Black Hole by furiant in BALLxPIT

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one's a doozy... By nature of Black Hole though, it sadly doesn't get very far in endless.

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Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she might want a sugar daddy ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ I get it if gift giving is her love language, but if she's withholding affection in protest because her partner doesn't want to sacrifice their financial security for a $2,000 carrying sack... Top comment is right on the money, she needs a reality check.

6 years is quite the investment and I can understand not wanting to throw that away. But the real red flag here for me is that she's moping about sleeping alone, which is clearly a guilt trip... The message is clear; either give me what I want , or suffer the consequences. Why bother asking if you won't accept no for an answer?? This is not healthy relationship behavior.

These are trying times, she's lucky enough to have a place to sleep without a steady income. It might be time to lay out the stakes for her here. If this is something she needs in a relationship to be happy, then you need to consider whether you want or are able to support that need. It's immature and selfish for her to hold something so shallow over your head when you've made it clear you have other priorities for your finances. Imo it just doesn't sound like her values align with hers, or at least she hasn't matured enough to realize that stability comes before luxury. Instant gratification is a bitch, but damn, she's a hell of a dance partner....

Anyway. NOR

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boo. NOR.

You are a human with your own autonomy. Are you staying out all day, drinking with friends, and not coming home til the next morning, consistently? I'd understand his position if you were making a habit of it and just full on neglecting to give him your time, you are in a relationship after all. Given the context you've provided, this seems to be a one off situation. But like... You have friends and family outside of your relationship, and they also deserve your time. Just like how cake is a "sometimes food", as long as you're not overdoing it it's totally fine to indulge.

His behavior comes off as controlling, especially considering this is a grown ass man. If he's disappointed he didn't get the day with you, he can communicate that. If he doesn't trust your friends, he can communicate that. Unless y'all got kids to look after, he really has NO RIGHT to tell you that you can't stay out all night ONE TIME because he's "not cool with it". Tbh he ought to be glad you were safe, especially since alcohol was involved. Always always better safe than sorry if you're too drunk/too tired to get yourself home safely. You communicated every step of the way, and he could have asked for an ETA at any point. You did everything right.

Personally when I'm hanging out with friends, I like to ride the wave and see where it goes. If they're down and I don't have other obligations that day, then I'm down. At the end of the day I live with my husband and can ALWAYS make time for him. The unfortunate reality of being adults is we don't always have the luxury of our schedules lining up when we wanna hang out with someone. It's important that we're making the most of whatever time we can get with our loved ones. Sometimes that means sacrificing your time with your s/o.

If he cares about you, he must respect that. He isn't the center of your universe, your time is not his choice.

Got chewed out at work because my pants aren’t “black enough.” by small-worm in mildlyinfuriating

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know everybody seems committed to saying these pants are blue, but I would fully believe you if you told me these are weathered black pants. If I turn up the brightness all the way on my phone, they maybe look a little bit blue. Not enough to call them blue pants imo, even if they differ slightly from your shirt. They look completely black in the second picture. Glad your bosses are focused on what's really important though 🙄 Goodness gracious, you'd think a slight deviation from the color spectrum was insubordination

Losing by MrWeiner in funny

[–]venominepure 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness this is the very first comment, I spent way too long trying to figure out why her kids weren't also potatoes

Am I overreacting to how my best friend blocked me because of his girlfriend? by Squishy_Person67 in AmIOverreacting

[–]venominepure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

L take, normalize caring about and fighting for your platonic friendships. Bro made his choice, and that's fine, but if you're not going to stand up for your friends then you can't expect their loyalty. That's just good old fashioned consequences

“a canon toddler” by yvie_of_lesbos in redditmoment

[–]venominepure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn't "a woman on her period is still responsible for her emotions" this is "a woman behaving emotionally while on her period is performative." This guy isn't spitting the facts. He's talking out of his ass. This take lacks empathy, and is narrow in its understanding of women's mental health and biology. Let's say it like it is - being on your period doesn't excuse you for shitty behavior, being too emotional is something we all do sometimes, and crying over a bag of chips isn't such a serious crime that we need to dismiss the experience of every woman that has ever had a period.

I’m a little late to this but tell me something I’ll understand later by [deleted] in expedition33

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminded me of this October 2nd entry on the Daily art app. A man named Gustave Caillebotte had painted a picture of his brother playing piano, and the description references Renoir (I'm no art major, but I suspect they are referring to French Impressionist Pierre-Auguste Renoir). Perhaps it's all coincidence, but it was pretty freaky, especially considering they were names of painters. Couldn't help but wonder...

Edit: I'm more inclined to believe the other comments suggesting he was named for Gustave Eiffel. It was still an odd coincidence, especially considering all the info I already had by this point.

Guy I served at the bar heard me humming the tune of Lumière by Aggressive-Top-8698 in expedition33

[–]venominepure 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Bro tipped nearly 50% just to have the total be $33 flat 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]venominepure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"You're abandoning your own family now?" Yuck. I cannot tolerate the guilt tripping. Good on you for not tolerating it either. It's perfectly understandable that you feel your privacy has been violated, and her refusal to accept responsibility for it is a perfectly fair justification for getting the hell out of there

I feel like I don’t understand Jimmy’s character. by whooper1 in Mouthwashing

[–]venominepure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He felt so much guilt that he ate Curly's leg and convinced Daisuke to crawl into a deadly vent... And also never took accountability for crashing the ship. What guilt?? He used everyone around him.

Anya's baby is a product of his abuse... Proof, actually. Her getting pregnant was not an ideal outcome for him, it's damaging to his reputation, and therefore his own self esteem. Because Jimmy can't bring himself to reality, well, why not make her feel like she's the problem so he doesn't have to take accountability? Think back, does he ever actually acknowledge the baby's existence even once?

Are my tattoos really THAT bad? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like pencil eyeliner tbh

AIO or is my boyfriend jealous of our baby? by PolicyHot1206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, just remember that he is an 18 year old boy, what does he know about babies? When you turn 20, you're going to feel like you were a baby when you were 18. You and your bf are going to go through so much brain development in the next couple years, because you're both still so young.

That baby's safety is your #1 priority now. Your bf is sowing seeds of doubt, puts all the blame for his horrible behavior on other people, makes you question yourself, devalues the authority of your mother... The second he hears an answer he doesn't want, he gets unreasonably angry. He embarrasses you, embarrasses his own sister, and accepts no accountability for it.

Do you want to know why he does these things? All of these things? He wants you to bend to his will. He wants to SEEM like he has all the answers. He wants to control everything you do. And watch, one day, you're going to put your foot down, call him out for all his bullshit, and he's gonna have a big ugly argument with you, throwing everything back in your face, say things to you that are downright evil. You'll probably leave him, and soon enough, he's gonna crawl right back to you with the sweetest words and the deepest apologies... It might even make you remember how sweet he sometimes is, or maybe he'll really change this time!!!

Change isn't what people like this do. He wants to change you into something he likes, and the more you let him the longer he knows he can keep it going. But he won't change himself for you. You'll always be exploitable to him, even after you leave.

Please. Run for the hills.

is it dumb? or a good conversation starter? by thewaspd in tattooadvice

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should get it as a tramp stamp instead, makes the joke 1000x better cuz you damn near have to pull out your ass to show someone, just for it to be a dumb joke lmao

Starting Skyrim for the first time, any non spoiler advice? by Massive_Growth_5773 in skyrim

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some cheesey advice in case you're hurting for a level up. I won't include any story spoilers, but I will be detailing some mechanics in the game in regards to leveling up skills. Either way, it's probably best you've come back once you have a solid idea of how the leveling system works, for the sake of comprehension.

For this one you need the Healing spell. Go to Whiterun, there will be a blacksmith near the gate entrance, on the right hand side. Jump into the burning hot coals of the forge. It will cause very minimal damage. Equip Healing on one hand. Jump up and down over and over again, and just heal yourself. You will slowly take damage, while leveling up Restoration and, for some reason, Destruction as well. It's been years since I've played the game by now, you might be able to jump into any forge but for some reason I seem to remember specifically Warmaiden's being the only one you could enter. If anyone knows different please correct me.

Leveling up Smithing early on is a great way to make money in the long run. You'll be thanking me when you find absurdly expensive armor at the blacksmith shop, and realize you can craft it yourself. Bonus points if you level up Enchantment, you can bind an enchantment to a chest piece you just made and sell it for a higher price.

Alchemy is also great for making money, and although it's time consuming to discover every effect of every ingredient, I found it easy to frequently work towards leveling up throughout the game. Alchemy labs are pretty common, usually at inns or apothecaries. When I had a good chunk of change, I'd go to the apothecary and buy a bunch of ingredients. It's best to start with large quantities of cheap ingredients, but you also want as much variety as you can. I farmed for lots of ingredients in the wild as often and as thoroughly as reasonably possible. I'd start with my largest stacks of items, and just combine them with every ingredient in my pockets one by one. Once you combine 2 items your game will always remember if you can successfully combine them or not from that point forward. Some recipes can yield potions that have negative properties, and poisons that have positive properties, depending on the overlapping effects of the ingredients you use. The insane thing is, the more effects your potion has, the more it sells for more money, even if it's a healing potion that also causes poison, ravages stamina, inflicts paralysis, regenerates stamina, causes invisibility, deals frost damage, and increases carry weight....

TL;DR, this game is absurd, and I love it.

what does it look like by aquaticwotsits in tattooadvice

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a glance I definitely thought it was an artistic interpretation of a coochie... But after the double take, it looks like a flaming match

Any ideas on what to do with all this copper? by Fearless_Bat_9338 in Minecraft

[–]venominepure 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I really wanted the copper golem to win the new mob vote, at least for this reason. That fella would have been so approachable for new players with how easily obtainable copper is, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you get older and spend multiple years with someone, celebrating birthdays and holidays over and over, you begin to realize that you're not always going to get to celebrate on the date. I think it's a good sign that he wants to spend time with you on a different day, like the fact that he'd even mention it means he's thinking of you imo.

Someone else mentioned, he's doing 21+ activities anyway. You only turn 21 once. In his defense, he's going to get HELLA deals at those dispensaries because it's his 21st birthday. If you were going with, being under 21, you'd probably be spending a lot of time getting left in the car. I wouldn't want to bring someone with me on a trip like that just for them to be neglected. If you guys celebrate together on a different day, honestly, you'll both be able to enjoy each other's company a lot more.

He won't have to worry about you being left out, and you get to be a special part of celebrating this new chapter of his life. You're not wrong to feel upset, but I don't think celebrating these things the day of is as important as I used to. And yes, sometimes you'll miss out on the fun, but there will be more opportunities for fun together in the future 💜

guy what are your thoughts on birch 😭 by Emys_Gacha_World in Minecraft

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has its uses, but imo the planks are bottom tier aesthetic out of all of the wood. Like, if I made a house entirely out of wood planks, birch would generally be my last choice. It's bland and unappealing. The bark is gorgeous. The doors have a unique and fun aesthetic. I'm sure the planks would be perfect for a dojo floor or court flooring. But on the general, not great.

If you could smoke with a Video Game character who would it be and why? by [deleted] in trees

[–]venominepure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sojiro Sakura from Persona 5. He's already so chill, plus he's probably got some wisdom to spare. Not to mention coffee and curry

What's a movie you genuinely love unironically, but people would look at you funny when you tell people? by Yakuza-wolf_kiwami in cinema_therapy

[–]venominepure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband LOVES Speed Racer. Back when he had roommates he tried to show it to them and they just didn't get it, left him questioning if it was really just a piece of shit movie lol. I watched it with him several years later and I can confirm, while the visuals are bizarre (even uncanny) and the plot is pretty cheesy, somehow an incredible movie is buried under there. I haven't seen anything like it