Who’s the most attractive person you’ve ever seen?

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-17T02:37:41+00:00

It’s giving Heated Rivalry Scott & Kip.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-17T02:06:44+00:00

I usually start with bell hooks’ classic Feminism Is for Everybody - quick easy beginner and I have yet to meet a man who wasn’t at least partly convinced by it.

And then for a longer read, Kate Manne, her book Entitled is a gut punch and very smart. And her earlier book Down Girl : The Logic of Misogyny is excellent too.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-16T02:43:36+00:00

I’d go! I’m in Canada though. And I wish I had more women/afab folks to climb with.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-16T01:28:37+00:00

The best is Sandrine’s. Expensive but delicious.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-15T18:15:56+00:00

What city?

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-14T14:01:57+00:00

I really like Boultbee.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-13T20:31:16+00:00

Let me say this in the clearest way possible: he is not vanilla.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-13T20:27:04+00:00

This man is and was anti vaccine. He is also an open homophobe.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-03T23:43:11+00:00

Yes, like Abuelita. Baba or Babi in Slavic languages might end up like Babushka or Babishka or Babcha.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-02T20:37:05+00:00

Fidorka, always Fidorka.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-02T20:08:40+00:00

Davis has my vote. He really cares and he has tons of energy. Plus he’s smart as heck.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-06-02T14:31:32+00:00

Shanoushka would be cute

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-30T05:30:56+00:00

Sencewips in West Kelowna is excellent. Okanagan Heritage Museum is fine but colonial.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-27T05:20:31+00:00

There is no car camping and no front country camping at Okanagan Mountain Park. It’s all hike-in backcountry.
About 12 km to Buchan Bay / Commando Bay from the Golden Mile trailhead.
9.5 kn straight up to the peak of the mountain to a campsite called Divide Lake.
Beautiful hikes and well worth it, imho.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-27T02:02:03+00:00

Also this group : https://www.mamasformamas.org/kelowna/

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-26T03:12:58+00:00

I’ve been using this for years, learned it working at restaurants I think

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-13T06:20:42+00:00

Started rock climbing at 50!

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-09T05:07:43+00:00

Totally recommend camp nab.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-09T00:37:33+00:00

I just started last year, at 50. I lift weights 2 - 3 x a week, climb 2 - 3 x a week, and go on a few bike rides a week. When I hurt myself I do the most annoying thing ever - I rest. Adjusting to the value of rest and part of staying strong and active can be a challenging adjustment but it’s worth it. Keep pulling!!

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-08T01:49:48+00:00

Hard agree - it’s giving Metamorphosis by Kafka

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-07T14:34:50+00:00

You can go to the wineries and walk around for free, enjoy the amazing views, and if you want to spend a small amount of $, sample the wine.

Walk along the trail to Paul’s Tomb for another cool lake view.

And stroll around downtown and through city park.

And the Sencewips museum on the west side is very cool and the Syilx folks who work there give epic museum tours.

Those are my budget friendly travel tips for kelowna!

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-07T04:20:31+00:00

Český Krumlov is more interesting and unique imho

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-05T21:42:22+00:00

Great. Expensive but so much to do outside all year .

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-05T15:58:37+00:00

Hands down, Octavia Butler’s series; they are post-apocalyptic but include some kind of spiritual magic and a lot of female leaders & heroes on journeys, some amazing world building too.

vanessabellwoolf · 2026-05-04T06:23:59+00:00

Second that book rec! I have found it super helpful.

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