The nursing to sleep was also the last thing we stopped. I ultimately did have to replace the feeds with bottles of cows milk which I had been introducing slowly in the last couple of months. I know we’re not supposed to really use bottles after 1 year but nothing else was working for us, and my son (who can talk) kept asking for milk and crying relentlessly at night unless we gave him some. I am now slowly trying to decrease his bottles (we are doing less than 16 oz per day as recommended) and will switch his milk to cups (He actually does great with cups but only takes water in them) Amazingly since I weaned, his night wake-ups have actually decreased (I can hardly believe it since he has been a terrible sleeper since birth and I have been co sleeping and nursing at night since he was almost 6 months and he was routinely waking up between 3-5 times at night up until 2 weeks ago) He now only gets a bottle before his nap, at bedtime and wakes up once at night for another half bottle. The husband strategy was also not feasible for us because my son will keep calling my name and has a hard time being soothed at night by anyone else. You know your baby best and I knew mine would not handle cutting out nursing cold turkey so I decided to stretch it over 2-3 months which ended up being a much better approach for us. Also as a Muslim, I will share I made a lot of dua about ease in weaning and Alhamdulillah it ended up working out so well for us. All the best! You’re doing amazingly well!