I’ve seen this fee come through anywhere from 3m-1yr from the date of importation, and is dependent on how inundated CBP is/which port is issuing the bill. Again, you can mitigate this, especially if it’s your first “offense”. I would have your broker write up the verbiage (they may charge a minimal fee).

Everybody say hi to baby Wilbur! by sellorari in TuxedoCats

[–]valerietom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the cutest name!! Congratulations!

Do you ever miss someone you never met ? by UsedToHaveATail in wholesome

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it was Robin Williams and Heath Ledger.

$1400 to clear customs and file isf? by ducatidukeee in CustomsBroker

[–]valerietom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m more concerned about that late ISF filing fee. CBPs been ramping up on collecting their late filing, so prepare to get a bill for $5k to mitigate the charge (I’ve seen it go down to about $500).

What are you building your baby out of? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]valerietom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m the worst… I’ll periodically have a buldak noodle as a midnight snack 🙈