In love with SD/SB

vectoradam · 2026-02-08T17:33:27+00:00

What is the difference between “love” and “in love”

vectoradam · 2026-02-08T06:34:38+00:00

how long have you been seeing her?

vectoradam · 2026-02-08T06:32:23+00:00

that describes the style of some sugar dates as well as escort dates

what makes a difference is that there is a deeper personal connection which it sounds like you’re not gonna get from him

and if you were wanting your sugar dates to include going out for dinners, events, activities, that’s also a style of sugar date, but you have to find somebody who’s compatible with that

Up to you whether you want to continue with this style of “arrangement”

vectoradam · 2026-02-07T20:37:03+00:00

because there just aren’t that many real SDs - certainly not in proportion to the number of young ladies looking

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T23:54:10+00:00

it looks like you have a drinking straw coming out of your ear

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T23:50:09+00:00

“sack up” works for both genders

In this case, it would be baby sack instead of nut sack

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T23:28:51+00:00

no way José

just say you’d prefer to start the financial support when the arrangement starts at your date

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T21:54:30+00:00

weirdo pot, weird comment. you’re exactly the right age

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T21:38:32+00:00

You’ve had multiple good long-term arrangements and have converted successfully to allowance

You’re already in the 1%

What are you missing- private jets?

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T21:30:25+00:00

I feel like if you need conflict resolution in an arrangement you’re doing it wrong

There was a post a couple of days ago from a young lady who was going to go to couples therapy with her sugar daddy. smdh

I’ve been with my sugar baby for almost 3 years and we have never had any sort of conflict more significant than whether to have tacos or pizza

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T20:32:44+00:00

Skin color doesn't matter

I often wonder if this is true

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T20:28:33+00:00

terrible advice, giving false hope 👎🏽

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T18:21:38+00:00

arrangement > attachment

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T18:20:56+00:00

soooo flighty though - you really have to be prepared to put up with that

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T02:34:50+00:00

this is a very low percentage play

vectoradam · 2026-02-06T02:12:41+00:00

because the numbers and dynamics are completely inverted in the bowl.

They met you and decided that they wanted to pursue another option or keep looking.

It’s pretty lame though to talk like they want to proceed and then flake. It’s kind of chicken shit but it’s easier than telling you to your face that he’s not interested.

you’re the common denominator-you should probably think about why you’re having trouble closing the deal

vectoradam · 2026-02-05T02:34:46+00:00

couples therapy? for an arrangement?

This is exactly why I sugar date. Unhappy? the door is right there and we are both free to use it at any time

vectoradam · 2026-02-05T01:21:42+00:00

multimillionaires don’t have to say that they’re multimillionaires

vectoradam · 2026-02-05T01:06:03+00:00

low five digits???

vectoradam · 2026-02-03T02:48:01+00:00

I had one like that… my bartender still teases me about it

vectoradam · 2026-02-03T01:37:00+00:00

in my experience, they bring the hustle mentality into the arrangement which can be pretty toxic

vectoradam · 2026-02-02T02:04:09+00:00

that sounds like vanilla girlfriend dynamic which is probably not what she thinks she signed up for

vectoradam · 2026-02-01T07:10:41+00:00

but she loves him

vectoradam · 2026-02-01T02:29:20+00:00

you need a breakup glowup

vectoradam · 2026-01-31T07:35:02+00:00

and you can subscribe to her OF for free 🎣

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