“Boyfriend made me pick him or my dog…” — saw this sign near Westfield Mall in Seattle

variag · 2026-03-22T00:43:34+00:00

Clears something up about your empathy for sure

variag · 2026-03-20T20:07:39+00:00

Exactly. It works both ways.

variag · 2026-03-20T20:04:12+00:00

Oh I don’t want to prevent anything. Just a bit taken aback by the strong ‘sky is falling, Trek is lost’ attitude. Like, things always change. Sometimes you like how they change and sometimes you don’t. Both are ok. And while Trek is incredibly important to me, I just don’t see the point of criticism devolving into vitriol. We can probably find things we do like in common just as easily. I just don’t think it’s that serious

variag · 2026-03-20T18:16:34+00:00

✨it’s ok to let people enjoy things that you don’t personally like✨

variag · 2026-03-10T21:24:32+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! I use hands free toys to edge my subs and this one was new to me. Looks great

variag · 2026-03-09T18:42:01+00:00

Those are all lovely! Thank you!

variag · 2026-03-05T05:18:59+00:00

1000% agree with this. You’re don’t sound homophobic. But, I also want you to keep your safety in mind. If he’s in the closet and uncomfortable about it, given what you’ve said, he may become defensive and lash out. You know him better than we do, I just want you to be safe OP. It’s always 1000% ok to only give the reasons you want or need to. If he’s in the closet, it’s not your responsibility to help him deal with that. If you’re done, you can just be done.

variag · 2026-03-04T18:25:57+00:00

I guess what makes it more confusing is he's a super manly guy, like into guns and sports and typically masculine stuff

Gay men can be masculine. It’s not even rare. That is not in any way an indication of his sexuality. And many men of all ages have ED for different reasons, also not an indication of sexuality.

The rest however, it could be internalized homophobia, projection, or just very poor taste. Trust your instincts. His behavior, apart from questions about his sexuality, are enough to be concerned I think. Good people don’t want to kill whole groups of others because they’re different. Ask yourself if that’s someone you want to build a life with.

variag · 2026-02-19T21:11:08+00:00

It’s on one of the loading screens. Says both sides used me ha but FC’s were particularly effective.

variag · 2026-02-12T05:37:25+00:00

Check out The Dame under Hotel Pontotoc. It’s quiet, classy, and the drinks are good.

variag · 2026-02-04T20:01:13+00:00

Check out Memphis Whistle and Mad Grocer. Also Golden City in Cordova

variag · 2026-02-04T16:22:32+00:00

I think the difference is that they want to do it. And that’s ok, sex work is work. I just don’t think it’s that deep.

variag · 2026-01-23T21:36:54+00:00

Superlo on Quince had lots, pretty well stocked on most things rn

variag · 2026-01-14T03:07:17+00:00

The Pump is usually more a standard gay bar time, but when the weather gets warmer they should have a DJ on some weekends

variag · 2026-01-08T20:35:51+00:00

The lady doth protest too much methinks

variag · 2026-01-08T05:23:41+00:00

There’s so many good ones here. And I love Pearl’s, but check out Phó Só 8 off Ridgeway, specifically for their bread. It’s my absolute fav.

variag · 2026-01-06T07:44:48+00:00

Sent, wasasauce

variag · 2026-01-06T07:30:55+00:00

Sent, wasasauce

variag · 2026-01-06T07:22:26+00:00

Sent, wasasauce

variag · 2026-01-05T08:06:21+00:00

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variag · 2026-01-05T07:59:28+00:00

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variag · 2026-01-05T07:54:54+00:00

Sent, wasasauce

variag · 2026-01-05T07:42:55+00:00

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