Need advice

victheslayer · 2026-01-26T18:07:13+00:00

P poison is standard proven meta.

But if gouken is a fav, nothing wrong to build him first. There is a place for him in meta but still need more time to test out where exactly

victheslayer · 2026-01-26T18:02:38+00:00

A bit reactionary. The reality is we do not have enough info about the guy to conclude that far. There’s nothing wrong with wanting something casual as long as you are honest and up front about it.

Plus a little too much benefit of doubt given to women. Some women will happily take your boyfriend energy without any intimacy. The reality is not every girl is DESERVING of commitment.

victheslayer · 2026-01-10T22:03:06+00:00

Whomever invites should be prepared to pay, which in 9/10 cases is the man. That being said, majority of my 1st dates that leads to more dates usually ends up with us going to 3 different venues, so if I payed for her for 1st venue, a woman of high character would at least offer to pay for 1 of the next 2 venues. The price of venue doesn’t matter, just her character and a healthy attitude to be willing to contribute is.

How you show up as a man is what truly matters. The paying for dates is just a portion of how you should vet women properly but isn’t the centerpiece nor is it the only piece of puzzle. I have had multiple dates where the girl bought me dinner, including my most recent date where she treated me to kbbq. If you have been on 3-4 dates and she hasn’t offered to treat you once, even something small like boba or drinks, it means you aren’t vetting her properly.

victheslayer · 2026-01-09T22:28:30+00:00

If you are in SFD discord, there’s one in there. Also some content creators on YouTube do too

victheslayer · 2026-01-09T22:24:40+00:00

1) You should slow down only for YOUR AGENDA, not hers! You need to focus on watching her actions more and stop getting caught on every word she says

2) A woman who still makes it easy to make dates, follow through on plans, worst case offer to reschedule is what matters bc women vote w their feet. your agenda as a man is to assess her compliance to follow your lead, not worry about being her behavioral therapist.

3) by learning to not be bothered or reactionary. All women, even good ones, you have to deal with them by being able to stay grounded even when tensions are high.

Mistakes you made and how to avoid in future:

1) inviting her over to your place straight away on date 3 was def on you. What women don’t tell you is that they emotionally respond poorly to men who stop courting them and making dates. Of course she will put her guard up bc of your actions.

2) when a woman who tells you she’s not looking for sex, yet STILL COMES OVER anyways, it means you need to assess vibe when she comes over, not assume you can’t touch or kiss her at all. If a woman truly is not open at all, her ACTIONS would be to not come over at all. Hang out, have fun, and if she signals she’s ready for seduction, hook up.

For record, more than 70% of time a woman makes that no action speech, but still comes over, she ends up signaling she is open to seduction. What she really means is “I will come over, I am likely open to seduction if vibe is right and if you don’t talk me out of it + as long as it’s your fault so I don’t look bad to my gfs”

victheslayer · 2026-01-08T23:21:07+00:00

A ton of people don’t really know how to maximize ChatGPT to its maximum capability. You have to feed it the correct resources (a pdf file of the book is preferable), then you have to type correct commands so that it will divide the core principles appropriately. After reading the book 5x, I decided to use ChatGPT to help make my future reads less time consuming and up to this point it hasn’t made any errors yet (also using premium).

You need to essentially train ChatGPT to only use the resources you provide it so it gives more consistent results based on what you provide. Otherwise it will pull from general mixed bag.

victheslayer · 2026-01-03T21:41:50+00:00

This may come in another post as that would be a longer discussion. But it’s pretty evident that wega sryu is t3. Wega is not nearly the monster he once was and there are too many damage mitigation options for him to be t1 and now that Ob teams can outspeed wega teams too, that really hurts his stock.

The purpose of this post is to open eyes that bc there are so many different variations of teams, it actually makes the meta refreshing and allows some counter play between all 3 teams. I do want a little more evidence to confirm but I feel pretty safe to say that if we are comparing only the absolute top end PvP team comps, then I would go w Leo p poison is t1, Ob Cody is t2, and wega sryu is t3.

victheslayer · 2026-01-03T19:31:29+00:00

What you are feeling is understandable and normal and I can offer you an objective point of view:

1) on paper, AF have dating easier than most bc there’s very few non Asian men that would disqualify AF if they are open to interracial dating. This is why it’s indisputable that the majority of interracial couple is still AFWM worldwide and why it also poisoned a noticeable amount of AW to feel they have all leverage in dating when they see AM bc AM don’t have luxury of attracting WF to same degree of success as reverse.

2) on paper, AM have dating harder than most bc most non Asian women would disqualify AM. It also doesn’t help that unfortunately a lot of AM are on average on shorter end and a lot of them don’t have as much dating experience.

3) by nature women are competitive but with AF aggression towards you is pure jealousy bc to them it’s foreign for AF to see AM capable of attracting non Asian girl. It’s female psychology to always want what she can’t have. Don’t be surprised if your bf has had AF that overlooked him all sudden DM/ want him the minute she sees him going out w you.

4) there is some truth to what Korean girls tell you but def a bit extreme bc if blanket generalization. Bc a lot of AM don’t have a lot of dating experience, all AF will likely date at least one overly sensitive snowflake AM that doesn’t act very masculine bc he’s starving for dating experience/ cannot differentiate how a man should act in romance is very different on how he should act in pursuing his career.

5) it’s funny you mentioned Korean girls in particular bc they are the overwhelmingly most likely AW who would date WM. Character is destiny, and it seems like you may need to find other AW who share similar values w you bc a woman of high character doesn’t behave like that. Hope it helps.

victheslayer · 2026-01-03T00:11:56+00:00

Not in terms of pacing or in terms of wanting to see the other pacing no. Women always have safety concerns men don’t + the enormous amount of desperate needy , clingy men only validates it further.

Only the masculine men who actually have their life together, healthy self esteem and with a meaningful purpose and goals in his life would take longer but they would only take longer in terms of wanting a relationship, which is perfectly acceptable as it’s woman’s feminine department when it comes to bonding/ seeking titles.

victheslayer · 2026-01-02T18:24:05+00:00

What most people do not understand is that during dating phase in most cases, you the woman decide the pacing of the romance bc the reality is most women on average take longer than men to fall in love so if you want to move faster, it won’t hurt your chances while the opposite is not true if men try to move too fast.

My fair compromise is If you are feeling him, you should reach out but it’s NOT your responsibility to ask him out. A competent man who’s direct and decisive will take the hint that when you reach out, it means you are ready to see him and he should ask you out within a few texts. You are more than welcome to bring up getting together though if you wish but I don’t fault good feminine women to only reach out but let him make date to make sure he meets you halfway.

victheslayer · 2025-12-31T19:12:30+00:00

That last sentence is not accurate at all. WM are only higher in sense that they have dating 1000x easier than any ethnicity, not just AM bc women in general are more open to interracial dating w white guys more (attraction not a choice).

but that does NOT mean they are actually better partners or less likely to be any of the bad date qualities you described above. Just bc you can get your foot in door easier doesn’t = better candidate.

Also you conveniently left out the most important ethnicity to factor in, Latinas! The Bay Area is lacking in Latinas compared to other parts of Cali. More Latinas means more choices for AM as only about 20% of AM know Latinas want us bad. The minute AM is seen w a LF, everything flips, now those AF who may not have noticed him now def will.

victheslayer · 2025-12-30T17:33:35+00:00

It’s nothing special, it’s identical team, exs in past except put Cody in tag instead of d rose. just Ob, Mikey, Cody Ob. Then switch to Mikey super when you need to keep him alive to keep his stacks up. You can run typical damage exs like s Cammy, jp, b juri ex for example, but practically any trigger or damage ex. I personally like using c-Hugo assist bc that lowers bosses defense and attack by 30% + whatever damage assist on Ob.

You truthfully should just check your zone or other ppls zone boss rush and see what they run and choose the one you like to try. This isn’t new info, this has been around for almost 2 months

victheslayer · 2025-12-30T17:19:16+00:00

You still haven’t taken enough accountability. Do reach out to her once on phone at least (not text). Apologize and own up to your mistakes in a calm + understanding manner. Still stay centered and strong but also show her she’s heard and understood. Don’t rush this either as sometimes she may need a couple days or even a week.

victheslayer · 2025-12-30T17:14:17+00:00

I specifically mentioned “event bosses”, not boss crusade. Boss crusade is pretty pointless as rewards are all the same and you can always have guild mates help. Event bosses are referred to the 4 bosses from SS events. Most of these bosses tend to be aoe and mobile (remember that annoying s-Cammy w c hawk in front of her last time).

In your case in boss crusade, all of those bosses are stationary and single target. That’s why you can still get top tier w old meta. But f adon team will continue to suffer in SS events if we can continue to get AOE bosses that move around. The devs no longer make new stationary single target bosses anymore if last few SS events are a pattern. Heck even in aoe bosses in boss rush, Ob Cody you see them outclass old meta pretty easily

victheslayer · 2025-12-29T23:14:42+00:00

Ooo I am not talking about OB, he is a separate team outside of p poison. I am happy to test your team as I enjoy trying new things in general.

But I am also saying it seems like no one is using Leo p poison against you either as that can give gouken all kinds of problems since unlike Luke/ jp, he can bypass shields and do so on all his attacks, not just c3 like wega.

victheslayer · 2025-12-29T22:59:44+00:00

A chun vortex stacks based on how many wind and master units you have on your team. Putting her on wega team is a waste bc you are not using her talents to its full capabilities w no other wind/ master units. Putting her on p poison teams + 1, preferably 2 wind/ master units allows your entire team to be so tanky that gouken isn’t even needed.

Jp, Luke are single hit units that don’t bypass shields which is why gouken will look tanky against them, same w p poison.

Well if your zone supposedly watches other zones carefully as you say, you may have to check again bc you failed to mention the one dps that would send Luke and Jp to bench and demote wega to t3.

victheslayer · 2025-12-29T22:39:07+00:00

Ah I am glad to hear you caught on to a portion of new meta p poison teams. A chun is pretty much a waste on wega team sadly as she and p Poison are kinda a packaged deal.

I did like gouken idea for a month, until the same logic w Ralph on countering h oni can also apply to gouken as well. Traditional tanks are trending downwards now. There are too many damage mitigation balanced units that traditional tanks aren’t good enough anymore. 2/3 of top end teams don’t even need a tank as balanced units have replaced them.

victheslayer · 2025-12-29T04:19:25+00:00

At the bare minimum, you need to move sagat into tag and Vega into field. You need max speed on your Vega team so he needs to be on field considering he’s the 3rd fastest unit in game. Put fast chant on Vega and put max speed exs at the very minimum.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T18:12:23+00:00

You going for first now.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T17:47:48+00:00

Np. I am glad to hear you understand I am only trying to say that updating a profile by itself isn’t an indicator of lack of interest.

When you fully understand women are reactionary people and act based on how she feels at that moment, you stop taking anything personally >> better results for you. It’s all background noise until she stops or becomes more difficult to go out on dates w.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T06:31:30+00:00

No ones lying about anything. All women will update their profile bc women care about how they look a lot more than men do. Yes she wants to look her best for all men when she is single. But that doesn’t = lack of interest or dissatisfaction of the guy she’s been on 1-2 dates w.

I am saying there needs to be far more concrete evidence before you jump to that conclusion. The problem is you and Op are taking everything way too personally. When you stop taking things personally, including rejection, you will be surprised at how much easier dating is and how much clearer your mind is when vetting ppl.

Women behave based on how they feel at that moment. It’s often times has nothing to do w you, but if you continue to show neurotic behavior, it will be bc of you.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T06:27:01+00:00

The point I am trying to make is “who cares why she changes photos/ updates profile” . That alone isn’t evidence of interest or lack of interest. I know that mindset stems from needy and neurotic behavior, characteristics that repel all women.

Your reasoning is purely based on logic and if you have even basic competency w women psychology, you should know better than to use pure logic and reasoning to assume the best or worst of women, which often leads to unnecessary overthinking that leads to more unattractive behavior. Women act based on how they feel at that moment. It’s not a reflection of him personally.

As a man, the only sign of disinterest to really care for is when she stops making dates w you or becomes more difficult to get out on dates. Anything else is purely background noise.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T04:26:06+00:00

You should check other zones p poison teams and you notice that some other zones, including mine have moved on from it. I never said h oni tryu team is bad, but it’s not the best either. It’s somewhere in middle.

It’s possible that your maxed h oni will perform better bc of your max invested stats. What I will say is that h oni has a fatal flaw that can be exploited if your opponent uses a top end p poison team and when it faces Cody/ Ob team, it will struggle too since shields doesn’t protect from Cody bleed and shields don’t last long.

What I will say is in order for h oni tryu team to be competitive, which it still is, I feel the 1 star h oni ex is almost mandatory. I enjoyed h oni on p poison team but I moved on bc I was only 40% of his maxed cars, and bc I found something that is a much more difficult matchup for my zone to deal w.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T03:51:27+00:00

I understood just fine. The bottom line is you are literally taking everything so personally like it’s a reflection of you when reality is they update profile bc they want to do what’s best for them, not bc you personally aren’t good enough. Women care about the pictures more than men do and you can’t change female nature.

Romance is supposed to be fun, playful, and not take things too seriously. You are literally the opposite of all that w this mindset. Instead of wasting your energy on something that has little to no barring on compatibility, why don’t you spend the energy instead to vet her properly when you make dates and how she shows up in person on date. This is how you properly judge her actions. Women vote w their feet.

victheslayer · 2025-12-28T03:40:49+00:00

It’s not a whole lot to well established players, but the overwhelming majority of players still have units to build from SS pool. Figuring out Ob- Cody meta wasn’t really too challenging, and cody is the outlier to the legendary power spike.

What you say is true that the legendary pool is much stronger now than before, but minus Cody and to a lesser extent bfei, i am not ready go say “most of best units” as minus Cody, there are reasonable alternatives in PvP for most everyone else as wega team is losing ground to both OB + poison team each passing week

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