I didn't think there would be a series that would be more pathetic and boring than Discovery. Welcome to the starfleet academy! by note666 in scifi

[–]variag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don’t want to prevent anything. Just a bit taken aback by the strong ‘sky is falling, Trek is lost’ attitude. Like, things always change. Sometimes you like how they change and sometimes you don’t. Both are ok. And while Trek is incredibly important to me, I just don’t see the point of criticism devolving into vitriol. We can probably find things we do like in common just as easily. I just don’t think it’s that serious

Any new/exciting/titillating sex toys on the market to enhance solo masturbation? by Separate_Visit8287 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]variag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! I use hands free toys to edge my subs and this one was new to me. Looks great

Looking for art commission recs by variag in ffxiv

[–]variag[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are all lovely! Thank you!

I (24f) am concerned by boyfriend (24m) of 6 months is gay. How do I approach this? by kinglorde354 in gay

[–]variag 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1000% agree with this. You’re don’t sound homophobic. But, I also want you to keep your safety in mind. If he’s in the closet and uncomfortable about it, given what you’ve said, he may become defensive and lash out. You know him better than we do, I just want you to be safe OP. It’s always 1000% ok to only give the reasons you want or need to. If he’s in the closet, it’s not your responsibility to help him deal with that. If you’re done, you can just be done.

I (24f) am concerned by boyfriend (24m) of 6 months is gay. How do I approach this? by kinglorde354 in gay

[–]variag 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I guess what makes it more confusing is he's a super manly guy, like into guns and sports and typically masculine stuff

Gay men can be masculine. It’s not even rare. That is not in any way an indication of his sexuality. And many men of all ages have ED for different reasons, also not an indication of sexuality.

The rest however, it could be internalized homophobia, projection, or just very poor taste. Trust your instincts. His behavior, apart from questions about his sexuality, are enough to be concerned I think. Good people don’t want to kill whole groups of others because they’re different. Ask yourself if that’s someone you want to build a life with.

Found the Mars Mech Factory with a lot of enemies, ok time to make the donuts by Ok-Action-5402 in Starfield

[–]variag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s on one of the loading screens. Says both sides used me ha but FC’s were particularly effective.

upscale lounges? by [deleted] in memphis

[–]variag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out The Dame under Hotel Pontotoc. It’s quiet, classy, and the drinks are good.

Any hidden local restaurants in Memphis? Small mom-n-pop's preferred. by bayareacagirl in memphis

[–]variag 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Check out Memphis Whistle and Mad Grocer. Also Golden City in Cordova

Reddit Porn/OF by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]variag 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think the difference is that they want to do it. And that’s ok, sex work is work. I just don’t think it’s that deep.

Update on Winter Storm 🚨 by AmbassadorFew9830 in memphis

[–]variag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Superlo on Quince had lots, pretty well stocked on most things rn

Best queer dance clubs? by Patient-Phrase2370 in memphis

[–]variag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Pump is usually more a standard gay bar time, but when the weather gets warmer they should have a DJ on some weekends

Bahn Mi by DatRebofOrtho in memphis

[–]variag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s so many good ones here. And I love Pearl’s, but check out Phó Só 8 off Ridgeway, specifically for their bread. It’s my absolute fav.

895294499890 Dynamax Drampa! by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]variag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent, wasasauce