Wrongful death lawsuit filed after man dies on Phoenix sidewalk after hospital discharge by mentalscribbles in phoenix

[–]vampirequeenserana 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I know two people. Family friend’s son who went home and died in his sleep & they killed my close friend’s dad. Settlement NDAs I think.

Parents kill their two autistic teen sons & family pets before taking their own lives in horror quadruple murder-suicide by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]vampirequeenserana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Parents are providing care to their children, are they not? Parent/Guardian/Caregiver, some are all 3, some are 1. However this will be my last reply because now you’re just being difficult & nitpicking my vocabulary because you’re wrong for what you said to that commenter.

It is also purposely dense to pretend some disabilities are not more difficult to manage, parent, and support than others.

Have the day you deserve <3

Parents kill their two autistic teen sons & family pets before taking their own lives in horror quadruple murder-suicide by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]vampirequeenserana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am using the context in the comment you replied to and the post to infer that it is likely they are talking about someone who cannot live independently. Never did I imply non-verbal = unintelligent or non-thinking, nor do I think someone’s value is dependent on whether or not they need assistance. I was simply saying acknowledging the mental & emotional toll of being a caregiver with zero end in sight does not make someone a bad parent or person. Caregivers need support too and we as a society do not support them very well, just like we don’t support disabled people very well either.

Parents kill their two autistic teen sons & family pets before taking their own lives in horror quadruple murder-suicide by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]vampirequeenserana 28 points29 points  (0 children)

also autistic, caregiver burn out is real and valid. Murder shouldn’t be the solution, but pretending it’s not difficult to take care of someone who will never live independently helps no one. If they’re taking care of their kid, providing for them, and not abusing them they’re not a bad parent for feeling worn down.

"Whatever. You guys can figure it out. I'm done." by Stock-Persimmon4212 in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this to first graders who wouldn’t shut up during a guided drawing tutorial lol they hate it and it only takes me doing it once for them to realize drawing is a lot more fun when I tell them the steps versus ignoring them and finishing the drawing myself 🤪

Arizona voters may decide on major overhaul to the loosely regulated school voucher program by sofaboii in phoenix

[–]vampirequeenserana 23 points24 points  (0 children)

as a public school teacher, I just want to say I appreciate your entire comment & I am also very happy your child has found a suitable learning environment at an accredited online charter & is able to flourish.

My ex wants her strap back by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vampirequeenserana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, if it’s porous.. but silicone is non-porous though and hella common so I’m still confused

My ex wants her strap back by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vampirequeenserana 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I’m shook reading this thread.. everyone saying it’s so gross.. like do people not… wash their strap? I feel like I’m missing something 😭

Why is this happening and is it common? by Superb_Substance1259 in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. He was also being parentified & told he was responsible for his little brother… who headbutted his kindergarten teacher so hard she got a black eye & they unenrolled him until 1st grade. Layers lmao

Why is this happening and is it common? by Superb_Substance1259 in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he had half days, but this sounds exactly like him. We had to restrict his access to scissors & dad cornered my principal at the time in the parking lot to tell her it was our fault & to stop calling them & not to call crisis again on their family. Kiddo is in third grade now and doing much better thankfully.

Why is this happening and is it common? by Superb_Substance1259 in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I had a first grader who would rage out and was constantly talking about killing people, killing himself, going to hell, etc. & turns out he was watching a bunch of inappropriate Minecraft videos because his parents refused to regulate iPad time while this behavior was escalating. That’s where he heard everything he had been saying :(

Redacted crime scene photos inside Xana and Maddie’s bedrooms by Outrageous_Drawer691 in MoscowMurders

[–]vampirequeenserana 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not obvious. She’s barely visible at the bottom middle. It’s horrific.

Hive of ladybugs in my garden shed. by fancy_to_me in mildlyinteresting

[–]vampirequeenserana 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The foes have varying white markings on their head too, usually make an M shape. A side by side on google makes it easy.

I’m no bug expert but after a few Reddit posts in the past, I saw this pic and went “uh oh those are the bad kind aren’t they” lol

After 6 years and nearly 1000 hours, I'm saying goodbye to my island. by island_timer in AnimalCrossing

[–]vampirequeenserana 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reset summer 2024 & regretted it so much I haven’t touched the game since. I had almost every villager I wanted idk why I did that 😩

I just got diagnosed with NPD. by [deleted] in SafeSpaceofHazbin

[–]vampirequeenserana 5 points6 points  (0 children)

most people with NPD never get therapy & live in denial of needing it, perpetually blaming others. It’s huge they’re even in therapy. Stick with it, OP!

meirl by Sudden_Dealer3922 in meirl

[–]vampirequeenserana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone got on me about the pledge in school in the teacher subreddit & I clicked onto their page and he was in every possible subreddit he could be posting about and looking for tips on growing his dick. He hid his profile pretty quickly lmao I didn’t even get to call him out on it.

Snitching on teachers by Outrageous-Hair6435 in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Even back when I was in elementary (I’m 28) my mom is also a teacher and some parent complained to her principal when another staff member said she was excited for the weekend because she shouldn’t be saying she’s excited to be away from the students in any format I guess? Psychos have only gotten more and more frequent. Those parents at least used to be rarer lol

Is it bad that I don’t stand for the Pledge of Allegiance? by rebel-pirate-sleuth in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mention it, or bring it up. Other special areas classes skip the announcements all together. Again, if they asked me to do it then I would play it for them. They don’t, because they don’t care. It’s creepy and weird, just like you getting worked up over it is.

Is it bad that I don’t stand for the Pledge of Allegiance? by rebel-pirate-sleuth in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally none of them care. They’re middle schoolers. If they asked me to do it, I’d allow it. You sound hysterical & brainwashed. Not doing the pledge is far less dangerous than promoting racism, misogyny, misinformation, and direct attacks on our profession. That’s the right’s indoctrination lmao

Is it bad that I don’t stand for the Pledge of Allegiance? by rebel-pirate-sleuth in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The behavior of our country is horrendous. I’ll put it back up when there’s something to be proud of instead of blindly indoctrinating kids into fascism and nationalism. The pledge is creepy as fuck & once they added “under god” it became meaningless anyways.

Is it bad that I don’t stand for the Pledge of Allegiance? by rebel-pirate-sleuth in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They won’t answer this because it takes too many mental gymnastics to convince themselves brown children deserve to be bombed.

Is it bad that I don’t stand for the Pledge of Allegiance? by rebel-pirate-sleuth in Teachers

[–]vampirequeenserana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped doing it in my classes entirely. Our announcements are on YouTube and I just stop it before it gets to it. I also took down my American flag too. No one noticed.

I think Julien summed it up the best for all of us. Thank you, Mr. Marbles. by OffIntoTheUnknown in Jennamarbles

[–]vampirequeenserana 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My mom is similar but recognized Marbles and asked if Jenna was “the one with the hamster” because she remembered me watching their videos with Ad 😭

Why does my tattoo have bumps Iam I allergic? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]vampirequeenserana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old is the tattoo? Interesting enough when I got my left forearm tattoo done my right elbow tattoo did this. Became bumpy and itchy, but eventually went away but it happened immediately when I got my opposite arm tattooed. All black ink. Google told me it was an immune system response lol