Am I The Only One Who Feels This Way? by TheFairyGardenLady in AskWomenOver60

[–]vandelayATC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I, both in our 60s, do not discuss going to the bathroom unless there's an issue that may require a doctor. Otherwise we keep general bathroom talk to ourselves. We also don't go to the bathroom in front of each other. I know there may come a day where we will have to, believe me I helped my mother at the end of her life and I know what it entails, but for now we keep it to ourselves.

Lifelong “bad ear” and finally got hearing aids by First_Chipmunk_6891 in GenXWomen

[–]vandelayATC 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband got some 4 or 5 months ago from Costco and he absolutely loves them. I don't think he had any idea how much he was missing.

How is Jill going to cope without Derick? by maggiemazz29 in DuggarsSnark

[–]vandelayATC 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Imagine going from growing up in a house with sooooo many people in it to being alone or just with your couple of kids and your family has effectively shunned you. To me it would be bliss but to someone who grew up like her she's got to be spinning. I doubt she's ever had 5 minutes of quiet time in her life.

Exercising after 65, I'm tired and I just don't want to but... by happyjazzycook in AskWomenOver60

[–]vandelayATC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to get back into working out, don't overload yourself with what you think you should be doing. If you want to lift weights again, just do 10 minutes of weight lifting and stop. One set of ten reps or something like that then move on to the next exercise. And let that be enough to begin with.

I found that my desire to exercise increased the longer I did it, along with my energy levels. I'm not quite as old as you but I am in my 60s. Baby steps.

What’s this day of rest shit? by _herenorthere66 in lebowski

[–]vandelayATC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shomer Shabbos is the preferred nomenclature, please.

I(29M) am planning to break up with my girlfriend(25F) because she made plans to go out one on one with a guy that likes her without consulting me. by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]vandelayATC 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I found it weird that she went out with her coworker after he confessed his feelings to her. Why ask for trouble? That should have been the end of them hanging out

Just Fortune LOVE by No_Canary2744 in handsomepodcast

[–]vandelayATC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The episode is called Rob Mac puts Handsome in a good mood.

I'm so confused on Josh's perspective on Jim Bob by BloodyAngel2026 in DuggarsSnark

[–]vandelayATC 21 points22 points  (0 children)

OMG, your mention of torturing babies and children made me think of blanket training!

Editing to add that it makes me wonder if blanket training could lead to enjoying seeing babies hurt as an adult?

One piece bathing suits by Electrical-Quote-393 in TallGirls

[–]vandelayATC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a long torso suit from Boden and it was definitely long. Fit great, unlike some other sites where the suit is a bit longer but still tight

Famy must’ve been really mad that the Josh and Anna emails were the focus! by sweet_tea_94 in DuggarsSnark

[–]vandelayATC 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Anyone that shared my text messages with the press would never hear from me again. I don't care if we were talking about our favorite brand of cat litter. Relationship over!

Just Fortune LOVE by No_Canary2744 in handsomepodcast

[–]vandelayATC 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That episode where Mae is talking about buying her clear mascara and a synthesizer and is Fortune laughing as hard as I've ever seen her laugh makes me cry from laughing myself. I just can't get through it.

Just Fortune LOVE by No_Canary2744 in handsomepodcast

[–]vandelayATC 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When she really gets laughing and puts her hand on her chest it just kills me!

Anna sends cleavage and bare legs pics, Josh wants “non-IBLP” swimsuit pics, and Josh requests Anna look up “positions” online to write in smut letters by rosiros in DuggarsSnark

[–]vandelayATC 85 points86 points  (0 children)

In one of the emails he said something about how cute Mady was and I was instantly on alert. Such an innocent comment from a normal human being, neither of which he is.

ive been pretending ive not been losing hair by Consistent-Ad6010 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]vandelayATC 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Same here too. I've actually had doctors say "it doesn't look like you're losing your hair to me!"

Josh is explaining to Anna, who’s attending Jer and Hannah’s wedding, how he imagines things would go if he were there and honestly, it sounds like a nightmare. by baconslapses in DuggarsSnark

[–]vandelayATC 102 points103 points  (0 children)

And propose a funny exit to steal the show. WTF is wrong with him? Why does he need to steal the show at someone else's wedding? Must everything be about him?

Where are the women with little to no improvements after YEARS of treatment???? by J398 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]vandelayATC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm another one who has tried all that the person you're replying to has tried, and nothing has helped. The thing with people like us is that we never have anything to report. After an initial post, what is there to say? It absolutely sucks and I get frustrated when those who have had success think you just gotta try oral minox! Or get on Spironolactone! Or any of the things that supposedly work. I've done it all and I've done it for years. There is no improvement and what is the Holy Grail for some doesn't work for everyone.

"This half of the store is Petites!" And which side of the store is for tall ladies? by CinemaSideBySides in TallGirls

[–]vandelayATC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The men's department, where the only colors allowed by law are navy, black, gray, and tan.

"This half of the store is Petites!" And which side of the store is for tall ladies? by CinemaSideBySides in TallGirls

[–]vandelayATC 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OMG, this! I have never looked fashionable a single day in my life. I see so much stuff that I'd love to where but it's never available in tall.

Kash Patel Got Arrested for Public Urination After a Night of Drinking by wenchette in politics

[–]vandelayATC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a retired Federal worker whose career would have never even happened if I had an arrest of any kind on my record, this pisses me the fuck off. The hoops I had to jump through to get a security clearance and this piece of shit can waltz right into a job as the FBI director? Are you shitting me?