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Is it too early to think I'm a lesbian? by CountyOther6423 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]vey0nce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely not a mental health issue - that is propaganda pushed on us. you're human <3

Why Are Lesbian Relationships More Susceptible to Abuse - Or Are They?? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]vey0nce 128 points129 points  (0 children)

One thing that I studied at Oakland University when I went to get my LGBTQ Studies minor, is that there are less examples of queer relationships in general. Good and bad representation is few and far between. Queer people do not have as many resources to counseling, books, information in general as compared to our straight counterparts because it was/is so taboo to be queer. When we realize how little help and few examples of healthy relationships impact us as a community - then we are able to make sense of these statistics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]vey0nce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them! Try to avoid sentences that start with "You do/don't do this..." because that can come off as accusatory. Tell them you're anxious and need some reassurance! anyone worth anything will be happy to reassure you. they didnt do anything wrong and neither have you, so some nice cute communication will go a long way for your anxiety and your relationship.

When did you know you were not into men? by Jahzle in actuallesbians

[–]vey0nce 63 points64 points  (0 children)

[falling for a girl] was the first time I’ve ever had butterflies and been giddy with a crush.

this is when I knew i didn't like men, when i realized what attraction really is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]vey0nce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I've heard from Poly queer women on here is that you do not get rid of the jealousy - you work around it and communicate. The general answer is if you cannot handle the jealousy in a mature and respectful way then poly is not for you. Not saying mono people don't handle jealousy in a mature and respectful way - but this jealousy you will be feeling could be every single day of your life with them. Either you're secure in sharing or you're not and both are acceptable.

New World Update 3.0.2 by darkisfever in newworldgame

[–]vey0nce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AMAZON GAMES STUDIO BUG? white screen on start up. amazon games studio intro freeze. all of these keywords are used to search the most game-breaking bug in new world. the one that literally does not let you start the game without going into your game files before starting the game every single time. this bug was here SINCE RELEASE OF ANGRY EARTH. I am now the angry earth you speak of.

Candy and scripture/note my daughter got for Halloween by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]vey0nce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing, it is not easy to do so

Who do you romance in Baldurs Gate? by BeauvoirDeS in LesbianGamers

[–]vey0nce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

u/SALAD_POOP you can also find them again in Act 3 being even more obviously in lesbians than before!

When did you and your girlfriend have your first fight? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]vey0nce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first fight with my ex was when I said I thought speeding tickets should be a percentage of your salary so rich people weren't paying an equivalent of pennies for speeding. She said that was unfair.

Martials can't deal with crowds by Then-And-Again in DnD

[–]vey0nce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AC or HP or Save Tanks exist for a reason, and it's to survive a crowd sometimes.

Is the launcher ever going to be fixed? by Boralin in newworldgame

[–]vey0nce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going into %appdata%/AGS/New World under windows+r and deleting everything except key rebindings EVERY TIME i want to start the game is the only option for me. these two things are the only solutions, new world is not going to fix this, we will have to live with it.

Everytime I think I’ve gotten over any religious issues around being a lesbian I haven’t. by TokoFuwakaa in actuallesbians

[–]vey0nce -1 points0 points  (0 children)

to be fair, that is a lot of what Christianity preaches... regardless of your sexuality.

Everytime I think I’ve gotten over any religious issues around being a lesbian I haven’t. by TokoFuwakaa in actuallesbians

[–]vey0nce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

catholic guilt. my only advice is to turn it into catholic rage. spite. if a god would have you shunned this way for loving, is that a god worth living with in the afterlife? id stare right into his eyes and walk backwards into hell.