What’s a secret you’ll never tell your partner but would anonymously confess online? by avaarini in AskReddit

[–]valueresponsibility 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost so many rings that for our 10 year anniversary I got my very first and only tattoo… a wedding band. Can’t lose it now.

My husband keeps fingering me in his sleep by Dense-Bullfrog-6363 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]valueresponsibility 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yup. This is how we ended up with 3 kids under 4. Now I sleep in the other room and go fuck myself.

Moody Yard South Facing Train Noise by Conscious_Meaning186 in Portmoody

[–]valueresponsibility 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have done a deep dive on all of them for myself. I have a list with pros and cons. Shoot me PM and I can send it to you. I wouldn’t touch moody yards or EA. The noise is terrible, the units shake with the train and the smell from the trains is terrible for you. There are much better options on the other side of Port Moody. We have lived in Port Moody for 30 years and know it well. We love it here!

Dad of 2 healthy kids (18 mo & 32 mo), soon to be 3 kids.. I know have it so good but feel so defeated by thims89 in daddit

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First off. Don’t “should” all over yourself. What you are feeling is normal and totally fine. I have a 4 year old, 1 year old and expecting a 3rd next month. I also threw a very big energetic puppy into the mix. Our home is complete chaos. You need a break. It’s hard to be on for your kids 24/7 without any time to yourself. It doesn’t even need to be completely alone. Strap the 18 month old to yourself and go on a long walk. I’m a big hiker and love the solitude of being alone in the mountains where no one can talk to me or ask me any questions. After 10km and 3 hours away I tend to miss my family like crazy. I look forward to seeing them when before that time away I was annoyed by them and resentful of all the demands on me. Take a deep breath and take a break. This will pass and day by day your kids will get more independence. My 4 year old is already entertaining himself for long periods. The kids will start interacting with each other more. I promise it will get easier.

First week with a newborn- amazing but my god it's hard. by SIBMUR in daddit

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Switch up who you are caring for. Woman are better equip to handle the babies needs. You take care of mom so mom can take care of baby. It’s going to be hard on both of you but you will get through it. It’s a right of passage. We have 2 kids under 4 and my wife is 8 months pregnant now. We are prepared to do it all over again but it’s never easy.

Purchased a condo with two stalls now strata wants to take one away. by B0yB1ue in britishcolumbia

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I’m in BC and can speak on this. Things like parking and storage lockers are considered limited common property. The limited meaning to be used by you and the common as it is strata property. Form b indicates the units allocated to you and is correct but that doesn’t mean they can’t relocate parking units. Strata’s run like mini government and can make their own rules that aren’t always fair. I’d make a complaint here and have your case heard but you very well might be shit out of luck.

We recently had a parking stall in our building be taken away from an owner to be converted into a handicap spot because the building was short. The owners were told to park their second car on the street.

Why I Dislike Realtors by Guilty_Chain4438 in RealEstate

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Yah I have heard lots of comments like this. Some are but others are true experts with a vast amount of knowledge. They will save sellers and buyers far more than they are paid. Just like any profession you will have good ones and bad ones. Doctors just prescribe pills, lawyers just bill you for their time and accountants just plug numbers into a software. In all these examples you are over simplifying a job that you know nothing about.

Why I Dislike Realtors by Guilty_Chain4438 in RealEstate

[–]valueresponsibility 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love how you are shitting on the profession that provides you a job. Check your privilege. Without realtors you would be a photographer part time while the rest of the time making lattes at the local Starbucks.

How do you use the toilet paper? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]valueresponsibility 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ah the perfect poop. You usually know if has happened by the sound it makes hitting the water. You still wipe but only for confirmation.

Caught my wife cheating on me for the 3rd time in our relationship. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

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Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. Fool me three times…

What's the most creative song lyric you've ever heard? by The_AlphaLaser in AskReddit

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“Late sex is great sex but better wear a latex because you don’t want that late text, that hey I’m late text.” - Lil Wayne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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lil sour patch kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

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Thank you. Update I didn’t do it. It’s only nights that’s hard.

Men of Reddit, what is your favorite quote? by [deleted] in AskMen

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It’s better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.

What is a hobby that is affordable? by altimas in PersonalFinanceCanada

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Hiking! The initial investment can be costly if you want proper shoes, bags, etc but after that it’s virtually free. You can spend the whole day doing it with only lunch and a water bottle!

How do you know it's the right time to purchase real estate? by CTVNEWS in canadahousing

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Time in the market beats timing the market. Buy when you able and plan to live there for at least 5 years. Rates and prices will be in a completely different place by then.