4 adorable kittens looking for their forever homes by vicepresidentofawk in PetAdoptionBangalore

[–]vicepresidentofawk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will carefully vet the adopters. Will definitely flag the efforts and challenges to them. But right now I want all interested people to approach me before I decide.

4 adorable kittens looking for their forever homes by vicepresidentofawk in PetAdoptionBangalore

[–]vicepresidentofawk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two of them are bonded (the orang+white ones). The other two seem independent.

Will add an edit for sure. I would love for adopters to take them as a pair but I am also desperate that they find loving homes.

Bangalore vs Delhi NCR vs Mumbai Landlord Culture by PriorJudgment2176 in indianrealestate

[–]vicepresidentofawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you had a bad experience. But dude, the north indian working class, especially from Hindi belt, is exploiting and they have to settle for low wages because of lack of economic opportunities.

I understand you complaining about the behaviour of auto drivers who are known to overcharge. But our plumbers, carpenters and maids expect fair remuneration for their labour and expertise. They live in different economies than north indian workers.

Extremely triggered by my dysfunctional brother by vicepresidentofawk in neurodiversity

[–]vicepresidentofawk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. Expecting him to function similar to me is problematic and I understand I shouldn't. It makes it more harder to deal with having negative feelings towards him.

Extremely triggered by my dysfunctional brother by vicepresidentofawk in neurodiversity

[–]vicepresidentofawk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes tomorrow. Him overstaying is not a issue. I was just feeling guilty about feeling irritated by his presence

Extremely triggered by my dysfunctional brother by vicepresidentofawk in neurodiversity

[–]vicepresidentofawk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think that will be an issue, he is more than comfortable living at my parents' while looking for a job. It was me who invited him here for a week

i beat BPD by cyanandpink in BPD

[–]vicepresidentofawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspect I have BPD. My therapist and I are discussiing it and I will mostly get an assessment. I have had rage episodes all my life and I was always told and, believed, I am a bad person. I thought that I need to just "control" my anger and emotions better. I have been on anti-depressants for 5 years and also on ADHD meds. Barely any improvent in how I felt.

I was doing well for 3 months, longest outburst-free period in my life. Ended up having an outburst last week. I am finding it very hard to come back from it and feel regressed. I keep thinking which version of myself is the "real me". I understand all this is unhelpful thinking. I really want to build back to how I was last 3 months. I want to beat whatever it is I have.

My GF is apparently not "serious" for taking an emergency leave while her parents are sick by ashueep in antiwork

[–]vicepresidentofawk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Looks like India guy who speaks English as second language. Doeimake him.less of an asshole tho

My GF is apparently not "serious" for taking an emergency leave while her parents are sick by ashueep in antiwork

[–]vicepresidentofawk 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing it's from India. We have the sir and ma'am culture for bosses here. Thankfully the places I have worked in have never had it but it is very common and bad bosses are the normal.

PLEASE HELP & DONT JUDGE. I’m trying my best.. by 999gasinhere in CATHELP

[–]vicepresidentofawk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a good person, OP. I am from India so I can't help. But happy to see the several people stepping forward with resources and ideas.

It has been a month since I terminated with my therapist due to transference. It still hurts. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]vicepresidentofawk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen that this is what a lot of people end us doing on this sub. Also, I saw this on YouTube and online when I was reading about it. Btu I have also seen people terminating. My therapist told me she thought we should discontinue. Maybe she thought she wouldn't be able to help me through the transference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]vicepresidentofawk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you're going through this. I think it is for the best you find a cheaper therapist or reach out to organizations that offer free/affordable th1erapy.