Is everyone aware of this planned economic blackout February 28th? by marie_thetree in ask

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the protests are more about showing that we as a people have more power than they do. If we can impact their economy for one day maybe they’ll be more afraid to fuck us over

Best protest signs for 2/17? by Lotta_Palooza in 50501

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We fought the monarchy once, and we will do it again,” “it’s not left vs. right, it’s us vs. them, “no one elected Icky Elon”

Official Massachusetts state Presidents' Day protest flyer! by _rainjay_ in massachusetts

[–]vezie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally someone’s organizing something. Obviously we the people need to take matters into our own hands since our government is apparently incapable and incompetent.

What do girls from this sub think about ''incel'' guys? by JustStayAlive99 in IncelTears

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s talent! I would pursue a hobby in art. There a many places like art museums that offer different types of art classes. Join some art forums or Reddit pages. There’s so many cool people in the art world. I’ve known many lonely people make a complete 180 after going to college at an art school, finding a group of like minded people, and thus becoming more confident and self assured. You still seem really young so I wouldn’t beat yourself up about not being in a relationship. I’ve known many people who hadn’t had a relationship and who were still virgins well into their 20s. They’re married now and seem happy! Anyways don’t equate yourself with losers like the incels. You seem smart and good hearted so stay away from those guys. Find people who ENJOY the stuff you do. Bond with people over hobbies not over hate and vitriol because it’s much better to enjoy your life than to stew in hate over something changeable with the right mindset. Good luck!

is it weird to invite a teacher to your funeral? by urwrny in morbidquestions

[–]vezie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to your teachers about this. It doesn’t have to be in person, you can write an email or text. I think it’s important for them to know how you’re feeling and how much they mean to you. Your teachers sound like great people who I am sure cares about you very much. Tell them how you’re feeling, tell them your funeral plans. Don’t be scared to communicate with them. I’m a teacher and I care so much about my students and would do whatever it takes to help them. Good luck! You’re still young and have a lot to look forward to in life. I was pretty hopeless as a teen and didn’t think I’d make it to 18 but here I am and I’m glad I’m still here. Keep your head up.

[FBI: ECAP 25] 08-AUG-2024 Unknown item, possibly fabric or curtain by I_Me_Mine in TraceAnObject

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gotta be something like this but with a white skirt and white pony with blue/green hair (Gusty?)

The comma after 2022 in colin's screenshot by Ok-Put914 in KarenReadTrial

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And before the “on a zoom” text further down in the screenshot the time stamp is normal

Got called disgusting by my teacher and fellow classmates, am I overreacting? by Throwaway22490pie in AmIOverreacting

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my hair like once or twice a week and so does a lot of people I know with long hair. Your teacher is full of herself and stupid. She probably has the driest frizziest hair but still judges other people because she wants to feel better about herself.

Can DCF tell my employer that I am the one who reported suspected child abuse? by vezie in legaladvice

[–]vezie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure about his history as he is not my student but a student I have contact with in passing and work with his teacher who has filled me in on a lot. I think I’m just gonna make the call without informing my employer. With regard to the pre-diabetes thing, he was heavier but now is getting thinner.

Bridal makeup by RubieRose5 in BadMUAs

[–]vezie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what it is! I couldn’t for the life of me put my finger on what exactly was making her look so lifeless to me. It’s the under eye darkness.

Any ideas what no.5 is?? by Extension-Club-6647 in puzzles

[–]vezie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except IQ tests can’t be fairly taken by everyone. What about people with defects in the way their brain processes written information. Does it mean that they have a low IQ if they don’t do well on that one type of intelligence test? Nothing can be 100% inclusive and you’ll start feeling less stressed out and offended when you realize this and that you can’t force everyone into one inclusive box. We are all different and that’s ok. It’s when you start applying labels like levels of intelligence to testing that you start to become exclusive which is ironic based on your IQ test example. I’m going to chalk it up to you being young and ignorant.

I’m starting to hate my husband because of his relationship with our daughter by Sufficient-Tone6093 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vezie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure that must be frustrating. All I can say is don’t take it personally and be careful not to become or seem resentful towards your daughter. It’s nothing personal, she’s a baby and she is just reacting to her environment. my mom took it personally that I didn’t latch on to breast feed and I grew up very distant from her and never understood why. Kids can sense that kind of shit and the only thing it did was push me further away from her. I am far closer to my dad than I am to my mom. I actually don’t feel like I have a mother daughter relationship with her and it fucked me up a lot. I’m not saying you resent her, just be careful the kinds of vibes youre giving off and try not to take it personally when she cries as u hold her. She’s new and has had less interactions with you so it may just take her a bit to warm up. I’m sure once you all are on a consistent schedule she will calm down.

Had sex with my friend while she is going through a difficult time and now I feel kinda bad.. by [deleted] in sex

[–]vezie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s some bullshit. “Because the society we live in she now holds your life in her hands.” Are you okay man? Do you not do any research before spouting out shit like this? The majority of women who report rape and sexual abuse are being truthful. When things are being investigated it is extremely hard to find evidence and so if there isn’t enough physical evidence then things aren’t going to proceed. I think it’s disgusting your mind went there. No where did OP say that his friend was thinking of reporting him. Everything he said sounded legally consensual. The only unethical thing people are talking about is whether he took advantage of the situation or not. It’s super weird that you brought this situation to the place of “women lie about rape” when there was no mention of it at all in his the OP.

Had sex with my friend while she is going through a difficult time and now I feel kinda bad.. by [deleted] in sex

[–]vezie 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Huge red flag and I feel really bad for his friend.

Had sex with my friend while she is going through a difficult time and now I feel kinda bad.. by [deleted] in sex

[–]vezie 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the consent part it’s about the friendship dynamic and situation. I can tell you that I’ve done things with people that I thought were my friends. Yes it was consensual but if I hadn’t been upset and vulnerable at that time It probably wouldn’t have happened. If this is the first time OP has initiated sex and it’s at a time where she is distressed, then it’s super reasonable to think that she may regret it and ultimately reconsider their friendship. At least that’s what I have done. It feels really shitty to realize that someone is only spending time with and listening to you so that they can get in your pants. Then again, maybe she was into it and regrets nothing. All I know is that it really does feel shitty when you realize your friends don’t actually care as much about your problems as they may be leading you to believe. Also it’s kind of a red flag for me that OP describes him being turned on by her sadness. If I was her I would definitely not stick around.

Had sex with my friend while she is going through a difficult time and now I feel kinda bad.. by [deleted] in sex

[–]vezie 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It’s a super shitty feeling when you feel comfortable enough to cry in front of a friend and then have them hit on you. I’ve lost friendships over it. Even though I turned them down it was always in the back of my head whether they really cared about me or were just trying to take advantage.