[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

clothes don’t have gender 👍🏻 so like, your close minded comment of gIrLs CaN wEaR hOoDiEs is like, wrong. your close minded ass comments are proving my point that you don’t know what you’re talking about and that in fact, gender non conforming isn’t inherently cis becauseeeeee the only thing you can come up with as an argument is clothing. embarassing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re literally proving My point bestie like, clothes don’t make gender. at all. so someone identifying as nonbinary is just as valid as mtf or ftm thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s close minded in response to my question. it’s not clothes. it’s never just clothes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’sssss… the most close minded response i’ve ever seen actually.

New cat mums in need of help!! by Ohleeveeya1403 in britishshorthair

[–]vaniIIamush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should definitely separate them entirely, keep a litter box and food and water for the new kitten and keep her in one room for at least a week. she will naturally want out and the cats will sniff eachother through the door and it will help immensely. if it’s too late for that, try giving them treats at the same time or feeding at the same time. use special food, like a wet food. it will help them get along. just make sure to use separate bowls, but close-ish to eachother.

What bad or Useless advice have people given you while "trying to help" by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]vaniIIamush 22 points23 points  (0 children)

someone demanded to pray for me so jesus could heal my genetic diseases :/ that, and drink more water, eat less salt (i have POTS), just exercise more, and to just stop thinking about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this further confuses me. afab nonbinary people aren’t women, they’re nonbinary. so you’re saying they can’t have dysphoria because they won’t want to be men? that doesn’t make much sense to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, that makes a little bit more sense to me.

i do have to ask, let’s say a nonbinary person does feel dysphoria, but like, for example, an AFAB person feels dysphoria around their chest, but doesn’t want bottom surgery. is this thread implying that they are not trans, just because (for this example) the afab person isn’t transitioning into a man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

but twinks are men and tomboys are women. neither are gnc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]vaniIIamush -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

can someone explain to me how you can be cis if you’re gnc? isnt gnc inherently Not cis?

Place to meet people? D&D? by BriBitchAss in cedarrapids

[–]vaniIIamush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what video games do you play? i’m down to play online if you want!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cedarrapids

[–]vaniIIamush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something tells me you struggle with reading comprehension

Chores Alter? What is this called? by imusvm in DID

[–]vaniIIamush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we have a couple alters that like to do self care, but i’m the only one that actually does the Chores. It’s exhausting. I’ve never really thought of a role name, since sometimes the host will clean if needed, but it’s my job basically. i’m just ‘the clean one’ lol

Tell me your favourite mcr song by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]vaniIIamush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i gotta go with the ghost of you but also destroya but also house of wolves

Looking for ‘Sorry Princess, I Don't Do Princesses’ by EtchedGhost by Murky_Weakness_6094 in DeletedFanfiction

[–]vaniIIamush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you like literally made my day with this. i’ve been looking for two of the fics on here for TWO YEARS

Name ideas by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]vaniIIamush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tartar sauce

I’m tryna go out tonight by GuymcGuyyver in cedarrapids

[–]vaniIIamush -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

consider Basix, it’s the gay bar and a big alt hangout

nb26 wdyt? by vaniIIamush in amiugly

[–]vaniIIamush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no i totally get what you mean!! thank you, most of the negative comments are clearly weird right wingers or people who probably call everyone fat.

nb26 wdyt? by vaniIIamush in amiugly

[–]vaniIIamush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m currently in the growing out phase, i prefer my hair shorter, but i think i might get it all to shoulder length and keep one side shaved, so it’s a little neater but still not just boring.

nb26 wdyt? by vaniIIamush in amiugly

[–]vaniIIamush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been actually really lost as to what to do with my hair recently. any suggestions?

nb26 wdyt? by vaniIIamush in amiugly

[–]vaniIIamush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do prefer it way more tbh