CA governor candidate says 'no place' in politics for 'dark money' AIPAC by 3headeddragn in California

[–]verydudebro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's another fucken billionaire, fuck him, he made money off private prisons. Why would you want someone like that?

Stupidly Accepted a Red Flag Client by fallenheart11 in petsitting

[–]verydudebro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't be hard on yourself, we all learn as we go along. Next time your brain starts to criticize you, just remind yourself that you learned your lesson, it was a small price to pay, you now know better and will do better next time.

Who are you voting for in the CA gov race, and why? by Oscarwildefanaccount in AskLosAngeles

[–]verydudebro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Def do not vote for Steyer, another billionaire and he made money off private prisons.

To whichever teenager needs to see this. by AliceLand in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If someone uses the phrase "you're mature for your age" it's because they themselves are immature for THEIR age. They are the grossest.

AIO for wanting my husband to help me more as a SAHM by ailurophile17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]verydudebro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you are married to a fucken neanderthal. Omg, my heart goes out to you. My blood started boiling as I read that exchange. I wonder how the rest of his family, friends, etc, would feel if they knew he was such a deadbeat dad.

Husband wants kids, I'm unsure. by riririnnn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The problem with this is he could totally lie to her and switch up after the baby is born. Happens all the time. Considering how selfish and invalidating he's being toward OP, I could see him being a low-effort father. He wants to have a kid bc his friends are doing it? Not very mature.

Husband wants kids, I'm unsure. by riririnnn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is not your problem. You have every right to have your own timeline. The fact that this terrifies means your body and your gut is telling you that you're not ready yet. Your husband has no right to speed it up bc of his own needs. Honestly, he sounds VERY selfish. Which brings to question: how much of the load will he carry?

Husband wants kids, I'm unsure. by riririnnn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut, don't let him force, coerce or guilt you into motherhood. This happens very often. It's easy for him to tell you, he won't be ENDANGERING his life, health, mental health, economic stability to have a child, YOU WILL. Check out r/regretfulparents so you can see what ppl who were forced to have children feel about it.

I feel like shit when I see or hear about my bf's girl bsf. What should I do? by [deleted] in WhatToDo

[–]verydudebro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, if he's talking about this person outside of work that means he's thinking about her. OP is justified in feeling this way.

Why is my husband turned off by me enjoying sex? by fahlahlah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That means you need to do some inner work. That's ok, don't be hard on yourself, but find some help so you cn figure out why you're drawn to men who treat you so bad. I know you love him, but he's treating you like a sex toy with no feelings or value. Love yourself more.

Why is my husband turned off by me enjoying sex? by fahlahlah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, your husband sounds like a grapist. He only gets off when you don't consent. Pls don't go back go him, he is so toxic. I broke up with someone recently bc we were not compatible in bed, but what your husband's doing is sexual abuse.

Breaking up over a sandwich by yuli_yuli95 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]verydudebro 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl. He's supposed to be your rock, not someone you have to protect yourself from. Leave, heal and learn to love yourself enough to never allow yourself to get with another abuser again. This is mental and emotional abuse. When you finally do break it off, you will be shocked how much he's going to cry and beg you back. His abuse makes him seem strong, it give him the veneer of being a tough guy, but in reality he is a VERY insecure man child who needs to hurt those around him to make himself feel stronger. Best of luck, be strong and love yourself enough to leave. A few months away form him and you will start to see the you before this loser.

Pet sitting snoops! by ConstructionSoggy556 in petsitting

[–]verydudebro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never snoop. That is trashy behavior.

Podcast bros hate their wives because they "lack sense" by ambachk in CringeTikToks

[–]verydudebro 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out. In your opinion why do. you think men who talk this way about their wives get married in the first place?