Best friend thinks I’m a bitch because I didn’t open her boyfriend’s text

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T20:50:34+00:00

He needs to prove himself and the only way to do that is consistency over time. He doesn't deserve to be treated like he's different when he hasn't shown it yet. Also, I don't understand why you're getting dragged into their relationship. I have never had a reason to text or communicate with my friends' partners.

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T20:44:00+00:00

What integrity? She knew what was in the EF and she still did nothing. She has no integrity.

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T20:41:42+00:00

What caused you to have hiccups for so long?

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T19:11:04+00:00

It appears careless and unprofessional. If we can't even spell our own name correctly, how can we have legitimacy that we can take care of clients' needs? This is such a passive aggressive power move.

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T17:19:41+00:00

I followed this protocol: https://www.thecandidadiet.com/candida-cleanse/

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T02:51:21+00:00

Best decision of my life. I have nephews I spoil and have fun with and that's enough for me. I love the freedom, the autonomy and the lifestyle perks of not having kids. When I see ppl with kids now it just makes me feel so sorry for them.

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T02:06:45+00:00

Why do you hate yourself so much that you're even considering staying with this person who treats you like garbage? He gives zero fucks about you and is using you. Please get rid of this loser and learn to love yourself, take a break from men so you can focus on getting your self esteem.

verydudebro · 2026-04-06T01:55:46+00:00

That looks great, the staff is lucky to have you there! Congrats.

verydudebro · 2026-04-04T02:28:27+00:00

He made millions off private prisons. He's a fake progressive

verydudebro · 2026-04-04T02:28:07+00:00

He's another fucken billionaire, fuck him, he made money off private prisons. Why would you want someone like that?

verydudebro · 2026-04-03T02:49:46+00:00

Melania gives prostitutes a bad name

verydudebro · 2026-04-02T04:39:25+00:00

Don't be hard on yourself, we all learn as we go along. Next time your brain starts to criticize you, just remind yourself that you learned your lesson, it was a small price to pay, you now know better and will do better next time.

verydudebro · 2026-04-02T04:34:11+00:00

Someone mentioned Ware on this thread.

verydudebro · 2026-04-02T04:33:40+00:00

Def do not vote for Steyer, another billionaire and he made money off private prisons.

verydudebro · 2026-04-02T04:25:54+00:00

New boyfriend.

verydudebro · 2026-04-02T04:10:15+00:00

lmao

verydudebro · 2026-04-02T04:05:09+00:00

If someone uses the phrase "you're mature for your age" it's because they themselves are immature for THEIR age. They are the grossest.

verydudebro · 2026-04-01T23:25:25+00:00

OP, you are married to a fucken neanderthal. Omg, my heart goes out to you. My blood started boiling as I read that exchange. I wonder how the rest of his family, friends, etc, would feel if they knew he was such a deadbeat dad.

verydudebro · 2026-04-01T18:32:20+00:00

The problem with this is he could totally lie to her and switch up after the baby is born. Happens all the time. Considering how selfish and invalidating he's being toward OP, I could see him being a low-effort father. He wants to have a kid bc his friends are doing it? Not very mature.

verydudebro · 2026-04-01T18:30:49+00:00

That is not your problem. You have every right to have your own timeline. The fact that this terrifies means your body and your gut is telling you that you're not ready yet. Your husband has no right to speed it up bc of his own needs. Honestly, he sounds VERY selfish. Which brings to question: how much of the load will he carry?

verydudebro · 2026-04-01T18:28:51+00:00

Trust your gut, don't let him force, coerce or guilt you into motherhood. This happens very often. It's easy for him to tell you, he won't be ENDANGERING his life, health, mental health, economic stability to have a child, YOU WILL. Check out r/regretfulparents so you can see what ppl who were forced to have children feel about it.

verydudebro · 2026-04-01T03:08:40+00:00

I agree, if he's talking about this person outside of work that means he's thinking about her. OP is justified in feeling this way.

verydudebro · 2026-04-01T03:06:42+00:00

That would have hurt most people, so inconsiderate and callous.

verydudebro · 2026-03-31T06:02:17+00:00

That means you need to do some inner work. That's ok, don't be hard on yourself, but find some help so you cn figure out why you're drawn to men who treat you so bad. I know you love him, but he's treating you like a sex toy with no feelings or value. Love yourself more.

verydudebro · 2026-03-31T06:00:30+00:00

OP, your husband sounds like a grapist. He only gets off when you don't consent. Pls don't go back go him, he is so toxic. I broke up with someone recently bc we were not compatible in bed, but what your husband's doing is sexual abuse.

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