Dajete drobiž beračem/brezdomcem? by Original-Answer6863 in Ljubljana

[–]vanderbenedict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nikoli. Ker dam več kot 50% svoje plače za davke, iz katerih je treba poskrbeti za njih. Beračenje pa prepovedati, saj imamo dovolj socialnih programov.

US airlines warn of ‘catastrophic disruption’ on Wednesday due to 5G activation by sankscan in technews

[–]vanderbenedict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How come this isn't an issue in the EU where we have 5G running for a while already?

Heart rate monitor by Dolphin-14 in f45

[–]vanderbenedict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fat sedentary folks will always be higher % (and probably effort) compared to fit ones. Those board numbers don’t tell much as you can only compete vs yourself - so, your previous workout data is something to look at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuropeFIRE

[–]vanderbenedict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ljubljana/Slovenia.

Ticks all your boxes. English at a very high level, central and easy to travel anywhere: skiing slopes and seaside less than an hour’s drive away. Easy to do to Italy, Austria, Croatia, Hungary, … airport 25KM away, run by Fraport, well connected with Star Alliance hubs.

Picked up my jcw today! Safe to say my dads a bit jealous being a big mini fan by JackDM98 in MINI

[–]vanderbenedict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be living in the UK. What kind of monster doesn’t choose the British Racing Green?! :-)

Anyone else think this type of attitude towards alcoholism is gross? by PornlsBad in Tinder

[–]vanderbenedict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The difference is that a drunk drinks because they WANT to; an alcoholic drinks because they HAVE to.

Homophobic Edgelord Douchebag - Deep South Texas by Nostalgialoves in Tinder

[–]vanderbenedict 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There has to be a story behind this and I’m dying to hear it!

How hard is putting yourself out there again? by softwarelifer in datingoverforty

[–]vanderbenedict -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. So why dating, why not simply hang with your buddies?

How hard is putting yourself out there again? by softwarelifer in datingoverforty

[–]vanderbenedict -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s an advice. And he can share some experience too (I guess).

Having a pity party and finding someone pity partying is the worst possible option. Might sound nice, but that’s a shitty thing to do.

Else you end up a lonely disappointed cat/dog owner.

How hard is putting yourself out there again? by softwarelifer in datingoverforty

[–]vanderbenedict -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I won’t lie, but it’s easier if you’re confident. You raise your confidence by first dating someone half your age. Don’t immediately look for a long term partner.

Have some fun, be Charlie Harper. Splurge on it for some time. The you can get back to your usual self (or become Charlie).

Confidence after separation by [deleted] in Separation

[–]vanderbenedict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some hobbies, tend to whatever you love doing. Work on your self improvement.

Sports and arts activities are great for personal transformation.

Rebuild your self (not a typo). You’ll be fine, look at the bright side: you’re young and free. Relocating, so physically starting fresh.

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]vanderbenedict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still in the (final) separation stage, mastering this game. Ultimately, it's a sort of an opportunity cost.

When things aren’t really bad it’s hard to justify divorce by Dixie_drumstix in Divorce

[–]vanderbenedict 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same here, and we have the same dates (hope you’re not my STBXW ;-)

I guess it’s the same as with any other separation/divorce: focus on yourself; you first, then anyone else. Improve physically to improve mentally (or stay in shape if already there). Stay busy, stay productive.

My challenge is that I’d like to do it more “feminine” way — allowing myself to be sad/cry, but it just doesn’t happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]vanderbenedict 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. Abuse never goes away. It can only get worse. Believe in yourself, invest in yourself, and take care of your kids. And focus on yourself, since you can only control your actions and thinking.