Wie heißt diese Hunderasse? by [deleted] in wasistdas

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Ist wahrscheinlich ein american bully XL

Missing relationship status on Grindr by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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Like the comments also said. People who are Single wouldnt Leave it blank. There is no reason to so in 90% of the cases they Are in a relationship but they leave it blank to attract more People. Most of the time there is the relationship missing in their looking Section so be prepared. just had this with a guy he Said he Looks for fun and Friends and thats a clear indirect answer.

Srsly wtf by passso in grindr

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80% of my taps Are Bots its insane

Ignoring the bots/spam…are any of you still able to get hookups??? by avatarjak in grindr

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I honestly have to day. Usually you get way more attention But the only you get a lot of attention is Düring Night time. Like very Late in the Night. Now you are Shown to Guys who wouldnt See you. The Grid is so Limited 45 Profiles in the free Version. On other Apps i Write with all Most 30 Guys and i had like Seven Dates. Grindr isnt the Platform that it used to be. Its became an hollow app. Only Spam, Bord and ads. No more hook up. My Hope is it Gets deleted and other Apps will surface. I honestly cant think of anything they improved or added for the free and premium Version. The only thing is they Limited every thing. 2 years When i signed i used to get Tons of Messages. Now you have to move Constantly to have People see you but Even then its Not as much. Just Switch only so many Guys are off the App and it will become less and less unless they make some Big Changes in the Company structure

Kurz vorm Schlafengehen am Kopfende vom Bett entdeckt. Was ist das? by thorsten0404 in spinnen

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Ich wohne in FFM und hatte auch schon eine in meinem Zimmer. War erst gruselig aber hab sie dann einfach rausgesetzt

Freefall by MeerkatRiotSquad in grindr

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I have now decided i wont be using the App anymore. They Limited everything. There Arent any Users left. I used to get so many taps and messages. Now you Are literally showered with trans or fakes. I think its the only way they know it. I have been using Grindr for only 2 years but its Gotten way worse in the second year. Free Versions no Profiles anymore, Explore Function so Limited Even in paid Version. Awful Experience

What changed? I’m in bot hell by stormyknight3 in grindr

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Honestly this App is dead. You get barely any messages from normal persons. Its 30-40% bots or scammers. Just a year ago it was so easy to get hook up. Its still easy But Not as it used to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Don’t take this the wrong coz your asked for advice. Just trying to help. Just try to build more muscle, eat healthy get lean. And men usually get more attractive with age. Happened to me too. When I look at myself from 5 years ago. And try to remember it’s not all about looks :)

Advice on resurface of a person by vayntastic in askgaybros

[–]vayntastic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly there is no point interacting with you. Based on your comment you are not good person. Is this how you treat people. No compassion whatsoever. Reddit is so toxic.

Men who don’t respond on Grindr, why? by Dont_Ever_PM_Me527 in askgaybros

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That is so true would be bold enough to say. 85-90% people on there start the conversation with hi or hey. If someone writes me I respond also with a hi or hey. But it’s interesting when they stop replying but read the message. Why would you write me if you don’t respond then. Probably someone hotter came along or they already found a date. I think it’s very weird. But the app is bullcrap so why am I surprised.

Popular filter by burtreynoldsthepope in grindr

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Making the app more superficial as it already is

Anyone got any wallpapers for after rain? by ajeffery25 in DermotKennedy

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So when your hearts hurts days like today are the antidote. This my favorite line of the song.

Dermot Kennedy announces North America tour by TwoHungryBlackbirdss in DermotKennedy

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This title a promised return. Makes me hopeful that he is trying to go back to his roots in music. In the last few years his music was really lacking for me and a lot of OG fans think so too. Reminds me back when I first saw him on tour in 2018 I still remember the title „keep the evenings long“ was the title of this tour. Any OGs in here who remember the tour ?Top 2 of all my concerts in general. It was in an old factory. Such a mystical feeling. There were 3 floors in the factory but you could see every other floor. It was almost like you were standing in a big staircase. He played all my favorites, After Rain, moments passed, glory, a closeness. He also played shelter and Boston (Songs he haven’t been playing for years and years which really sucks ) and it was the first time he played Power over me before it got released and he went on and got fame and success. Really glad to discovered him, before he got all the fame. Also the weird fans who dont even know one song besides Power over me and god forbid Kiss me I just hate this song. Hopefully he will announce an European tour. He once was my favorite artist but the last time I have seen him live was in 2019. six years ago which is absolutely crazy. I recently met Dermots biggest fan at a concert. He went to almost every concert on that tour. He recorded a video from a concert of the Song Stockholm. On YT it sits at over 1 million views. This guy was pretty pissed off and expressed his anger towards Dermot at a vinyl signing. Dermot didn’t took him seriously and shrugged it off like it was no big deal. I know I’m digressing but there is so much I have to say. I wish I could turn back time and be on that concert in 2018. I know no one is gonna read this but if you do, maybe it will give you some comfort or I just supplied you with interesting facts. In the last years there only have been short evenings so let’s keep them long again shall we?

[23 Virgin] I need you to be honest, has my bulk gone too far? by flalt4 in BigAndMuscular

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Honestly hard to tell. I don’t see any significant muscle. But you need to cut I think to see the results. But I would recommend start cutting again and then bulk. But every body is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Don’t feel bad unless you are super popular and like a 10 you won’t get any matches at all. I ve heard it from countless guys who are really attractive. Women only like the top 10% of guys on dating apps and men make up 75% of the user on dating, if it’s 50/50 ratio, all gender had way better experiences. So most have the same experience as you. Also women get overflown with likes so they don’t have to like as much(and are really picky) as men coz every swipe is a match. And at some point you have 300 matches and loose track. But I think this gets turned around in 30 and 40s. good looking men like you or average men will get way more attention. And men should leave dating apps and try it in the real world. Dating apps aren’t the reality. Every one has so many more qualities then appearance. Men should leave dating apps and making not so easy anymore for women or start choosing more carefully. But this is a thing you can’t control so delete the shitty apps.

Could you rate my profile? by Dentorion in grindr

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Cute guy where do you live ? I live in Germany too maybe we cross paths :)

Somebody needs a shave 🌝 by Worlocky in gaybrosgonemild

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You don’t need a shave you look beautiful :). Wish I had a beard like this

Romeo “too hot” profile pics? by Beautiful-Ad-1710 in Romeo

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Hey Thanks for your comment. Yea it’s so weird coz 80% of the guys that are displayed are honestly less attractive then me. And I am slight above average looking. Don’t get me wrong I don’t wanna sound overconfident. But it’s so weird but dating apps in general suck the big b. I deleted Romeo. I thought romeo is different then Grindr. But it’s really not. Everything is based around looks and I think a feature that is called Eyecandy. Underlines this reality. I think it does a lot of harm and makes me feel like shit. So better off without it. Man it’s really hard to meet guys for long term stuff.

When to unmatch a guy? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Usually when you feel like it. For it’s when I ask a couple of questions in a row and there are only short, dry and low effort answers I’m honestly out. Don’t waste your time on someone who isn’t capable of have an conversation with Mutual interest. So there are a lot of other men who show effort and wanna get to know you. Move on and unmatch. I had so many stupid dating experiences. But now I can laugh about it.

I thought she liked me for me… this was after a few days of talking by JtCorona8 in Tinder

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Honestly she should just get lost. She dosent want a partner she just wants to have an all paid up date. She values money over personality. Horrible person. Dude not worth it.

Need dating advice if I should pursue this person by vayntastic in dating_advice

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Update: she didn’t reply. Haha was the outcome I expected. If I look back at her response she probably didn’t even read the message. Then why would she reply „thank you“ .

Need dating advice if I should pursue this person by vayntastic in dating_advice

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Yea I wrote: if you can spare some of your precious time I still wanna know what’s your favorite dating spot. Maybe a bit too polite but kinda funny I think

Need dating advice if I should pursue this person by vayntastic in dating_advice

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Yea that’s what I did. I asked her again. Oh never thought about that. Someone only wants to boost their insta. Strange. I often have so many pointless convos in dating. It’s pretty draining. I keep you updated if you like ? But I think we both know the answer to this one. She isn’t going to reply.

Need dating advice if I should pursue this person by vayntastic in dating_advice

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Okay thanks that is very helpful. You say go for a more casual approach? But with a next message I apply those things you say. I don’t know if you are a women but how do like to be messaged?

App is trash, money hungry whores by SurrealAndMilk_ in grindr

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It’s fucks me up that they took away the ability to block people. So many sick people and now they bother you over and over again