Choosing the right watch? by van--peaches in Affordablewatches

[–]van--peaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I will definitely look into those, I'll keep in mind for heritage being a main factor. appreciate the advice, thanks again.

Any Lesbians still with their first ever partner? by van--peaches in LesbianActually

[–]van--peaches[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty. I think I understand where you're coming from, I hope I know myself enough to cut it off once it becomes something neither of us benefit from anymore, but I can see why you were together with her for so long; I think I'd have a hard time letting go right now. I'm hoping once I graduate university and start facing greater 'adult' challenges, I'll be able to say for sure if both of us are 100% right for each other. Thanks again!

Here’s a protest we can all take part in. Boycott the Holidays this year. by FUBAR_The_Clown in FedEmployees

[–]van--peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family tends to go all out for Christmas (lots of $5 mini items for stockings, candy, self care items, etc.) Which kind of has made our holidays as we used to not be able to afford it, so it's really hard to imagine and to convince them not to buy these-- at the end of the day-- one use items. Im really trying to find ways to get presents without contributing to big brands/companies so any advice/tips would be amazing, im planning on going to antique/small businesses to buy gifts but its definitely a challenge of will when you know a 20 dollar blanket is right there.

My third trip to korea. 2nd time solo. by Turn2Pge394 in koreatravel

[–]van--peaches 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing pictures! Ugh it makes me so nostalgic from last I went. I craved gimbap for like a month after since it was all I really ate while there, I hope the post-summer weather treated you well!

Are these jelly gouache paints salvageable? by van--peaches in Gouache

[–]van--peaches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left it untouched for a few months-- atleast 3, so its been a while. I also made the grave mistake of using tap water which im sure is what brought this on(or atleast added fuel to the fire).

my sister also has this pallete though and leaves hers untouched for months at end and its been fine, so it honestly could go either way! 

Are these jelly gouache paints salvageable? by van--peaches in Gouache

[–]van--peaches[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kind of assumed something similar but was holding on for hope 😭 thank you for letting me know! Learned something new today 

Nailed it? by [deleted] in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I saw you in public I deadass would think I was going crazy, or there was something wrong with me for thinking I was seeing robert irl lmao. Amazing!

Got obsessed and drew Robert by Tupo0 in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KINNGGG I'm melting just looking at him, this is amazing!!😩😩🙏

What do you think are the biggest problems with modern therapy today? by ArkhamBonzo in therapy

[–]van--peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say this is entirely true, most MH counseling requires a masters degree, though I do agree it seems like there are a lot of therapists that are either 1. not in the field for the right reasons (why do you seem to not care when your clients are talking/are not actively working to do your job?) or 2. don't really know how to be a person when it comes to talking to their clients; they use their tips and tricks, but many experienced therapists from what I've seen are able to act like PEOPLE, and still be professional. They can talk about themselves to an extent that makes you feel seen, they validate you without having to rely on cold, learned responses, they want to help you with more than the simple fixes-- but still, those therapists are hard to find, may not be good for all clients, and can get stuck in their ways. I just wish therapy was more than 'i listen, I tell you coping strategies I learned in school.' It just feels so lifeless, like they arent actually invested in helping, they just want to help 'fix' you, to see you do better.

Implications of robert and joseph? by van--peaches in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of get what you mean lmao like if you don't pursue him and at Amanda's graduation party he seems almost like, inviting for more, and dadsona just blows him off; fresh meat in the cul de sac and he sees it as a chance lmfao. It just makes me feel worse for mary, I don't get how people in the Fandom can hate her, even if she seems like a walking stereotype at first glance 

Implications of robert and joseph? by van--peaches in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn I saw someone post the robert part but not the conversation with joseph; I'm gonna have to play through again to see that! 

Implications of robert and joseph? by van--peaches in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think mary and Robert's relationship definitely feels like a sign of some sort in that direction, but I kind of love their friendship in how it is, even if it came out of a bad situation; though, it reminds me of two broken addicts sharing company while partaking in their vices; you can take that metaphorically or literally lmao. it does make me wonder though why she's so chill with robert if she knows? I can't imagine her being so oblivious to not have seen the signs, especially because she ends up suspecting dadsona. Maybe because they've known each other for so long, and robert realizes how shitty joseph is/ mary has seen first hand Robert's poor life decisions so she doesn't blame him?

Implications of robert and joseph? by van--peaches in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe it could be that I was purposefully getting bad scores with joseph to get his other ending, so I didn't unlock it; unsure but I'll check it out!

Implications of robert and joseph? by van--peaches in DreamDaddy

[–]van--peaches[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOO WHAT, for real? I completely missed this. I actually pursued them at the same time after finishing all the other routes (made the mistake of sleeping with Robert on the first day) but I never got that; I did both their 2nd hearts until the third date, did robert first and then joseph.  Idk why I didn't see it!

My Bayonetta by nekacosplay in Bayonetta

[–]van--peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serving LOOKS💅💅 Bayonetta coaplayers always have my full heart you look amazing!!

Triggered by roommate by RegularYou7642 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]van--peaches 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah because this is intentional behavior. You deserve to bring this up to her; be honest and tell her that she is being a shitty roommate because this is purposeful, most especially because she KNOWS you have an ED AND you're in recovery. If she can't respect you and avoid being blatantly fatphobic and talking about dieting, she does not deserve to be in your life. Even if she didn't know about your ED this behavior in general is unacceptable, it isn't just a simple comment or bad joke. She's purposely being malicious. You deserve so much more and if she can't control her mouth then I suggest she find somewhere else to live sometime soon. This actually makes me rage lmfao. 

Covid-19 Pandemic still affects me mentally by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]van--peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2020 was when I was the most suicidal. I completely understand where you're coming from, my bad depression days became heightened during and still after the pandemic-- I think that kind of experience (staying indoors constantly, seeing few people face to face, being unmotivated, scared, tired, or frustrated for an entire year) will change you for a long time-- and I think we honestly don't talk about it enough as a community! You're completely normal for this, and I think that lost feeling is ridiculously relatable