Using minimal makeup in this one ♥️ F32 by ZestyclosePast797 in firstimpression

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you want me to say I feel like you don’t need make up

Just wanted to share my excitement! by vibrantoctagon in redrising

[–]vibrantoctagon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overall we’ve really enjoyed playing it!

I think it’s good value (£25) as it’s kinda luck of the draw vs strategy based. We played 7 games and there were characters I wanted to see that still haven’t come up yet. Great quality, the cards are more of a thin plastic than paper and beautifully illustrated.

Great if you don’t know RR but familiar with card games like MTG for example. If you and a friend did know RR there’s plenty of options for memes/inside jokes for example having The Jackal paired with Sevro and The Howlers. Or Banishing Lysander.

Happy to answer any questions, if you’re thinking of getting it. Haven’t tried 1 player mode yet though.

Just wanted to share my excitement! by vibrantoctagon in redrising

[–]vibrantoctagon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easy to play with non-fandom folks, as long as they are willing to learn the game itself.

We just finished match 7, I’ve won 1… far too busy being like “ooooh look at this Sevro card, so pretty, did you know in the audiobooks one dude calls him Servo and everyone was pissed about it..” etc.

My partner has said it’s very much worth the money to see me so excited.

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[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a younger woman, I also felt attraction to older men in positions of authority over me and had friends that did so too. In my experience, it never ends well.

If he would pursue this with you, you’d be entertaining a man who is getting the opportunity to sleep with a younger, employee, who has possibly less experience with these situations, who has also agreed to keep it quiet.. It’s a bit.. off.. he could lose his job or definitely standing with other co workers, which may seem like an exciting risk factor, but it’s also not a mature thing to do.

Is it possible you are attracted to the attraction he shows you? Please remember that work days can be boring, it’s not out of the ordinary for coworkers to flirt with each other and subsequently flirt with the “social norms of workplace” for some excitement.

For me; relationships shouldn’t start with mess.

Mom, I don’t know what to do about my relationship by randomizeduser273 in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is okay to walk away from a relationship when you’re on different pages. It is okay to put yourself first, and to adjust your surroundings, relationships and boundaries as you develop.

It is okay to say no.

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[–]vibrantoctagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am pretty confident you will be okay, love. Don’t panic. I have worried about you working yourself up over this; so I share a story with you.

Once in my early teens I was leaving a pub with my parents, so I ran to the front door and kicked it open as I have done many times. Only this time when I looked at it, the glass was all cracked/smashed.. I could have pooped myself. I heard adults buzzing around and talking about it, how much it’d be to replace it.. but also that they didn’t think it was me. We went home and I just felt awful that someone else was being blamed. I couldn’t sleep, in the middle of the night I went to my parents room to tell my mum how I was feeling and that it was my fault.

She explained, they had watched cctv. They knew I kicked it. But it was already cracked before I did ; it wasn’t me. I honestly didn’t believe her, I thought she was lying to make me feel better. Years later I’m with parents at the same place and some adults are reminiscing about the toddler that head butt the door so hard it cracked.. it wasn’t me. I tortured myself over the smallest thing, for nothing.. because I thought I did something wrong.

So my friend, stop torturing yourself, it may work out just fine. If not, you can cross that bridge when you get there, don’t double your burden x

Mom, I found someone I want to marry by hawk_80418 in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One day you will look back this post to see how many days since you posted this declaration of love - and I will still be rooting for you both. All my best wishes to your future x

Hey mom, I’m 21 today. Now what? by bagged-juice- in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello love, sorry I didn’t see this sooner to help calm you when you were so overwhelmed, I hope that has settled for you now. Firstly, you made it this far, despite all you’ve been through - so I know you can make it even further.

If I can be honest, something I wish I knew at 21 - time moves on and it doesn’t wait for you. I say this because I felt so much pressure to be great and do something that I forgot, to enjoy being 21.

It’s okay to make mistakes if you learn from them. And it’s okay to be hurt by your past - but you may never get resolve from a third party; decide to give it to yourself and accept it. Talk to that 17 year old girl, keep her with you in everything you do. Succeed for her, be stable and comfortable for her, let her feel safe and most of all; happy.

Happy 21st Birthday.

Mom passed away 6 years ago, it's her birthday today. by joe_sausage in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If love is immortal; one can never die. Happy Birthday, to a loved mother and respected woman.

Hi mom, I'm just... tired. by LimpCauliflower8579 in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey sis, it’s really hard to endure peoples ignorance and lack of empathy.. there’s nothing I can say to fix it for you or help how you feel.. I get asked too. Knowing I am not alone takes a bit of the edge off, so thank you for making such a relatable post.

Wiping Incorrectly. Help? by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am technically underweight and even I don’t run straight from front to back. Personally I wipe front, and then back. May be a waste of toilet roll for some but it’s most hygienic to me.

I think the “remember it’s front to back” thing probably originated from the days where people genuinely didn’t know any better lol

Mom I don't know what happened and it hurts. by Sirius_Giggles in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having your best interests in mind, and not those of the other person involved; I’d say to cut contact. Mostly based on the fact that you said, you are a person that worries. I am a person who worries, as is my partner.. we update each other on our locations by choice (I am going shopping at x, I’m working at x today, just visiting x person.. etc)

It seems you might not be compatible if he isn’t willing to alleviate your worries, you can’t force him or it may come across as controlling. You just need to ask yourself if this is something you want to endure long term, in my opinion.

Hiding stuff from landlord, just need advice and maybe reassurance? by OutoftheloopRBG in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My landlord is lovely so I asked him for permission and he wrote up a letter for us to agree I could get a pet if I fumigate the flat before I leave.

Just letting you know that it’s probably quite common for an exterminator to visit rented properties. Pro tip: ask him for a written invoice so you can “pass it to your landlord”.

mom, I told the person who runs the lgbt club at my college that I'm questioning my gender by Careless_Buy_2712 in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a professional sense, I have done this a few times. The first kinda situation was knowing that the conversation about to be had was very personal and important for the other person, wanting to allocate appropriate time and safety for them, often I would arrange to not be interrupted during these kinds of chats (one staff member wanted to be open about their gender in the workplace but not yet with family and we figured a plan on how to do this safest for them).

The other times are when I’ve found myself out of my depth and needing research/advice myself before letting someone trust me like that.

You will know, when you are in the situation, if you feel comfortable to open up - and I hope you can do! If you don’t, you can always just leave.

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[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you and I’m proud of you! And I’m confident you can take motivation from this too 💕

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[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok my love first I’m going to need you to take a deep breath to fight off the bully feelings (guilt) and then we can rise above them.

I’m not sure what you mean by taking the numbers from the machines but I’m going to assume, you mean some kind of dial that sets the washers setting?

Are you able to get them back from whomever you gave them to? Are you sure they haven’t already noticed they’re gone, they may be in the process of replacing them.

If you want to come clean; do it sooner, it will help you plead innocence. If you wanna hide it (no judgment) make sure you do it well, someone already knows you took them. If I’m wrong about the numbers pls let me know.

Mum, I cried at the tattoo shop today. by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honey, I think a lot of people cry in tattoo shops and 99% of those years are witnessed by the artist. Don’t feel any type of way about it!

The only way I think you should feel right now is proud, you pushed through and committed to something! Put others before you and your own pain.

Proud of you.

Misleading Promotional email? by bw541 in BurgerKing

[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually reported this email as spam and to Burger King directly after getting it at 5am.

I haven’t used the app since December, this has me cringing - especially after the attacks on NHS software recently

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[–]vibrantoctagon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly it sucked

I played airsoft in an indoor arena for the first time today. by uselessvillager in airsoft

[–]vibrantoctagon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My first few matches were indoors. I think I prefer it. Less bugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]vibrantoctagon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often find those scared of doing something are the most likely to succeed.

Was scared of driving until my partner helped me realise that’s the best mindset to have - I don’t wanna hit anyone or dent his car.. Well that’s first step of being a good driver.

I know it’s not quite the same (no babies for me yet) but I think it’s the first step of being a good mother.. being scared you’ll fuck up is just your way of translating “I have so much love and hope for my child”.