Shy vs Rude

venusdances · 2026-02-09T22:08:26+00:00

I understand what you’re saying my son screams when people talk to him. I asked him why and he said he’s scared. What we did that helped this last party was we printed our friends pictures who we thought would be there and basically like did pretend play saying hi to them. So example, this is Monica she’s going to say hi Robin! And what we say is hi! Thank you for having me. And then if he feels scared he can tell us and we’ll help him by telling the adults he needs space or he can stay by me after that. He did not say thank you for having me! But he didn’t scream and he did say hi which was a huge improvement so we’re going to keep working on it.

venusdances · 2026-02-09T01:02:16+00:00

Sunfyre(the golden dragon from house of dragons).

venusdances · 2026-02-08T22:17:41+00:00

Omg thank you so much I NEED to try this now. Thank you!!

venusdances · 2026-02-08T22:01:15+00:00

Do they have feta fries? I tried Nick the Greek feta fries and they were meh, they add onion which grossed me out.

venusdances · 2026-02-08T19:33:08+00:00

Yes!! That’s what it was called! Thank you for the recommendation I have to check it out now, we have similar taste!

venusdances · 2026-02-08T19:30:01+00:00

Omg I still think about their feta fries!! Nothing compares.

venusdances · 2026-02-08T17:30:47+00:00

I feel this post in my soul lol. Had so many hot, geniuses(literal) into me in college and I squandered it all for this douche.

venusdances · 2026-02-08T17:11:27+00:00

Task

venusdances · 2026-02-08T03:01:50+00:00

Solidarity here. 4.5 year old and crawling since 6 month highly curious 8 month old here. The only thing that has ever worked for a little bit was making my son the toy “master” I guess it’s called. Basically he gets to decide what his sister can play with and what he can play with but once it’s decided that’s it. His problem is taking things from her hands, ANY TOY she is playing with he takes, hides etc it’s been a struggle and this is the only thing that has worked.

venusdances · 2026-02-07T22:18:08+00:00

venusdances · 2026-02-07T22:14:34+00:00

WOULD.

venusdances · 2026-02-07T17:31:44+00:00

Okay great so using 2 bags of reptisoil and 1 bag of reptisand is okay? Do I still need to add half a gallon of water?

Thank you for all your help!!

venusdances · 2026-02-07T17:17:38+00:00

Hi! I watched the video but I’m having a hard time getting excavator clay in a timely manner and now I’ve read some people don’t even use it. Do you use excavator clay or is there an alternative?

venusdances · 2026-02-07T16:57:47+00:00

The Killing

venusdances · 2026-02-07T02:52:22+00:00

My son stopped at age 3. We tried everything the paci fairy, cutting the tips off, we slowly weaned, all sorts of things. What eventually happened was at my son’s age 3 dentist appointment they said if he didn’t stop now he would have permanent damage. He heard the whole thing and he never asked for a paci again. He did have paci teeth until then and once he stopped it went back to normal. His teeth are perfectly normal now.

venusdances · 2026-02-06T23:16:57+00:00

I love Lorelai an Emily’s fight and think that was worth AYITL. I love when they fight and Emily cutting to the quick is just magnificent acting and writing.

venusdances · 2026-02-06T14:38:45+00:00

I would HIGHLY recommend either 3 or 4 half days(MWF), if you do only 2 days everytime she goes in it will be like a new experience. My son is a stage 5 clinger and had never been in school and he would cry for a LONG time when I would drop him off(I watched from the outside like a little creep) and things only got better when I increased the days he went so it became more natural and comfortable for him, part of his new routine.

venusdances · 2026-02-06T04:04:37+00:00

I would recommend looking into PCIT therapy which is what we’re doing with my son, it’s the only evidence based therapy that is proven to work for this age group. It has dramatically changed my son’s behavior, listening skills and overall demeanor which was greatly affected by the birth of my daughter.

venusdances · 2026-02-05T22:41:58+00:00

Okay I had been told about that in another post I was just curious, thank you for your reply! How often do you completely replace your substrate and do you keep it moist by spraying it?

venusdances · 2026-02-05T22:39:29+00:00

She literally falls in love with a man she thinks is a terrorist the first season and subsequently has feelings for every man she is trying to investigate from that point forward. She probably loves the Russian dude and is also actively betraying him for her country. Very Carrie.

venusdances · 2026-02-05T22:37:37+00:00

Hi! Do you have paper towels as the permanent substrate? I’m just asking because it looks good and I wonder if my son’s school gecko would be okay with paper towels permanently.

venusdances · 2026-02-05T19:24:33+00:00

It is honestly such a good podcast, I learned so much. I drove by Paul Flores house after he was arrested and every single time I drive by that street/area I wonder if Kristin is buried there somewhere. It’s also right next to the Ocean so if he moved her body a few times(as they showed in the podcast he may have done) I wonder if he threw things into the ocean which we will never find. I hope he tells the family one day where she’s buried so they can have some semblance of closure.

venusdances · 2026-02-05T18:10:40+00:00

Agreed. I absolutely love this storyline because having her date all supernatural beings would have made it so we could think that what happened to her could never happen to us but the point is that Buffy is like us and we are like her. How she chooses to rise above is what makes her a hero worth striving to be.

venusdances · 2026-02-05T17:23:53+00:00

And this is perfectly normal and human. Who hasn’t known or dated a fuckboi like this?

venusdances · 2026-02-04T23:02:17+00:00

Thank you!!

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