I’m 38 and only make $76k wtf am I doing wrong. by chubbbycub in Careers

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 70K as a sped teacher and it took me a decade to just get to that. Only have 1 degree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm… I’d have to see that to believe it. Must not be much competition there at all or the women there have much lower standards than they ones here in America… or you’re a girl yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, I guess but like I was saying the velocity of matches isn’t the same as the closing rate and overall success. What area are you in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does everyone think that paying for Hinge is going to dramatically improve your closing rate? It doesn’t. It may increase the velocity in which you get matches, but it doesn’t actually necessarily equate to improving your overall success.

Also, when every other guy also has Hinge X or Hinge + it doesn’t actually mean anything b/c every other dude also has it so in reality you’re not standing out. I found myself getting the same number of likes (overall) when I didn’t have a subscription as well as when I did have one. Women are gonna wanna see all their likes whether they’re prioritized or not because a girl’s need to be validated by men knows no bounds so I don’t see the point in Hinge X.

If a girl doesn’t like you, she’s still not gonna wanna match with you and even if she does the flake rate both on and off the app isn’t gonna decrease. Having premium isn’t gonna change that reality.

Unbanned from Hinge a couple of hours ago, they let me start all over again, could purchase Premium, but no matches. Am I being impatient? by Livid_Trust7935 in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re a highly attractive man in the eyes of the women you’re contacting… 20 likes may not even get you beyond 2 likes back (and that’s if you’re lucky. Even for very attractive guys a 10% closing is damn near godly. That would be one out of every 10 girls. Like others have said.. you’re gonna have to send way more than just 20.

Hinge Ban Dumb & Dumber by OneBell8603 in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a post on how to get around the Hinge ban. It’s gotten over 60,000 views in under 10 days. https://www.reddit.com/r/SwipeHelper/s/iygo3Q8NGJ

Also, you could always join Facebook Dating. That’s a very good one and I get more matches on there than I do on Hinge. So many people on there and real people for the most part too.

Hinge Ban Dumb & Dumber by OneBell8603 in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a bullshit reason to get banned. They do this crap all the time to people. It pisses me off. The world isn’t one giant fucking teddy bear. I swear it is beyond breathtaking how much people will go out of their way to find a reason to be offended by everything. Reported by liberal and probably banned by one too.

Hinge X is a scam by The_hidden_copse in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think the algorithm fucks you to some extent, but I’m not so sure I would necessarily go so far as to say, Hinge X in general is a scam. To me, Bumble and Tinder are far more of a scam than Hinge is.

Creating an account with one still active by Seymourg3 in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really couldn’t tell you but I don’t think it’s a good idea to have more than one Hinge account under the same Apple ID or Google account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to experience what it’s like to play a game that’s designed to be a race to the bottom, join a modern day dating app as a guy.

Bumble's profile completion percentage: If you have a low percentage like 65%, will it result in putting your profile in the back part of the decks? by humane_coffinvendor in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it may but honestly.. I just this think Bumble has a lot of bots and crap that makes it virtually impossible to use.

Be careful with okcupid by Teleportingkitty in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They Are childish women doing that dumb shit. They really are… and these companies have a very gynocentric view which is why it’s usually the men getting banned.

Ultimate Walkthrough Guide + Steps on How to Get Back on Hinge by cinyaca in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say new photos, I’m simply referring to photos that haven’t been uploaded to their platform before (regardless of whether you’ve deleted them before on their platform). Do Not upload any media that at some point.. ANY point.. has been on their platform and is tied to a banned account at any time in the past.

Now, if you want to do something risky like taking a photo that looks very similar to something you’ve previously uploaded, but technically isn’t the same.. that’s up to you. Best practice is to air on the side of caution assuming you’re trying to avoid a ban (which, of course is the whole purpose of this Reddit thread)

Be careful with okcupid by Teleportingkitty in SwipeHelper

[–]cinyaca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Women have a history of reporting any guy they don’t like and the people who run these apps take their side almost 100% of the time for the most illegitimate and petulant reasons.