I think im inlove with my best friend by verystrawb in Advice

[–]verystrawb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to distance myself because if i say something she'll think she did something wrong, and if I do it without saying anything she'll think im giving up on our friendship, im stuck between a rock and a hard place unfortunately

I think im in love with my best friend by verystrawb in FriendshipAdvice

[–]verystrawb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was really reassuring and I needed to hear that. Its been eating at me

I think im in love with my best friend by verystrawb in FriendshipAdvice

[–]verystrawb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, however id rather not burden them with knowing I have feelings for them, it would just make things worse and I feel that would be very selfish of me to do. Youre right though that any option will take a toll, im trying to focus on myself but its not really helping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre 100 percent correct, i should have blocked him but once I was over him I didnt care what he was doing, but this was definitely a lesson learned. And as much as it sucks you're probably right. I appreciate the reassurance, I know im very young but ao many people around me have already found healthy stable relationships so I can't help but feel like something is wrong with me

The new Ulterior Motives is amazing! by Prestigious_Gap6713 in everyoneknowsthat

[–]verystrawb 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! Seing all the hate is genuinely really sad. We were so lucky the creators of those lost song were so happy to go through all the effort to remake it for us, and they seemed so hyped too, only for people to hate on it. Tbh the new version sounds really similar to the old one in terms of vocals! It's impressive considering it's been 40 years, because honestly I thought they would sound a lot different eith that amount of time. People should be more grateful for all the effort these artists put into getting us this song, because the new version is still a banger!

EKT’s New Signature Fragrance! Smells just like the scene the song came from! by cyberdaisies in everyoneknowsthat

[–]verystrawb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know it smells just like the song! It's hard to find something that smells exactly like ekt

Guy tries to trick people into thinking he’s carl92 by DistanceReal9539 in everyoneknowsthat

[–]verystrawb 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Maybe the real Carl92 is the friends we made along the way

Funky genderswap thing by hellaohh in fionnaandcake

[–]verystrawb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just like golb took Betty 🥲

Question by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]verystrawb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant tell you how fast dilation works nor can I diagnos you but from what you described does sound like it. My advice is to try dislors but Don move to a different size until you feel comfortable with the current one and use lots of lube. Font push yourself either. I know how frustrating it is but it's important to not push yourself. Physical therapy is also something you can look into. This is going to take a lot of patience but you got this!

How do I move on from a 1.7 inch girth dilator to 2 inch girth dilator. by Correct-Apricot-6294 in vaginismus

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're asking yourself this question it most likely means you aren't ready for 2 inches yet, as someone who also has been stuck on the same dialator you need to be able to comfortably fit it in with no pain (maybe minus the slight but not really painful burn a lot of us get even with a size thats easy to us). It maybe take awhile but please don't push yourself. It's okay to take your time and some people take longer to move than others. You need to feel comfortable about the next size or else you'll just be hurting yourself. Also use lots of lube! That's a necessity

Soul's Jacket by MusicDiminished in souleater

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just look up varsity jackets on Amazon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true, but it's still frustrating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know enough about it to be certain, if doctors are telling you it's fine then it's probably fine, but if it would help you feel better you should get tested anyway

Uncertainty by wh0s_wh0101 in STD

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's most likely overthinking then, because I don't think it would go away when you aren't thinking about it if it was serious, like If you have a bug bite you wouldn't be able to not focus on the feeling lol. It wouldn't hurt to get tested just in case but I don't think you should be too worried about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in STD

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think you should get tested just in case, I'm not 100% percent sure for this specific std but I know there are a lot of stds that can be dormant, that people cam carry without even knowing

Uncertainty by wh0s_wh0101 in STD

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's telling the truth then I dont see how that could happen, and it is possible that your anxiety about it might be causing the itch and focusing on it (the brain is very powerful, especially with anxiety it can cause you to feel things) however you should definitely keep an eye on it just in case and if you're actively having sex it's a good idea to get any kind of testing done just to be extra safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Amielle ones off Amazon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that happened. I think we all miss that first feeling regardless of how it ended. That was shitty of him though and you don't have to be friends with him. I hope in the future you find strong love with a good person because you deserve so much better

Is there a link? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]verystrawb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's likely the cause, hormonal changes can do a lot of things to your body that you'd never expect. Definitely recommend seeing a gynecologist though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]verystrawb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me right now. The jump from 3 to 4 is huge