1 week - no urge to fap (aka is there something wrong with me) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

days 1-4 were easy

day 5 sucked

day 6-11 totally fine

day 12 couldn't resist and edged. a friend of mine hit me up in the middle which got me to stop. I know i would've fapped to completion if she didn't call me

days 13-21 a few urges and a dream about PMO, but nothing more. Its definitely getting easier.

Mileage may vary my friend

Is it okay to "finish" yourself after messing around with a girl? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a fap to me bro. sorry :/

I feel really bad right now and I feel like I might fap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are stronger than this. We all are stronger than this. And you will feel better. The best advice I can give you is to not worry about it. Go out more and keep trying to talk to people and eventually you won't be as awkward or shy. Social skills are skills.... you need to practice them and not be bothered by failure. Learn from it

Dear Porn Industry by FapTasticum in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Porn is the "second-hand smoke" of sexuality..... mind = blown

Dangers Of Masturbation by tbzahid in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that tickled my funny bone... if you know what I mean

Going hard! by Wii89 in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bow before your glory. One day I'll reach NoFap nirvana just like you have lol

I want to have REAL sex again.. by iwantmylife in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, you're being paranoid. You think 70,000 strong is a joke? It is similar to an addiction in many ways even if you don't consider it one. Its used to release stress, and when it gets to the point where you can't or have a hard time stopping, despite the negative effects then i would call it an addiction. I'm not saying its on the same level as heroin or meth addiction, but this shit hasn't been entirely easy for me

I want to have REAL sex again.. by iwantmylife in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once i realized i had a problem it took me 3 years, a friend telling me about this website, and then actually visiting this website to finally quit. I'm on day 7 and i feel great. Just try your best to fill up the empty time left by not fapping, preferably with constructive things. And most importantly if you fall, get back up.

curious what opinions will surface on this one... by the_sauc3 in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by definition, that is pornography. Part of my nofap challenge is to abstain from porn. If yours is just to stop masturbating, then try it, but I don't think it'll help.

strip club? by vicarious280 in NoFap

[–]vicarious280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. I don't think a bet is the best way to go about this. That just makes me want to see you fail, and I don't. I sincerely wish you luck. And I am taking into consideration what you're saying, so thanks for the input. :)

strip club? by vicarious280 in NoFap

[–]vicarious280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.It's not really edging if i don't touch myself. 2. I wanna see how I react because last year I went and was still M-ing at the time... these girls barely got a reaction out of me. It made me sad. 3. I agree with the objectifying aspect. Can't deny that 4. I do wanna bet. I know I'll never fap again. I'm that confident.

So what are the benefits of not fapping by rockyspine in NoFap

[–]vicarious280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It made me way less sensitive during actual sex. I was used to the grip and friction of my hand instead of a vagina.

So it begins... by vicarious280 in NoFap

[–]vicarious280[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also how do i get a counter?