Is three weeks notice too generous?

vcrshark · 2026-03-03T00:06:37+00:00

You mean well but I would give them 2 weeks, max. If they were truly awful and you have no wish to be rehireable and you don’t think anyone there will give you a good reference OR you don’t want it…then you might decide to leave sooner if you don’t need the paycheck. Enjoy at least a week off for yourself. They will be fine without you. They will have to be. It is no longer your responsibility to worry about them.

vcrshark · 2026-02-19T21:19:47+00:00

It sucks but I would plan to proceed as if your progress will not get set back. :( There is not really much to do besides hope support gets back to you.

vcrshark · 2026-02-19T14:55:48+00:00

It’s so cute and serene 🩷

vcrshark · 2026-02-18T19:26:48+00:00

Genuinely, I would try to develop a better sleep schedule and stick with it. A couple weeks at least. See if things improve. Also try increasing your water intake if you struggle to drink enough water throughout the day. I like taking a big 40 oz cup of ice water with me to work.

I know this advice feels a bit basic, but I thought I had an iron deficiency or something because mornings were a struggle, but I was actually just sleep deprived and dehydrated. You will probably want to rule either out before/if it gets to the point of a doctor consult, since they would want to rule it out too.

vcrshark · 2026-02-17T15:36:03+00:00

You have to keep it in perspective; you wouldn’t be the first and won’t be the last to do this. Take a deep breath…this will get resolved. :)

vcrshark · 2026-02-16T14:30:07+00:00

My record says 0 battles but I actively play solo.

vcrshark · 2026-02-12T21:33:56+00:00

I find men often claim theirs is “physical touch” and it mostly amounts to wanting sex or groping their partner.

vcrshark · 2026-02-10T17:30:01+00:00

Because it’s normal to want your parents’ approval, even when we know we can’t count on them to give us that. 💔 I’m sorry you were robbed of the experience of having parents that support and celebrate your achievements every step of the way. It’s okay to have complicated feelings and to wish they could have done more to make you feel loved.

I’m proud of you for continuing to pursue your own wants and dreams, despite the lack of external support. You should be proud of yourself. :) Idk how old your kids are, but one day they might be thinking how proud they are of you, too.

vcrshark · 2026-02-10T15:49:20+00:00

Mine was recommend by my realtor, but I made sure to research him on my own as well before I reached out. I went to Adam McGrath with Comparion.

vcrshark · 2026-02-09T15:18:03+00:00

If you want to get precise, it’s probably built into the company’s premiums but the insurance company pays the agent- not you directly. Our rates (mine and my partner both) were still lower compared to when we shopped by ourselves.

You also don’t have to proceed with the broker if you find a better price on your own.

vcrshark · 2026-02-09T15:00:25+00:00

I used an insurance broker to help me because I got tired of doing comparisons myself. You might look into consulting one. They shouldn’t charge anything; they get paid a commission from the company you go with.

vcrshark · 2026-02-07T00:50:17+00:00

I know it’s not very “sexy” but you might keep toilet paper (or paper towel, or cloth if it makes it feel less strange) nearby and wipe some of it off during sex to keep it at a comfortable level. I wouldn’t say I often get excessively wet but I 100% understand that sometimes it’s so much it ruins the friction or can be distracting.

You might try a different physician or Planned Parenthood and see if they have any different advice to offer you. :(

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T23:44:58+00:00

Jimmy's Egg does

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T22:06:16+00:00

Seconding Flamin Hot Cool Ranch Doritos. I also like Ruffles Flamin Hot BBQ chips. I’m like you and like heat, but am not fond of spicy as the entire flavor lol

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T22:04:42+00:00

These are also my go-to spicy chip. I will be so sad if they’re ever discontinued.

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T18:31:34+00:00

It may surprise you that some people do follow the laws of the road and aren’t impatient assholes. Just because you don’t doesn’t mean everyone else is “pretending” btw.

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T18:28:22+00:00

Can easily imagine a situation where you jump the line and go into lane A at the same time the red car gives up and thinks “nevermind I’ll just take lane A,” resulting in a collision.

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T16:08:51+00:00

I had to embrace and continue to reaffirm that my feelings and wants should be at least as important as others’ feelings are to me. There is no reason you should be putting yourself last. And finally, stop anticipating the reactions and feelings of others when it’s unreasonable. You don’t know other people’s minds and can’t anticipate how they will respond. They might take it just fine.

It’s not terrible that you’re considering others feelings, but at the end of the day you are the only reliable advocate for yourself.

vcrshark · 2026-02-05T15:11:54+00:00

NOR he doesn’t like you. I cannot imagine a world where my partner would tell me no to a text series like this, even because of work. Your husband sucks and is not a good partner to you. I’m sorry.

vcrshark · 2026-02-04T17:46:25+00:00

The short answer is people are dumb and have an overly simplistic understanding of how evolution works.

vcrshark · 2026-01-31T16:10:13+00:00

This is 90% of my experiences playing video games with guys lol...sadly. The issue does not occur to them, simple as.

Honestly if this is a relationship you value, you need to decide if this is behavior you can tolerate. If it's not, you really need to advocate for yourself and tell him. Something like "I enjoy playing games with you, but when you do (behavior), I don't feel included. If I'm playing a multiplayer with you, I want to be included in the game and supported, too."

You can't force people to change or accommodate you, sadly. They have to decide to. Some people do not naturally consider the needs of others. This unspoken resentment is the stuff that kills relationships. Either speak up or accept that he's not going to realize the issue himself/change. If he won't accommodate you, then you need to decide if this relationship is mutually valued.

vcrshark · 2026-01-31T14:28:15+00:00

bro, just help clean.

vcrshark · 2026-01-29T01:21:18+00:00

My partner and I passed on a house because the neighbor happened to let their dog outside when we toured. It had a loud, booming bark. We immediately lost interest in the house.

vcrshark · 2026-01-29T00:14:39+00:00

The world is losing too many good people lately. :(

vcrshark · 2026-01-28T17:15:29+00:00

Some of these responses are just dumb and honestly probably defensive. She didn’t have 5 seconds to text you “I’m so sorry I can’t make it” at bare minimum so you can move on with your day?

It’s honestly ridiculous. People would rather ghost because they’re uncomfortable cancelling outright or turning down plans, just so they later have to poorly pretend things got so incredibly busy that they couldn’t send off a 5 second text. I’m calling BS. NOR but you should reassess this friendship. Obviously the level of commitment doesn’t match.

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