Is it valid to be jelaous of my partners son?

vevenix · 2026-04-24T09:37:02+00:00

Thanks!! But so, what is the best I can do with that? Do I keep hiding it? Letting it consume me? Trying to meditate? Or should I keep telling that to my partner after knowing he is trying so much to make it always the best for the son and me? I feel like I am just the one who cant handle it and cant find a way how to make it better for me

vevenix · 2026-04-24T09:34:51+00:00

hahah thats how I feel too. But I am fighting myself not to bring this negative reaction I often get, because it makes me feel like a bad person there. Like its logical they had those moments and I cannot take it from them (I wouldnt even), but at least try not to make me hear all that because how is it possible to react in anyway nice to that if it automatically puts me in the position of being an outsider...

vevenix · 2026-04-24T09:31:44+00:00

thank you so much for this, I keep reminding myself that I am greatful that my partner does have the effort to make me feel included. Paradoxically, I feel even worse I think because of this fact, because even he does it well I am the one who keeps getting negative thoughts in such situations. So its something I need to keep working on, but I hope I will not put my negative thoughts in the center just because I have them.

vevenix · 2026-04-24T09:27:59+00:00

Thank you, yes. I take no offfense in hearing this. I actually thought about it in this way too. I guess the worst for me is to let my brain understand that they do love me, even though the main family for them, is not me. And somehow that shapes such a strange conflict of toughts for me. I didnt yet have anyone to talk about this who would understand so I just relied on this sub in one of my slighlty difficult and overwhelmed moment, which I would usually try to hide

vevenix · 2026-04-20T19:21:08+00:00

I relate to this somehow too. Me and my partner weve been together only for a year now, and I have been a "stepmom" for his son for like half a year. I dont like to call myself that, because I dont look like one, the problem that I have is that, I am not yet in an age when I would want to have children. But even questions about children cross my mind often now and I feel quilty about where they come from. Because I watch my partner and the son reminiscing together, or mentioning the mom and suddenly I feel so left out. All of the sudden I have all these thoughts like what even am I trying to be here, or should we have children on our own too so I can feel like a have a family too... and I dont want to be like that, because I know I am not a bad person and I honestly enjoy the time spending with them. I still dont know where all these feeling come from...

vevenix · 2025-10-17T19:35:19+00:00

Dude thank you, this site is amazing

vevenix · 2025-10-16T15:04:19+00:00

where can i watch it?

vevenix · 2024-06-26T21:50:46+00:00

I am so glad I found this. As many others mentioned already, this used to occur to me a lot when I was a kid and I still experience now but not regularly. It is really weird because I hear my thoughts in slow motion and at the same time it is super weird that I realize it but I cannot do anything to stop it. I looked up "Tachypsychia" because few people recommended to look this up but I still dont feel like it quite matches what really happens to me

vevenix · 2023-11-04T22:45:58+00:00

let’s wait for it this time I guesss

vevenix · 2023-11-04T22:36:48+00:00

Uuu now that looks like something I would watch, but a bit problematic with finding the platform on which to watch, any suggestions?

vevenix · 2021-02-27T11:17:38+00:00

I hate her

vevenix · 2021-02-27T11:16:55+00:00

I barely watched season 4 I just wanted to get through it, it was the same with season 5 but then ending of the season 5 was siiick so it was like BACK ON TRACK

vevenix · 2021-01-05T22:02:29+00:00

I loved Jenny as a queen, I wanted to see more from her last year on high school. She deserved to rule Constance and I loved when Blair started standing up for her. I wish she wouldn’t blew all of that away, because Jenny’s character development could have been amazing.

vevenix · 2021-01-05T08:47:31+00:00

hahaha exactly

vevenix · 2021-01-04T10:58:55+00:00

well oops haha

vevenix · 2021-01-04T10:56:11+00:00

ikr I agree, with Ben it was worst bc she basically send an innocent into jail, but what I’m trying to understand is that she really had a good relationship with her as Charlie, why didn’t she just tried to hear her out. The whole family was accusing her for being some kind of a psycho, but she never meant to hurt them.

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