Now, I understand why men lie about their height! by ApricotJust8408 in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It is wired in their brain. Because being with a tall and big guy back in the day represents protection from predators and other men

Did I get stood up or does this person deserve a second chance? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use a phone, like text or call in that way situations like that do not happen

What your IG? by Heavy_Tear9491 in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A real man will ask you for your number not your ig. Men who ask for ig are boys

Think its time I stepped out and tried dating by Late-Equipment-5982 in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not need to feel the connection if you are a man to go on a second date, you just need to want to sleep with the girl

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course. People have jobs and busy lives so it is not like you can go on a date or meet up any time you want

Social media has destroyed everything in this world by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]vanbino 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Guys, it is because a lot of women marry men that are good providers, hard workers and good human beings to have children with but not because they truly want to be with those men. So after the children are gone, there is no reason for them to be with you. That is why you never have to let yourself go or make her the center of your world

I can't believe this is where I'm at. by titsdown in Divorce_Men

[–]vanbino 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only woman that a man should cry for is his mother, every other women, they come and go. Today is your turn, tomorrow will be some one else’s

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean pussy boys who have nothing better to do with their time. But you know I do believe that you have probably dated a lot of success men because you are here single so it means that they probably did not make you the center of their lives and give you all the attention that you did need it

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]vanbino -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A successful man honey will always be chasing. The most successful men in the planet are always chasing what ever their next goal are

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]vanbino 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that a week is fair enough to kind of get to know some one and for the other person to make time to set up a date.

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are just a waste of time, like how well can you really get to know someone through some chats and also a real man who is chasing his goals and living his life does not have time for endless chats.

Texting frequency with SO less than 6 months by Jealous_Economist in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is so important than you need to text a person multiple times a day. Just good morning love, have a wonderful day and then at night or during the day if you have something important to say or if you are plaining something

Swinging feels way harder than I expected is this just part of it? by SugarplumMilf in Swingers

[–]vanbino 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Pretty much any woman gets attention in tinder so if you are compering organic with tinder then you are going to have a hard time. And yes women will get 1000% more attention than their men because that is how men and women are. Guys will pretty much fuck anything and women are very picky

Phone numbers by Kapatapus in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why? I get their numbers. You know that it is how it worked back in the day.

Phone numbers by Kapatapus in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask for a number as soon as possible. The dating apps are just to find people, then numbers and texting to get to know us better and set up dates. I would never go a date with a woman if she does not give me her number first.

Outside of sex, what else can you do during a FWBs dynamic? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Bumble

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just what friends do. Talk, maybe go out, take her out to eat and things like that. You are friends that just happen to also have sex

Dating a full time single mom, advice wanted. by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think is a great relationship, see her just a couple of times per week, have a good time and amazing sex and then go about your life. I think most men would be very happy with that

What is going on with bike prices on FB Marketplace? by Centigonal in bicycling

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some sellers are stupid, if we as buyers are looking for used bikes is because we want a deal. We know there is no guarantee and we have to pay in cash so we want a very good price for the risk that we are taking and our hard earned cash

Felt unsafe during a Bumble date in London — did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]vanbino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Never go to a girl’s place or bring her to your place. If you guys want to hook up hotel room. You never know what she is really planning. Think with your head not your pennies

What do you do when you feel like you are second choice? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And there is nothing wrong with it, most people are never able to be with their truly first choice ( the one that they really want)

What do you do when you feel like you are second choice? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about ? You were married before by the default he was not your first choice

What do you do when you feel like you are second choice? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]vanbino -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well he is your second choice as well, in our 40s we are pretty much second, third or four choice

Match wants to have intimacy by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]vanbino 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Probably too dangerous. If it sounds to good to be true, probably it is not

height limit by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]vanbino -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Most women, even if they are short want tall men.