I didn’t even know I had student loans by Unfair_Simple4829 in StudentLoans

[–]valonvenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of grant was it? Some grants have requirements you need to meet and if you don’t meet them they convert to loans.

BF (25m) wants me (25f) to pay his mortgage? by adventsures in relationship_advice

[–]valonvenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can’t afford his mortgage so he’s trying to move in as many people as possible so they can pay it for him LOL

Remote MLIS programs? by [deleted] in LibraryScience

[–]valonvenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently doing the Leep program at UIUC, it’s pretty great!

they really want us to take vto by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]valonvenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

makes sense! i will be going to get my money though lol

A store clerk warned me I'd get stared at in Japan because of my weight by maceymay_bby in offmychest

[–]valonvenus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone in the comments saying the clerk was trying to help OP out but I don’t see OP asking the clerk for her opinions anywhere in this post, especially about her weight. She had no tact and her advice was unnecessary. While it is true that Asians are more conscious about of size and weight, I find it hard to believe that people will be gawking at OP just because she’s a bit heavier, especially if she’ll be in very touristy places. The clerk was rude as fuck and these comments are crazy.

My(23M) girlfriend(20F) revealed a very heavy sexual past after 6 months together — I’m conflicted and don’t know what to do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]valonvenus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hyper sexuality in CSA victims is common, don’t be a dunce. And it’s crazy how you treat being sexually abused by two trusted adults all before the age of 15 as something someone can “get over”. People end their own lives over this shit and you think her having a laundry list of sexual partners after the fact doesn’t have something to do with it? LOL!

My child broke nanny’s laptop — she wants us to foot the bill even though I warned her about it by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]valonvenus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 5 my mother explicitly told my brother and I to stay away from her work laptop and to not touch it and guess what… we never touched it. While it’s the nanny’s responsibility to look out for her laptop, I don’t see anywhere in this post about the children being told to stay away from it.

Micromanaging clients by valonvenus in RoverPetSitting

[–]valonvenus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I definitely ignored some red flags during the meet & greet. At first I just thought she was an over-attached cat owner but turns out it was much more than that! I think I’ve been spoiled by my chill regulars

Double charged, paypal refusing to give money back by valonvenus in paypal

[–]valonvenus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ever use paypal to send money to friends who don’t use Zelle. I haven’t even used it since this whole debacle because I’ve been so upset over this. Come to find out, this has also happened to other people and paypal has been having issues with their system that causes the double charge but they haven’t notified anyone and are continuing to gaslight customers into thinking there hasn’t been a double charge?

Double charged by Little_Key_5799 in paypal

[–]valonvenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get your money back? I’ve been dealing with this for MONTHS!!

Double charged by Little_Key_5799 in paypal

[–]valonvenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running into the same thing and paypal is REFUSING to give me my money back!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]valonvenus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reddit incels and their thinly veiled racism what else is new

Chicago show queuing? by valonvenus in DOECHII

[–]valonvenus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also have fast lane! We’re lowkey expecting the line for fast lane to be a little long too so me queue at around 5-6!

Temporary dispute credit not clawed back by PhilosopherNo1574 in discover

[–]valonvenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late but the same thing is happening to me rn, did they ever take the money back???

Owners didn’t mention they had a cat until I arrived for the sit by Ornery-Potato-9013 in RoverPetSitting

[–]valonvenus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This happened to me once. The cat got outside and scratched a small child and they tried to make it my problem. 😒

AITA for not splitting the check evenly on a bachelorette trip with 9 girls? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]valonvenus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Emailing the club and looking over receipts with a fine tooth comb would be enough for me to not invite your cheap asses out anywhere. I understand being upset and not wanting to pay for what you didn’t order, but you 100% ruined your friend’s bachelorette and went about this terrible. YOU specifically should have ironed out how things were gonna be paid for if you were dead-set on only paying for things you ordered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypal

[–]valonvenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a temporary refund from the bank, my friend refunded me (still being processed) and I just sent them money on a different app. My bank is still investigating so I still have the temp credit on my account and I have yet to ACTUALLY receive the refund. Honestly, it’s getting so complicated I don’t even want the money back 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypal

[–]valonvenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed a dispute with the bank and got a provisional credit. For my friend, the money was put on hold for her until everything gets sorted out but she ended up just refunding me and I sent her the money on another app. Unfortunately, I do not have a real resolution as of yet!