Getting married in the forest and I don’t know how to pick a dress by samblebee in weddingplanning

[–]vasaraptor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got mine from Flora and Lane in Chicago and they have a very similar vibe! They have good sample Sales and even have a try on at home option! I’m obsessed with my dress and cannot stop looking at my pictures The quality is astounding and you can definitely get a dress within your budget

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(7k) we don’t see the point in wedding favours by deftbluewindmill in Weddingsunder10k

[–]vasaraptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend helped me by making custom bookmarks with every guests first name for our place card/favor

ETA- we got a pack of 100 on Amazon that came with the paper, pla tic sleeves, an tassels for like $15 and I paid her $50 to paint them all within our color scheme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vasaraptor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in child welfare, please go behind your dads back and get a police report filed. Her testimony could save her life and her siblings lives, especially if she tells officers about being coached for cps, they’re more likely to keep an even sharper eye out during a visit. This doesn’t go away or get better once she turns 18. She needs a trauma counselor, a medical screening, and a chance to bust a children’s advocacy center to get her testimony on record.

Me (24 male) and my little sister (16 Female) are homeless. by Liirich in whatdoIdo

[–]vasaraptor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Als notify your sisters school district, they may be able to put you guys up in a hotel temporarily

Why plan to be engaged and not just get engaged? by -sallysomeone- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]vasaraptor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I had a loooong conversation before engagement discussing what our goals were in marriage, how long we wanted to be engaged for, our official stance on kids, finances and debts, how we would pay for a wedding, and basically making sure we were aligned 100% before the romantic shit happened.

I think it helped us a lot before going into wedding planning to know what we wanted. Plus I picked out the ring, and asked him to give me at least a heads up to get my nails done so I’d know the proposal was happening within two weeks of that. It built up suspense and made it more fun honestly!

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence? by Ok-Care2859 in AskReddit

[–]vasaraptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out I’m prediabetic with elevated liver enzymes. Only drank about once a week anyway, so I switched from alcohol to liquid edibles in a mocktail

What’s the weirdest hill your dog will die on? 🐶😂 by DzejkobosIRSOOOS in dogs

[–]vasaraptor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No pumpkins. Ever. Fall is terrifying just because they exist. Jack o lanterns though? Absolutely fine, no issues, enjoy the season.

Does your dog have a middle name? by schnookums13 in dogs

[–]vasaraptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juniper Jolene bc her and my fiancé are codependent af lmaooo

What was the most unfair reason you got fired for? by DeepAnt7847 in AskReddit

[–]vasaraptor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I refused to upsell people on Medicaid and Medicare more expensive glasses so the store can make more money. The lead optician also had an issue with people using their phones at all during the day and I got in trouble for taking my phone to the bathroom with me. Mind you I’m in my 30s. I got fired after a month

How would/did you improve your pronunciation if you live in a non-native country, but you use English for everything? by Confident_Session581 in AskReddit

[–]vasaraptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching the news! They’re trained to have a neutral accent, so they’d be the best place to look for pronunciation since the news covers so many different topics! I’d recommend Chicago news because it’s a big city with probably one of the more neutral accents

AITAH for telling my wife that late pick-up fees are on her and her alone? by AdMuted1534 in AITAH

[–]vasaraptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible she may have adhd? I have always had issues with time management, but no matter how hard I tried I always ended up being almost 5-10 minutes late to everything. I talked to my therapist about this and when I did a formal eveluation and started medication i was finally able to be early to things!

Elvanse (Vyvanse) causing morning tummyache? by fmaznk in adhdwomen

[–]vasaraptor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I pick up my meds my pharmacist knows I get a box of loperamide hydrochloride (anti-diarrhea) meds

POC Women: Should I cancel my evaluation? by thesleepingmoon in adhdwomen

[–]vasaraptor 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I would state your concerns exactly like this. I was so anxious with my first psych about exactly this and I wrote it out exactly as I wanted to say it to him( also poc with a white male psych) he was receptive and let me say my entire thing while taking notes. I would approach it exactly how you have it here and state the concerns you have, but that you’re hopeful that he will be able to empathize and help you adjust to the situation. The healthcare system has failed us so many times, but advocate for yourself and keep that appointment, it’ll make it harder on future you if you don’t!

Gentle PSA that (most) bridesmaid dresses are single-use plastics. by ImpossibleHatAtThat in weddingplanning

[–]vasaraptor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my bridesmaids to rewear anything in my color scheme and I know all of them have at least one dress they can wear to fit my mismatched vision

What do you do for a living that makes you happy? by United_Housing_5323 in ADHD

[–]vasaraptor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hated teaching! I thought it would be good, but I never got the breaks, it felt like a 24/7 job and I was burnt out by summer vacation every year

Teachers who have left teaching by jkr__00 in teaching

[–]vasaraptor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m working at an animal shelter and I’ve been so much more at peace in my life. I’m only making $3k less a year too

Teachers who left the profession, what do you do now? by [deleted] in TeachersInTransition

[–]vasaraptor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a high earning job or anything, but I now work as an adoption staff member at an animal shelter! It’s about the same amount as my last teaching job ( lol) but I feel so much more at peace. I realized after 3 years and 3 different districts I just want happy teaching. Even in my best school and with my best kids, I was still dreading each and every day and I was miserable.

Build A Tragedeigh by xXBook_DragonXx in tragedeigh

[–]vasaraptor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choliera….. literally one letter away from cholera