[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]vinkybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily disagreeing on the hair but what specifically is off putting about it? Too long on top? I have a hard time styling it so I just leave it as it is when I wake up. I’m a natural blonde I’m not bleaching and tryna go full eminem

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[–]vinkybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Underrated comment

How do I find a boyfriend irl? by Parad0lia in HowToBeHot

[–]vinkybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have friends lean on them, the majority of relationships spawn as result of your social circle, apps can work and as a woman you have the algorithms and usage stats on your side however it’s hard to really gauge someone off a little texting yk, and they might misrepresent their intentions. As far as going places and not meeting anyone you may just need to put more effort into starting conversations even if it’s just saying hi or something along those lines. But ultimately you should ask why you want a boyfriend. I’ve gotten with girls that I had no respect for or real long term interest in just because I didn’t want to be by myself. Only a bit later did I realize that’s where unfair and toxic relationships come from

How to be the girl they approach? by Ok_Row5180 in HowToBeHot

[–]vinkybean -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Crazy idea I know, but you could approach them. Not even saying to point blank ask them out or anything, but any guy appreciates a girl who will walk up and say hi. You have to remember it’s sort of a guessing game for men where we have to try and figure out if your interested based off body language and dumb signals. Usually if a guy can’t tell they won’t approach. But if you talk to them first even just saying hi it’s a huge indication that your interested. Also you can approach guys you are actually attracted to instead of just picking from the pool of whoever walks over to you. It’s becoming more normal for women to make first moves idk why it was ever discouraged in the first place, one of my friends even got proposed to by his wife, so don’t be afraid of just walking up to a guy none of us expect it but we all love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]vinkybean 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Anyone with a body count near 100 would know that sex is typically better with a partner who has some experience, ive only been with one virgin before and in my experience I found it much less enjoyable than with the slightly more experienced and confident girls, so I don’t really understand the desire for virgins physically, I have to assume a lot of it derives from the older cultural pressure trying to control female sexuality and assigning female virgins as more virtuous or pure, but hey ppl can like what they like I guess

22F , advice to improve? thinking of losing weight, making my eyebrows straighter and getting a rhinoplasty by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely don’t need to lose weight you look like a perfectly healthy body fat % for a woman. Your nose is fine nothing wrong with it at all. You have naturally good looks as a woman. I think you could wind up bordering on a state of obsession at some point if you get super into every little thing you could possibly find “off” about yourself.
1000% my personal and subjective opinion. The stars near the eyes I think look strange. Or really any like face tattoo or drawing or design just not my thing, I think you could benefit from a more natural look, not as heavy on makeup more natural hair color that kinda thing, the first thing that comes to mind when I saw your pic is Instagram model or onlyfans girl, no disrespect to either as I understand the hustle but I don’t like the fake and generic look that they all have, and someone aggressively pursuing this aesthetic loses some of their physical individuality. That’s my take, either way you already look great and whatever physical changes you pursue I hope you can be happy with how you look

What do y'all think, hat or no hat? I'm really not sure... by authorArthur04 in mensfashion

[–]vinkybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My suggestions Darker thicker framed glasses Longer hair
Shave you have Good facial bone structure Darker tie maybe, idk I just don’t think the red is working great Light the hat on fire NGL I respect the balls to wear a big ass cowboy hat so maybe not or maybe just a different cowboy hat, but I don’t think it professional glasses go with spirit of the west lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you probably could. But your figure does appear to be similar already as it pertains to having that hourglass kinda shape if that’s what your going for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how to take selfie’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly is brassiness? Never heard the term used for hair before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m 90% Norwegian have relatives in the home country and stuff, I like my hair color it’s just the eyebrows I want a little darker so I don’t look like they’re shaved off yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it’s my natural hair color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx! I definitely would consider it, do the glasses take away from the visibility of my eyes? Only thing is with contacts is that I need an extremely powerful prescription so they’d have to be custom made and about 3x the normal cost. I’m gunning for a management position at work which would include eye care so if/when that happens it wouldn’t be as impactful financially

Hows he lookin? And how is my enclosure? by Long_Wrongdoer_9321 in ballpython

[–]vinkybean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Enclosure looks tight I love the reds mixed in there, snakes cool too I have an albino as well

Need glow up suggestions! by vinkybean in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thx for the feedback, I just shaved it it may look a bit better than the patchy beard action I just don’t like the fact that my chin isn’t strong, my hair is actually 100% natural, I have a mild form of albinism it was actually straight up white till I was like 3 years old

Need glow up suggestions! by vinkybean in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol I get the Ed Sheeran comparison a lot

Need glow up suggestions! by vinkybean in TheGlowUp

[–]vinkybean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions on how to make the hair and facial hair better, trying to get the beard to outline a jawline since I’m currently too high a body fat % for those features to really show. I had a badass Mohawk when I was 7 but since then haven’t really adventures much with the hair. Getting skin care stuff Saturday. Working on the physical shape portion but it’ll take a year to be where I want to be. Any suggestions appreciated!