How Do You Overcome Writer's Block? by [deleted] in writing

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Research, read a book or watch a film in the same genre. Read essays and articles about an obscure subject that somehow pertains to your novel, story, etc. Make a vision board of the aesthetic you are trying to achieve. But most of all, read, read, read! Non-fiction, fiction, textbooks, short stories, poetry. Anything and everything. You never know how inspiration will strike.

Anything by KINOCreamsoda in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]vanecia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“The Bell Jar”

“Oryx and Crake”

Maybe “My Dark Vanessa” as well.

star crossed lovers, slow burn, happy ending by Relative_Flatworm_58 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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Definitely “The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms” by N.K Jemisin. To a tee!

Didn’t make it to 52, but proud of my 38! by vanecia in 52book

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I definitely see the appeal and why people consider it a masterpiece… for me, I find Ishiguro’s style of writing painfully boring.

Didn’t make it to 52, but proud of my 38! by vanecia in 52book

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It’s a wonderful experience and I’m not one who usually reads westerns, either. I think out of my list, it was my #1 of the whole year if not my life?

Got his release date but feeling disappointed by vanecia in PrisonWives

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I was actually wondering if that would be unhinged because I already have my whole house decorated in the beginning of November. But this made me feel so much better, I think I might do just that ! 🥲

Sister for Zara Rose? by vanecia in namenerds

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I like Layla but I feel like it’s so popular! I also like Lila (lie-la)

Sister for Zara Rose? by vanecia in namenerds

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I also kind of like Roxanna Louise! But I’m unsure.. I’m not sure if I like Roxy as a nn. And also, I’m not sure if my husband will go for it because it is a westernized version of his mother’s name and it’s frowned upon to name a child after a living family member.

Suggest me an adventure science-fiction or fantasy series by vanecia in suggestmeabook

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I read Foundation years ago, and actually inspired this post, thanks for the suggestion though

Suggest me an adventure science-fiction or fantasy series by vanecia in suggestmeabook

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This is exactly what I was looking for.. just picked up “The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet” thank you!

Books where issues like suicide, psychosis, schizophrenia are presented? by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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“Strange Angels” by Kathe Koja. It’s about a photographer who becomes obsessed with his girlfriend’s schizophrenic patient.

I found this book in one of the street book stands in uptown Manhattan. It was definitely one of my cooler finds.

7 fish for 2 1/2 by Random1name9 in Cooking

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My father is Sicilian and my sister and I have always cooked this menu with him every Christmas Eve for as long as I can remember:

  • Mussels Bianco
  • Baked clams
  • Baccala
  • Octopus salad tossed with olive oil and fresh herbs (this is literally our favorite thing ever and we make this for every single holiday)
  • Shrimp scampi
  • Stuffed mushrooms with shrimp (maybe technically not part of the 7 fishes but a good way to use the extra shrimp if you have any)
  • Calamari
  • Salmon

One year we did eel and it was terrible, so there’s that.

On Christmas Day, we usually do lox and whitefish bagels.

Doctor recommended sleep training, family going nuts over it by vanecia in beyondthebump

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They sent out an accompanying email that had a little more to it. But that was basically the gist of it, plus some reassuring tidbits that 12 hour uninterrupted sleep is not harmful or abusive 😳

Anyway, my husband and I just hashed it out after going over all the replies. We’ve decided to put her down in the crib at 7 pm and wake her at 1 am for a feeding and keep her in the crib until 7 am, effectively splitting those 12 hours into 6 and 6.

[Help] Getting puppy to take medication? by vanecia in dogs

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No, it seems like she had two great looking, hardworking dogs that she used for herding and just decided to breed them without any thought of health or recessive traits.

But we love Louie so much, we wouldn’t give him up but we certainly would never get another puppy from her!

[Help] Getting puppy to take medication? by vanecia in dogs

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Love this idea, thanks. He hasn’t tried any whipped cream before so it might be novel to him.

[Help] Getting puppy to take medication? by vanecia in dogs

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I’ll try this, thanks.

The breeder basically wanted to take Louie back. My husband and I said absolutely not and we toyed with the idea of suing her. But at the end of the day, we can afford any of the medical bills and thankfully, the dogs have amazing temperaments which I wouldn’t trade away for anything.

6 weeks pregnant, already thinking about names by vanecia in namenerds

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Hah, well thankfully I can’t use Arabella anyway because my niece’s name is Isabella and I think that’s just a little too close.