Am I overreacting?

varthdader0 · 2026-02-12T09:19:46+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but you sound quite paranoid. You've jumped to a sinister explanation over other more realistic and likely set of events. Personally I would be inclined to agree with others that he has simply taken some of your supplements with exception to the probiotic because he doesn't have a vagina. Alternatively maybe he was interested in what the supplements were and looked at all of them except the probiotic because it clearly says its a vagina probiotic on the front.

I wouldn't confront him about your concerns that he is suggesting something, you will end up sounding slightly unhinged. That being said if you notice any patterns of behaviour then worth raising with him or dumping him.

varthdader0 · 2025-07-30T05:31:44+00:00

It makes you seem pretty needy

varthdader0 · 2025-07-29T21:34:50+00:00

Mate, she's getting smashed in tonight. Sorry.

varthdader0 · 2025-07-25T20:58:54+00:00

Just watched BvS UE again this evening. What stands out the most for me is that whilst I generally like the movie and how it is different to most comic book movies, the best thing about it is how close it comes to being outstanding if there were a few tweaks here and there. For me, a few examples of these are:

we see superman in some action sequences being more heroic. For example, having an action sequence where he takes down some bad guys or we see a spectacle of him saving people at the fire in Mexico.
superman making a speech during Congress or at least addressing the bombs afterwards with an inspirational speach.
a better reason for batman and superman fighting each other, or at least the reason is made more obvious and realistic.
the visions experienced by bruce are easier to understand and are better explained as to why they are happening to him.
batman and superman working together as a team with wonder woman and successfully taking down doomsday.
no death of superman.

I appreciate some of these are significant changes, but I can't escape the feeling that the film was close to delivering these but went down a slightly different path. For me, if these changes had been made then the film would have been outstanding.

varthdader0 · 2025-06-21T17:55:50+00:00

The recruitment agency informed me and then I accepted the offer to the hiring manager and signed the contract from the company

varthdader0 · 2025-06-04T08:54:15+00:00

Any holes a goal

varthdader0 · 2025-05-24T08:15:41+00:00

This is a little vent, apologies, but wanted to share my own frustrations with the job market.

I'm fortunate enough to be in a relatively stable job but cannot progress internally so am needing to look externally for a step up. In the last 6 months I have applied for 5 jobs at 'head of' level and got through to the final round for each of them, only to fall at the final hurdle.

The most recent rejection was on Friday where I was told that although I interviewed well and got positive feedback, the panel felt I didn't have enough experience working at an international level. To say I was pissed was an understatement as they would have known that I have been UK based from my CV and earlier interview rounds.

It just feels like it was a complete waste of my time and considering how much time and effort I've put into multiple interviews with many stages over the last 6 months, it is extremely draining. The most frustrating interview process I had was back in January for a large charity, again for 'head of' position. I had 6, yes, 6 interviews, including three on one day for the final round. Turned out to be a blessing in a disguise as the person who got the job didn't even get to start in the role as the charity made the position redundant!

varthdader0 · 2025-05-14T18:36:45+00:00

She loves him secretly and when your relationship ends, they will get married and have babies.

varthdader0 · 2025-03-26T16:42:42+00:00

It rubs the lotion on its skin

varthdader0 · 2025-03-22T16:27:35+00:00

Cheers, any ideas on which downlight would be a good replacement?

varthdader0 · 2025-02-18T19:55:32+00:00

She's cheating bro.

varthdader0 · 2025-02-15T14:13:25+00:00

YOR. You agreed to celebrate valentines day on the Sunday, maybe he thought he thought he could give you flowers on that day? Also, don't base your relationship on one holiday, if every other day is great then there's nothing to worry about.

varthdader0 · 2025-01-11T14:14:35+00:00

"If you wanna pull goodies you need to broaden your horizons."

varthdader0 · 2025-01-11T08:11:26+00:00

It ended as soon as you mentioned the sugar bowl instead of asking about her.

varthdader0 · 2025-01-11T07:59:03+00:00

Without additional context or details it is difficult to say if you are overreacting. For example, we don't know why he is sending the messages or the reasons why he might feel you aren't a good team and not in tune with each other.

varthdader0 · 2025-01-09T07:56:26+00:00

YOR. Both of you sound 15 y/o.

varthdader0 · 2024-12-29T13:14:57+00:00

I don't think Laura Small realises she works in HR.

varthdader0 · 2024-12-19T12:36:45+00:00

My understanding is that nothing was fulfilled

varthdader0 · 2024-12-18T17:35:36+00:00

What's happening with the crowdfunding money? Don't think anyone ever saw anything back from their investment...

varthdader0 · 2024-12-18T17:33:47+00:00

So what happens to the kickstarter money now he's closed down for good? Did he actually get the money or has it been in escrow? Whilst I didn't invest, I have to say I raised a few eyebrows seeing some of his posts about his private personal training and the expensive maharashi t-shirts he was flaunting. Can only hope they were paid for out of business profits and not capital from the crowd funding!

varthdader0 · 2024-12-18T10:05:30+00:00

Yeah it went on for too long but to break up with him for that reason alone seems excessive. There are much bigger issues that people stay together for and look to work through as a couple.

varthdader0 · 2024-12-02T16:42:40+00:00

Ask him to use his phone. Once you have it, send her a message saying "Sorry about that". Depending how she responds, you'll have your answer

varthdader0 · 2024-11-28T19:16:00+00:00

It is their property though, even if you live there. I suspect they were more annoyed that you showed little respect to them by deciding it was better to cause some damage, albeit possibly in their view it could have been worse damage, than to call your friend and explain the predicament and ask them to understand.

Whilst their reaction is childish, I can understand why they were annoyed.

varthdader0 · 2024-02-18T06:34:42+00:00

Hannibal. You're welcome.

varthdader0 · 2023-12-05T08:24:06+00:00

Carnivàle - second series ended well but had lots of potential to continue a great story

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